The best kind of dates are with SPS as you get great conversations and kink that never came from a partner or definitely not to the extreme kinks that I got from SPS! Regular vanilla dates were boring never went anywhere as you will not get that being a good host to an sp
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Na the best dates are with the one you are in love with, no amount of kink or fetish can rival that and certainly not with one you are paying to make believe she is into you.
I am extremely lucky with the ladies I am seeing as we have become friends, but would trade it all for one date with the one that is no longer with me.
Yeah great conversations lol when you don’t even know her real name and hopefully she doesn’t know yours.
It really depends on your circumstances and your age.
Honestly I don’t see why anybody would want to see an SP before the age of 50 other than maybe out of curiosity to see what it is like.
There are so many gorgeous women out there wanting to have a real relationship.
I have tried both also and nothing compares to being with the woman you love, the one you share a life and family with.
I think it's a matter of risk/reward. When I hire an SP, I risk little but am pretty much guaranteed a reward.
When I go on a date, I risk my confidence/ego and have no guarantee of a reward.
SP is the easy route. An actual date is hard mode. Most people are happy to get a reward with little risk. It's not as fulfilling a reward though and is merely a bandage for the lonliness/lack of good sex. The cure is to find someone you genuinely connect with. Takes a lot of work though and many guys don't have the patience.
What is so special about coming from Australia to meet you lol. Women in Australia aren’t any different, I grew up there.
Living a lifetime with the woman you love, sharing your life, your dreams, having children and a family is what love is all about.
Kinky time and all this bs with SP is not real, it ends the moment your money runs out and the time you payed for expires, after that they probably don’t even know you exist or care.
Yeah it helps fill the void somewhat but that is all.
I think you are the one who is delusional thinking that your time with SP is so special.
You are lucky if you are a little more than an ATM machine to them lol.
It is a job for them which btw many hate.
You are extremely lucky if you find one who becomes a friend and actually cares about you, but don’t mistake it for love or anything more than kindness and friendship.
There are women in this world who actually can love you and share your life and be an equal partner in everything and actually even out earn you.
Not all wives/girlfriends are gold diggers.
So what?
Marriage is a partnership which needs a lot of work and kindness and respect from both sides and above all trust in each other.
There are no guarantees and life is all about risk and reward.
When it works it is magical and there is nothing that compares.
If you are not willing to take the risk or put in the work then you can delude yourself with thinking that SP are the best thing since sliced bread, that is until your money runs out because with them so does your time.
Like I said life is all about risk and reward.
There are as many love stories as horror stories.
It is up to you which one you create for yourself.
You make your own luck in life lol.
There are many unsuccessful men that are not able to attract a woman. The dating game is very hard on men in this day and age and not all got the skills to play that game. These men still need intimacy so they resort to paying. It would suck to be a 40 yr old virgin as a man. True lots of gorgeous women but they got so much offers and they got the luxury to choose who they want.
I keep hearing this all the time but have a hard time believing it.
I had no problem in my youth and neither did most of my friends and they weren’t all James Bond types.
Same goes for my nephews and children and their friends, none of them seemed to have a problem finding a life partner. yes not all of them are drop dead gorgeous, a couple are, some average and some that I guess they saw something in them I didn’t.
I think men today are just not willing to put in the work and think that dating should be like ordering something from Amazon and wait for it to arrive on your doorstep, which I guess is the case with an SP problem solved lol.
The game changed. Things changed a lot from 30 years. I see a big change from 20 years ago. The women changed in a big way. The amount of single lonely young men has grown by a lot and this is fact. You can look it up. Social media and online dating did not exist 30 years ago.
Well if there are so many unrealistic expectations what do you expect! It’s all one headache!
I don’t know about that I tried and had no problem at all finding women in my own age bracket or even 10 years younger.
The problem is that I am the one who is not interested. I don’t find them attractive, in the end I would always compare them to the one I loved and lost and they would lose so it ends up being a waste of time for me and for them as nothing will ever come of it.
Most of these women have fucked up their life once or twice already and want someone to take care of them financially.
There is also the case of meeting and accepting their family which I have no wish for nor introducing someone new to mine.
I have found for me seeing the two ladies especially my ATF is enough as I don’t lack for friends or family and I can travel anywhere when I wish so for now this lifestyle suits me fine.
Everyone's experiences are different. It is a different reality for everyone. I was just pointing out to you the reasons that younger men might engage in the hobby and that many are struggling to find a significant other. It is a growing problem among Gen Z men.
Exactly financially = headaches! You will be in better hands with your regular sps with being friends and respected!
That is a situation for many. The government gives much power to the women and many men get taken to the cleaners in a divorce. I am very certain if this law did not exist where in a marriage half his money and assets would go his wife I guarantee you that divorces would drop to an all time low. In most cases the man is usually the one earning a higher salary so in most cases the woman climbs up the ladder in a divorce.
One of my colleagues told me how he declared bankruptcy twice because of divorces.
You still don’t get it.
I would trade all the SP in the world for a day with the one I spent a lifetime with and lost to cancer.
It is not the same and never will be. You cannot buy love or a family, they are not for sale.
Yes I am lucky to have my ATF and the other gorgeous young lady I have been seeing for many years they have made a difference in my life and I will always be grateful to them for their kindness.
Sorry and that was very special ! It could be a once in a lifetime thing very precious! Just enjoy the now time!
