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    Good dating sites

    I have tried pof for at least 2 years. Quite a prude crowd there just like most Americans.
    Those 2 sites are the biggest sites in the USa and have a policy of no shirt-off pics and no sexual language/asking anything about sex/even mentioning sex AT ALL (even as a joke).
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    But who am I kidding right?. Pof and Okcupid are American sites and USA is the most sexually repressed western country and the most violent country in the world!. Most sites that advertise as sexually open to find partners are fake and only very stupid people will sign up and pay money to them. But there are still enough suckers out there that do sign up just like there there are suckers who are conned by some escorts (10% escorts are like that).

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    Try meet up. You pick an activity you like and meet people with similar interest. They also have singles parties.

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    Quote Originally Posted by november View Post
    Try meet up. You pick an activity you like and meet people with similar interest. They also have singles parties.
    Thanks but I am in IT and I am a member of enough groups in my field. Besides, most people who join social groups in their field or hobbies have a very slim chance of finding someone of the opposite sex that they might end up in bed with. Most American meeting/dating sites are created for motives that are so prudish (yes , sex is a big part of human life and is ignored only prudes) are useless in nature even if they do put Canada and Europe as possible locations. Most Europeans socialize the old fashioned way. By being friendly, open, outgoing, social and open to sexual advances/acceptance. Americans mature later in life socially and sexually not to mention emotionally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by azzaro View Post
    Americans mature later in life socially and sexually not to mention emotionally.
    So you're saying there's still hope for me?


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    I tried HowAboutWe, Had a few encounters. Met some really interesting civie gals on there. Two of them we dated for a few months. The rest I still keep in contact with and hang out but nothing serious though.

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    J'ai essayé plusieurs sites de rencontres. Il faut être un bel homme pour avoir le droit de rencontrer ou d'avir une réponse positive. Je n'ai jamais eu le droit de rencontrer. Je n'y crois pllus pour les hommes qui, comme moi, ressemblent à Cyrano de Bergerac.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SylvainP View Post
    J'ai essayé plusieurs sites de rencontres. Il faut être un bel homme pour avoir le droit de rencontrer ou d'avir une réponse positive. Je n'ai jamais eu le droit de rencontrer. Je n'y crois pllus pour les hommes qui, comme moi, ressemblent à Cyrano de Bergerac.
    So Sylvain I agree with you.
    If a guy is ugly looking, he has much less chance of meeting any girl who is decent looking.
    However, most women on dating sites say that personality matters the most and looks are not that important. So who is lying and who has the upper hand in dating. Its women most of the time in USA and most of Canada. Europe is quite diffrent from here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phoenixdawn View Post
    Dating sites are the same thing that in real life. But the only difference is that want you got in quantity you don't necessarily get it in quality. I use a lot reseaucontact.com in the past and I meet quite a lot of wowen, but it a lot of work to find the one. It's not a question of looking good, because three of my friends that aren't so beautiful were getting more laid than me. Sometimes is timing and what you wrote in your profile and messages that you send. But i'm more like Azzaro, europeans still have it, the old fashion way is the best. We're so frigid in north america compare in Europe. But it's just my opinion.
    Since women have the upper hand in North America I would classify them like this ==> Half of them have been very very sexually active with losers and now want a "nice guy". But in trying to find a nice guy, they will take "revenge" on several hundred of the nice guys too since the women have become sort of haters of men first. The other half are the prudes in North America. Never been kissed, never been touched, never socialized or did not have the opportunity to socialize (social background/small town etc). I would say less than 5% of women are TRULY on the sites to actually meet nice guys/socialize.

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    Why would a guy in a right mind want to have a steady and long term relationship with a woman. Unless you are a young guy and never been in a long term relationship, you would want to try that. Ask any guy with experience, they would tell you stay away from that commitment. The best way is to pay for what you want and once you are out the door the crap won't follow you the whole day. You will be your own boss and king of your own domain. The way it goes now days soon we will have to get paid to be performing as escorts and masseurs. Women are occupying more and more well paid jobs and positions in work force now and the number of male agencies serving female clients is in a rise. Just make sure you are in a good shape when that time comes. And no the nice guys would never have a chance , cus mostly they don't have either money or stamina for female psychology. Women always after bad boys ( wild, rich and handsome like sons of anarchy type) and men always after nice girls ( quite, sexy and pretty with or without money or education) . This is written in our genes .

    It is a funny video , you may have watched it before . It is about us against them https://youtu.be/J19gC_5vHrg
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    OkCupid is a site where one can find BBWs to connect with, if somebody is into that. Even though there is no mention of that in the site ads anywhere on the internet. BBWs need love (and sex) too. But alas, there are too many overweight girls in North America...and they refuse to slim down!. I would say close to 50% of women in most of USA and 25% in Canada are overweight by more than 40% of what they should be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by azzaro View Post
    But who am I kidding right?. Pof and Okcupid are American sites and USA is the most sexually repressed western country and the most violent country in the world!. Most sites that advertise as sexually open to find partners are fake and only very stupid people will sign up and pay money to them. But there are still enough suckers out there that do sign up just like there there are suckers who are conned by some escorts (10% escorts are like that).
    Actually POF is Canadian, it started in Vancouver.

    I have had quite a bit of success on there but it's tough!
    Stay thirsty my friends

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meter View Post
    Why would a guy in a right mind want to have a steady and long term relationship with a woman.
    The best way is to pay for what you want and once you are out the door the crap won't follow you the whole day.
    You will be your own boss and king of your own domain.
    Ya ! This guy knows what he's talking bout !

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    I'm on OKcupid and i've met a terrefic chix there, she's just perfect. I also met a couples of persons that are now friends.
    I also mention that I'm a sex worker, people are pretty friendly and open-minded, lot's of artistic persons. More complete is your profile and the better chances you'll get. Also I find the match questions quite interesting.

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    I can't help but be curious, Azzaro, if you were given a half-million dollars to design a uniquely Canadian- controlled dating site, how it would be so much better and different than the ones controlled by these sexually-repressed and violent Americans? I really do not think the stereotypes you describe are entirely true, since i think the Americans (granted at least kind of the founders was Asian-American) designed and control the sugar baby, seeking arrangement, alt.com, and swinger dating sites, all of which are very sexual.

    I think the problem with dating sites for merb members occurs as a result of differences in expectations. We get accustomed to tremendous sex from cute, young, fun girls, an hour at a time, and sometimes wonder why that arrangement is not readily available in much longer time frames at little of no cost, perhaps even over a lifetime, from girls on the dating sites. I think very few of the women on the more traditional dating sites are really offering what most of us desire. In fact, if I really did a profile of what I am looking for (in a traditional non-paying arrangement) it would be funny - although I would get few responses. It is a reasonable business model for these dating sites to choose not to cater to guys like me.

    A very basic problem with dating sites for most guys who routinely see merb-style escorts is that the lack of time (and the availability of some - but not a lot - of surplus cash). I find that a tremendous number of women on traditional dating sites have high expectations regarding the time that the potential suitors can devote to the process. Lots of emailing and texting - not good for the guy who is accustomed to seeing quality escorts and spending his time the way he chooses. That can be replaced if the guy is loaded, but most guys here are not. Merb is a middle-class mongering site. In theory, these two problems go away if both parties have a lot in common, but hell, most people who are ideal dating partners got married to someone they met in high school and college (when time and familiarity and lack of baggage were easier to come by). I am not saying that long-term singles are losers - the realities of life and the need for many workers to be transient and get a lot of education destroys a lot of opportunities for stable relationships to begin at a young age and to keep going. And as many have pointed out, fewer women need to get married for economic purposes than in previous years.

    I guess what I am trying to say is that I think dating sites are useful to fiddle with from time to time, but must be entered into with a high degree of skepticism and the willingness to back out of an obvious mismatch that does not suit the guy's needs and desires. For quality sex, this Merb might be the best "dating" site in the world, at least for an hour at a time.

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