This is actually really exciting—I’d love to help out with organizing! The idea of a mini-VIP party was enough to wake me up from my slumber and get me to post again after many years. I attended most of the previous gatherings, from the late GG days right up to the very end (I only missed maybe 2 or 3 events).
It was always great meeting and connecting with both guys and girls from the scene.
There aren't many places where people can come together, hang out and just connect on a human level, especially in this industry.
I miss the wild stories people would share over a beer and how quickly everyone would relax and open up.
Fun fact: I actually ended up moving in with a girl I met at one of those parties—but that's a story for another time.
As much as I enjoyed those parties, there were definitely things that could have been done differently, and maybe this is the perfect chance to make those improvements. Here are a few ideas:
- A smaller, more discreet, and private venue. A laid-back gathering with background music rather than a loud party where people can barely hear each other. It also makes it easier to manage, safer and it creates a much more relaxed ambiance. Plus nobody wants to attract unwanted attention.
- A common complaint before was the lack of transparency. Whoever will be involved in the planning should make sure this is organized for the right reasons, the community, not personal gain.
- Getting agencies and indys involved to help maintain a balanced male-female ratio. They could also help recommend or vet guests.
- For the location, I think a large Airbnb or private residence near downtown would be ideal. Even though Airbnbs don't allow "parties," I think we can find a spacious spot that can accept guests if it's kept low-key.
These are just some initial thoughts—let me know what you think!