Why so some SP's not like DFK or its restriction?

[LC18]

That’s a reality, a lot of people offer GFE without it or offer it based on the famous YMMV…

A standardization wouldn’t hurt..

1. Reading reviews always help

2. Obviously double checking before confirming the booking

3.Using mouthwash and letting the SP lead instead of shoving your tongue as deep as you can

 

[NFLMEL]

When I book I ask for GFE no restrictions & no YMMV. There are plenty to chose from.

 

[Valentina]

I had to change my menu titles to avoid being told off by people who want the classic GFE… yes, told off lmao.

Put yourselves in our shoes for a second and ask yourselves what you’d be comfortable offering… if your service doesn’t include DATY or DATO then how would you advertise yourself exactly? GFE or no? 75% GFE? It’s different for everyone.

Be sure who offers what before booking.

As a client POV, I personally wouldn’t kiss an SP - knowing I may not be her first client of the day. But hey mouthwash @Toto beefcake HAHA

Don’t forget - brushing and flossing teeth can create micro fissures and cause bleeding … not advisable to suck cock while tears are present!!!
Same thing with freshly shaved PPs.

- Food for thots

 

[Enjoying life]

This and SPs saying they would never allow thier partner to see SPs. I remember the first time I was at an MP and she said she only offered hj/bj because she has a boyfriend. I don't remember how the conversation got there but she said she would leave him if she found out he went to an MP. I asked if he knew what she did for work and she said no! Lol!

What a joke she’s selfish

 

[Valentina]

she said she only offered hj/bj because she has a boyfriend.

That’s uhh...

Why is she even offering services then? It’s like going to Baton Rouge, being seated at a table by the hostess, ordering a meal - but being told that you have to go in the kitchen and cook the meal for yourself.

 

[DouMan]

What a joke she’s selfish

Sure might look that way but let's be fair and look at the bigger picture ...

We see escorts, cool. Would we be comfortable if we knew our SO goes out to parrtay with her bffs and gets laid?
Who knows she may even, God forbid, add in some DFK's.

Naw, we would be ok with it cause we're not selfish

 

[CLOUD 500]

Sure might look that way but let's be fair and look at the bigger picture ...

We see escorts, cool. Would we be comfortable if we new our SO goes out to parrtay with her bffs and gets laid?
Who knows she may even, God forbid, add in some DFK's.

Naw, we would be ok with it cause we're not selfish

It would not be a problem if it is an open relationship that goes both ways. The problem arises when one can and does it in secret but forbids the other.

 

[Julia Sky]

When I book I ask for GFE no restrictions & no YMMV. There are plenty to chose from.

Can you describe "no restrictions"? This is so vague, everybody has restrictions. "No restrictions" implies you're ok with being pegged, or you might expect anal or fetishes for a GFE - who knows lol. There is no such thing as "no restrictions" you should ask the provider if she offers what you want specifically to avoid misunderstandings.

 

[Julia Sky]

It would not be a problem if it is an open relationship that goes both ways. The problem arises when one can and does it in secret but forbids the other.

If it goes both way then surely you're also getting paid for it in the case of dating an escort ? Or are you conflating a job with polyamory or open relationships?

(Although I will say, the hypocrisy in that specific girl's scenario didn't go unnoticed lol)

 

[LC18]

As a client POV, I personally wouldn’t kiss an SP - knowing I may not be her first client of the day. But hey mouthwash @Toto beefcake HAHA

Oh?

 

[LC18]

Can you describe "no restrictions"? This is so vague, everybody has restrictions. "No restrictions" implies you're ok with being pegged, or you might expect anal or fetishes for a GFE - who knows lol. There is no such thing as "no restrictions" you should ask the provider if she offers what you want specifically to avoid misunderstandings.

Personally when someone approaches me and requests “no restrictions” I read it as “bbfs” or “he wants to abuse me”…

I prefer being asked “do you have any restrictions?” than being told “I’m looking for someone with no restrictions”

Edit: typo

 

[Valentina]

Oh?

Yup. Personally

Not the only one with this POV. It’s not meant to offend at all - it’s a mental / personal thing.

Clients also say they wanna avoid DATY DATO …

that’s different because I can really wash my crevices deeply unlike blasting my mouth with a pressure washer every time / causing rips and tears.

 

[LC18]

Yup. Personally

Not the only one with this POV. It’s not meant to offend at all - it’s a mental / personal thing.

Clients also say they wanna avoid DATY DATO …

that’s different because I can really wash my crevices deeply unlike blasting my mouth with a pressure washer every time / causing rips and tears.

Ok I just wanted to be sure I read that correctly

 

[Julia Sky]

Personally when someone approaches me and requests “no restrictions” I read it as “bbfs” or “he wants to abuse me”…

I prefer being asked “do you have any restrictions?” then being told “I’m looking for someone with no restrictions”

I don't like either but if I had to choose one then I agree with you. Still, when someone asks "do you have restrictions?" my answer is : everybody does. What are you looking for exactly?

 

[CLOUD 500]

If it goes both way then surely you're also getting paid for it in the case of dating an escort ? Or are you conflating a job with polyamory or open relationships?

(Although I will say, the hypocrisy in that specific girl's scenario didn't go unnoticed lol)

Well I meant in the context of this board and to the person that posted something that I responded in reference to, if I am in a relationship with a girl that wants to go party and get laid then I want to be able to party and get laid also as in a polyamory and open relationship. That is exactly what I meant. But also in reference to what you are asking here, if I happen to be in a relationship with a woman that happens to be a SP, then I also would want to be able to see other SPs. Just saying it got to work both ways.

 

[Valentina]

Well I meant in the context of this board and to the person that posted something that I responded in reference to, if I am in a relationship with a girl that wants to go party and get laid then I want to be able to party and get laid also as in a polyamory and open relationship. That is exactly what I meant. But also in reference to what you are asking here, if I happen to be in a relationship with a woman that happens to be a SP, then I also would want to be able to see other SPs. Just saying it got to work both ways.

I see what you’re saying. That is indeed a personal thing and a discussion needs to happen between those two parties.

There’s different possibilities at play, such as; Cuckhold BFs who enjoy having an SP GF. And yes, you’d be surprised, they can present themselves as completely “alpha” physically/ personality wise, but have this as personal fantasy.

 

[Enjoying life]

I don't like either but if I had to choose one then I agree with you. Still, when someone asks "do you have restrictions?" my answer is : everybody does. What are you looking for exactly?

love when a sp offers golden its so personal and hot!

 

[Toto beefcake]

I see what you’re saying. That is indeed a personal thing and a discussion needs to happen between those two parties.

There’s different possibilities at play, such as; Cuckhold BFs who enjoy having an SP GF. And yes, you’d be surprised, they can present themselves as completely “alpha” physically/ personality wise, but have this as personal fantasy.

Alot of bodybuilders who are juiced up like this type of stuff. And trannies. The roids play with their mind .

Also open relationships are bogus. At that point just be single . Lol

 

[Toto beefcake]

love when a sp offers golden its so personal and hot!

Ya the pee to must be warm on your skin

 

[Fradi]

Sure might look that way but let's be fair and look at the bigger picture ...

We see escorts, cool. Would we be comfortable if we knew our SO goes out to parrtay with her bffs and gets laid?
Who knows she may even, God forbid, add in some DFK's.

Naw, we would be ok with it cause we're not selfish

Nah.
Rules are simple, I wouldn’t fuck around if I had a significant other/wife, and I would leave her if she did.
I don’t share people I love and I don’t expect them to either.