Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

What is the upper age limit for clients SPs are usually comfortable to see? Is there such a thing as specialization on older clients, say above 60? Is there any specific protocol for accommodating older clients?

There's no upper age limit for me, but there's a minimum which is 21. I often see clients above 60 and I haven't noticed a big difference in terms of how the booking goes. Some clients in their 20's have mobility issues and ED. It's something that is helpful to talk about during the booking process, but not a problem for me at all.

 

[EagerBeaver]

As I have been told by my doctor, it is not a very good idea to take brake in HP medication. Your body is used to it and the BP spike can be quite high if you take more than a couple of days off. There is a huge spectrum of BP medications nowadays. Some claim having no adverse effect on erections but you may be intolerant in some other ways (rush, swelling, etc.). You should work with your doctor on it and have also the second opinion from the BP specialist.

That is reasonable advice. The one they put me on is called carvedilol. It's a beta blocker, which causes the heart to beat more slowly. They had initially put me on another one, forget the name, and it was not working in lowering the BP.

 

[Nachoy]

Estimate what percentage of old clients cannot penetrate and what do they do for fun and pleasure?

 

[Sylar]

Estimate what percentage of old clients cannot penetrate and what do they do for fun and pleasure?

They ask crazy questions on MERB and live vicariously through the responses.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Estimate what percentage of old clients cannot penetrate and what do they do for fun and pleasure?

Your definition of pleasure in sex is penetration?

 

[EagerBeaver]

Estimate what percentage of old clients cannot penetrate and what do they do for fun and pleasure?

Nachoy, even as a much younger man, I always preferred oral sex to intercourse. Either way you kind of need to get and sustain an erection. When you cannot sustain an erection, you are pretty much shit out of luck. All of you guys will eventually reach this point, assuming you actually stay alive and continue to age into your 60s, 70s, and 80s.

 

[Nachoy]

Your definition of pleasure in sex is penetration?

No it’s one of many ways for pleasure. I going to get to male menopause eventually and need ideas what to do when I cannot get erect otherwise I give up seeking SPs

 

[Giselle Montreal]

You can't be serious.

 

[Workingman]

You can't be serious.

I thought it was an obvious troll a long, long time ago. Idk why people keep answering all the dumb questions.

 

[LC18]

I thought it was an obvious troll a long, long time ago. Idk why people keep answering all the dumb questions.

Wondering the same

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I don't know, sometimes I'm bored

 

[Julia Sky]

Im bored too so I will say this : the idea that old people automatically lose their sexual abilities is such a narrow view. My oldest client was over 90 and he would get SO hard lol.

 

[DouMan]

Im bored too so I will say this : the idea that old people automatically lose their sexual abilities is such a narrow view. My oldest client was over 90 and he would get SO hard lol.

Heads up, could be his cane

 

[Sylar]

Im bored too so I will say this : the idea that old people automatically lose their sexual abilities is such a narrow view. My oldest client was over 90 and he would get SO hard lol.

At 90 the phrase "Go hard or go home" has a whole different meaning

 

[Fradi]

No it’s one of many ways for pleasure. I going to get to male menopause eventually and need ideas what to do when I cannot get erect otherwise I give up seeking SPs

Play chess, or take up basket weaving.

 

[Fradi]

Im bored too so I will say this : the idea that old people automatically lose their sexual abilities is such a narrow view. My oldest client was over 90 and he would get SO hard lol.

Was he breathing? or did Riga Mortis already set in.

 

[EagerBeaver]

My oldest client was over 90 and he would get SO hard lol.

I would say this is likely an abberation. You probably have a client who has 3 testicles, and another with 1 ear. They would be aberrations as well.

 

[Nachoy]

 

[Julia Sky]

I would say this is likely an abberation. You probably have a client who has 3 testicles, and another with 1 ear. They would be aberrations as well.

These are anatomical anomalies..... Still being sexually capable at 93 is not the norm but it's not an anomaly in the sense that missing an ear or having extra body parts would be. Weird comparison. I have far more clients over 65 with hard dicks in a year than I've met people with extra limbs or missing ears in the 26 years I've walked this earth

Anyway, sex is more than penetration. Pleasure takes many forms.

 

[lovethaifood]

Anyway, sex is more than penetration. Pleasure takes many forms.

Interesting observation on sex being more than penetration.

An SW on twitter from Las Vegas recently posted a poll question asking what is the perfect amount of time to have sex and she clarified in the comments that by sex she meant penetrative sex. She has over 300k followers but, only 675 votes were tallied before the poll closed. Her choices were 5-10 minutes, 15-20 minutes, 20-30 minutes and finally 40-60 minutes. To me it was surprising that the number one answer was 15-20 minutes with 38.8 percent of the vote. Number two was 20-30 minutes with 33 percent, followed by 40-60 minutes with 16.6 percent and finally 5-10 minutes got 11.6 percent of the vote.

I would have voted 40-60 but, I guess it really depends a lot on how long the appointment is and staying power. I like 2 hour appointment minimum.

I think cardiovascular fitness obviously plays a huge part in ED in the elderly and diet. Eat your berries, drink pomegranate juice and other flavonoid rich foods. Eat lycopene rich foods like Watermelon and Tomatoes. Get your folic acid from dark leafy greens, Asparagus and Brussel Sprouts. Drink 2-3 cups of black coffee a day. Get heart healthy Omega's from Avocados, nuts, Get some cardio 150 minutes a week.

Pretty sure Robert Deniro recently fathered a kid at age 80. So take care of your health and sexual health. You only have one body.

Also on a sidenote there are studies that say for many men there is a correlation between not having regular orgasms in their elderly years and prostate cancer risk which, I find interesting. I wonder if the not having orgasms is an indicator of poor health overall to begin with though or lack of opportunity, libido or other factors.