I thought I would bring this up as I had a very bad experience it makes me want to boycott stripclubs or if I go to never take any dances. It is kind of a long story so if you can bear with me I am a regular at The Kingdom Gentlemen's Club. I have seen a lot of girls come and go but there are two girls there that I see on a regular basis they are both cousins. I dance them quite often and they were always very nice and fun to be with. However I started to get bored recently and wanted to sample the other talent. This is what I hate. You got the regulars who understand and never pressure you or ask for dances and let you do all the work then there are the ones who constantly pressure you. These are the pressure type girls. One of them whenever I am there almost always expects me take dances every time I am in the club. So usually when she asks I say "later" or "maybe" and try to sneak out of there. But last week I was tired of the pressure and wanted to dance the other girls. But this time was different, last Saturday which was Valentine's Day I spoke with one of them and she is very nice I decided to talk to her then she asked me if I will be dancing her. Now I am thinking I should have just said no but I said ok and try to make myself scarce so she would get the hint that I was not interested in dancing her and then leave the club and this is what I have been doing this all the time when there is an aggressive dancer that is also nice at the same time and I also intended to dance her again and none of them ever got mad or took it personal. I would rather refuse her in a polite way then be blunt. All the dancers I encountered up to now did not seem bothered by this and would still say "hi" to me some of them still talked to me. Well, she took it very personal. Passed by tonight and they both ignored me . I spoke to her about it and she said she was mad about it. What I do not understand why she took it so personal she even refused to dance me when I asked her and she made no money all night . So I am thinking I come to the clubs for a good time not for this kind of negative experience. Why bother to go? I know not all the girls are like this but it was a very negative experience. I hate having regulars that always want you to dance them then get mad when you do not. Maybe it was the fact I did not just say no? An important lesson to be learned. From now on I am gonna say "NO"!
For All-> I rewrote this post as I choose a poor choice of words and was not specific enough as we know who has a problem with it as usual