Ask us anything part 3
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Im bored too so I will say this : the idea that old people automatically lose their sexual abilities is such a narrow view. My oldest client was over 90 and he would get SO hard lol.
Heads up, could be his cane
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Was he breathing? or did Riga Mortis already set in.
I would say this is likely an abberation. You probably have a client who has 3 testicles, and another with 1 ear. They would be aberrations as well.
These are anatomical anomalies..... Still being sexually capable at 93 is not the norm but it's not an anomaly in the sense that missing an ear or having extra body parts would be. Weird comparison. I have far more clients over 65 with hard dicks in a year than I've met people with extra limbs or missing ears in the 26 years I've walked this earth
Anyway, sex is more than penetration. Pleasure takes many forms.
Interesting observation on sex being more than penetration.
An SW on twitter from Las Vegas recently posted a poll question asking what is the perfect amount of time to have sex and she clarified in the comments that by sex she meant penetrative sex. She has over 300k followers but, only 675 votes were tallied before the poll closed. Her choices were 5-10 minutes, 15-20 minutes, 20-30 minutes and finally 40-60 minutes. To me it was surprising that the number one answer was 15-20 minutes with 38.8 percent of the vote. Number two was 20-30 minutes with 33 percent, followed by 40-60 minutes with 16.6 percent and finally 5-10 minutes got 11.6 percent of the vote.
I would have voted 40-60 but, I guess it really depends a lot on how long the appointment is and staying power. I like 2 hour appointment minimum.
I think cardiovascular fitness obviously plays a huge part in ED in the elderly and diet. Eat your berries, drink pomegranate juice and other flavonoid rich foods. Eat lycopene rich foods like Watermelon and Tomatoes. Get your folic acid from dark leafy greens, Asparagus and Brussel Sprouts. Drink 2-3 cups of black coffee a day. Get heart healthy Omega's from Avocados, nuts, Get some cardio 150 minutes a week.
Pretty sure Robert Deniro recently fathered a kid at age 80. So take care of your health and sexual health. You only have one body.
Also on a sidenote there are studies that say for many men there is a correlation between not having regular orgasms in their elderly years and prostate cancer risk which, I find interesting. I wonder if the not having orgasms is an indicator of poor health overall to begin with though or lack of opportunity, libido or other factors.
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You will probably surprised to learn that according to several studies, the average duration of intercourse is 5 to 7 min. Google if you don't believe me.
I had one client who liked 30 minutes + of penetration, in my whole 10-year career, so it doesn't seem to be a preference for a majority, but I'd like the experience of my colleagues as well. If some breaks for oral or manual play, kissing or caressing are taken it could be absolutely fine, but a non-stop 45-minute jackhammering is simply horrifying.
yep. on average from penetration to ejaculation with total arousal and nothing impeding on orgasm with or without condom for men. women take about double the time to reach orgasm according to studies.
people need to stop using porn as reference or hearsay from their friends. everyone loves to overstate their prowess in bed
And the majority can't reach it from penetration alone!
Maybe for you, but I would wager most women are just humoring you after 20.
I am definitely not talking about 45 minutes of jackhammering. I am more of a slow and steady wins the race and sometimes vary my speed. Definitely, breaks for oral, manual, kissing and caressing. I have only had one really intense wham, bam, thank you mam type of experience that was like 10 minutes tops probably less. I do like a lot of foreplay and a lot of DATY.
I think there are a lot of factors on reaching orgasm. My stress level, how relaxed I am, how much I have orgasmed leading up to appointment. I don't like to drink alcohol before. I like to go through a period of at least 1 to 2 weeks of complete abstinence if I have an appointment coming up with an SP. Also, I try not to watch too much Porn. I think porn addiction is probably the most detrimental thing to good sex.
Also, I love to DATY and love to take instruction from the provider when something feels good for them or to try to learn different techniques. I recently saw the Nina Hartley, Sunny Lane video on DATY, and it was very eye opening. I once motorboated a girl in college during DATY and she thought it was the wildest thing on earth.
I am sure that many women fake. An Asian provider in NYC once told me she came five times, and I smiled because I just new it was BS.
It's hard for a lot of women to have an orgasm, and I think that there's this pressure on everyone to cum but pleasure is available without reaching that point. If someone didn't have an orgasm it doesn't mean they didn't enjoy the sex.
Which leads me to my question for clients : do you expect your SP to have an orgasm or to fake one?
Personally I've never faked it because I focus on the gentleman's pleasure. It doesn't mean I'm not enjoying the sex, and I think sometimes my responses get misinterpreted as a lack of pleasure and interest which doesn't correspond to the truth. I may be more timid in how I express myself specially if I just met somebody but that doesn't mean I'm not having fun
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