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Question no 1: Are providers posting gifts, dinner date photos and tips doing that to impress other providers or to encourage clients to tip?

Question no 2: Do you mind seeing the gifts posted on social media? What is a reasonable amount of gift posting?

Once again, please be respectful.
 
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Personally, I've never given a provider a gift, or followed one online. So post away. Just don't expect me to give you gifts/take you out.

I usually don’t post the gifts that I’m planning on using in my personal life because I don’t want people to recognize them on my personal social media. I will post some here and there mostly to let people know what I like in case they want to surprise me with something.

Instead of signing my emails boldly with “those are the things I like if you want to gift me something hihihi”.
 

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Question no 1: Are providers posting gifts, dinner date photos and tips doing that to impress other providers or to encourage clients to tip?

Question no 2: Do you mind seeing the gifts posted on social media? What is a reasonable amount of gift posting?

Once again, please be respectful.
Q1. All your suggested reasons seem likely. I guess another reason could be to stroke the gift-givers ego to encourage them to give similar or larger gifts in the future (but maybe not because not all clients even use Twitter?). Maybe it's silly of me, but when I put a lot of thought into gifts (not to mention money) and the receiving SP tweets out a picture of it, I do feel a little bit more appreciated that she's acknowledging it on social media (as well as in private, of course) and I'm happy that she's apparently satisfied with what I gave.

There will, of course, always be tweets showing off more luxurious and impressive gifts than the one you gave. I'm not at all bothered by this, personally, but I wonder if other clients feel jealous, knocked-down-a-peg, and disheartened by this such that their gift-giving appetite, and even their desire to have future visits with the SP, diminishes. Perhaps an SP could avoid this kind of unintended discouragement by expressing a similar level of appreciation for all gifts, big and small, on her page (but maybe this would rub the expensive gift-givers the wrong way?). I suppose a good outcome for the SP would be for other clients to see the gift pics and then want to one-up each other and, like you said, convert the non-tippers into tippers through the social proof effect.

Q2. I don't mind but I do think there's a graceful way and a tacky way to do it. I think too much of it could shatter the "illusion of attainability" some clients/would-be clients have for SPs in varying degrees and turn them away (maybe this is a good thing for the SP in some cases - to turn away future problematic clients). Too much of it could also reveal or signal values and character traits that are unattractive to clients/would-be clients and turn them away.
 
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Q1. All your suggested reasons seem likely. I guess another reason could be to stroke the gift-givers ego to encourage them to give similar or larger gifts in the future (but maybe not because not all clients even use Twitter?).

Q2. I don't mind but I do think there's a graceful and a tacky way to do it.
I agree with this. I understand why they do it, but when it’s too much and not done in a classy way, it’s a turn off for me (just my opinion).

@LC18 , Lena, you seem to be a nice person, down to earth and you wouldn’t show off gifts or pics of dinner dates, from what I can see. But I’m totally fine with it when it’s done in a subtle way.

To answer the original question 1, it’s a bit of both.

Q2: I don’t mind seeing it on social media, as long as it’s done in a classy way and not very often (every week, lol!). On the other hand, I’m checking those SM posts less these days, so I always have the option of not looking at them if it becomes a turnoff!
 

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Q1. All your suggested reasons seem likely. I guess another reason could be to stroke the gift-givers ego to encourage them to give similar or larger gifts in the future (but maybe not because not all clients even use Twitter?). Maybe it's silly of me, but when I put a lot of thought into gifts (not to mention money) and the receiving SP tweets out a picture of it, I do feel a little bit more appreciated that she's acknowledging it on social media (as well as in private, of course) and I'm happy that she's apparently satisfied with what I gave.

There will, of course, always be more luxurious and impressive gifts than the one you gave tweeted about. I'm not at all bothered by this, personally, but I wonder if other clients feel jealous, knocked-down-a-peg, and disheartened by this such that their gift-giving appetite, and even their desire to have future visits with the SP, goes down. Perhaps an SP could avoid this kind of unintended discouragement by expressing a similar level of appreciation for all gifts, big and small, on her page (but maybe this would rub the expensive gift-givers the wrong way?). I suppose a good outcome for the SP would be for other clients to see the gift pics and then want to one-up each other and, like you said, convert the non-tippers into tippers through social proof.

Q2. I don't mind but I do think there's a graceful way and a tacky way to do it. I think too much of it could shatter the "illusion of attainability" some clients/would-be clients have for SPs in varying degrees and turn them away (maybe this is a good thing for the SP in some cases - to turn away future problematic clients). Too much of it could also reveal or signal values and character traits that are unattractive to clients/would-be clients and turn them away.
I said pretty much the same thing but in the French thread of this. I really think all depends on the clientele she is looking to attract and her personality.
 
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So my friends have told me I should post the gifts I receive to motivate clients.

I’ve stopped shortly after my birthday because it was starting to be awkward. I’d much rather post selfies than photos of gifts. Not sure if I’ll start again, those were never the really popular posts anyways.

What do y’all think?
 
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So my friends have told me I should post the gifts I receive to motivate clients.

I’ve stopped shortly after my birthday because it was starting to be awkward. I’d much rather post selfies than photos of gifts. Not sure if I’ll start again, those were never the really popular posts anyways.

What do y’all think?
I guess it would depend on how often you would do it, because I've definitely been motivated to put SPs that constantly post gifts on Twitter on my 'never' list . Which probably isn't the kind of motivation you want.
 

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So my friends have told me I should post the gifts I receive to motivate clients.

I’ve stopped shortly after my birthday because it was starting to be awkward. I’d much rather post selfies than photos of gifts. Not sure if I’ll start again, those were never the really popular posts anyways.

What do y’all think?
I thinking posting something that shows a lot of thought went into a date or gift is more interesting than necessarily posting your gifts. Like when you post the picture of the bed with the flower petals. You have a suggestions page on your website for a reason. You are not demanding anything from anyone. Also I think it would be unfair for people to assume that if they spend a lot on you that you have to post it. Plus I think if you build regulars then I could see where your regulars will appreciate your suggestions more. Just my opinion. All the motivation I need are the pictures of yourself. Just my two cents.
 
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