Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Sooooo....I'm new to the scene. Only have been with one SP and for now I want to be her regular and that's it. BUT... I've seen some tempting ads for girls at various massage parlors. I'm really into DATY and DATO or whatever it's called....pussy and ass eating. My question is, if I'm not the first of her shift, is it certain the girl washed herself since the last guy? I do NOT want to eat left over condoms or worse. What's common practice?

At massage parlours you can't be sure that girls will offer these services first of all. You might be really disappointed if you assume this. A lot of girls I worked with at MP didn't offer these, and for me I charged extra because sometimes I had a high volume of clients..

Yes it's common practice to take showers between clients or several times during the day.. but obviously sometimes girls are rushed between clients. Reality is at MP sometimes providers see several clients in a row, unlike a lot of indies.

 

[Alucard87]

At massage parlours you can't be sure that girls will offer these services first of all. You might be really disappointed if you assume this. A lot of girls I worked with at MP didn't offer these, and for me I charged extra because sometimes I had a high volume of clients..

Yes it's common practice to take showers between clients or several times during the day.. but obviously sometimes girls are rushed between clients. Reality is at MP sometimes providers see several clients in a row, unlike a lot of indies.

True that not all providers offer it.

Think I'll stick to indies all the same when and if I branch out. Even though they too may have more than one client in a row, I'm just more comfortable with what I've experienced so far. But....

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I guess that's the difference between seeing in 2d (pictures) and 3d (in person). Shared pictures are supposed to be flattering. Then you have that "picture" in mind and have high hope/expectation when meeting.
Or maybe just simply an encounter that didn't went well and just giving a bad review ...

Yes but that's still not what I'm talking about. If someone has small breasts that's usually clear on photos so why complain about it in reviews? I see such comments as "you can see in photos, she has x body type, 0/10" ...

Why did he go see her if he doesn't like her body type? If you don't like older women why did you see someone who says she's 45 in her ad and complain "she looks her age"?

That's what my question is about. If a SP isn't your type there's no point in seeing her, unless you're ready to have an open mind.

I also think it's weird that if a booking didn't go well due to various factors the reviewer would go out of his way to insult the SP.. it's cruel and weird..

 

[Lunaseraphim]

True that not all providers offer it.

Think I'll stick to indies all the same when and if I branch out. Even though they too may have more than one client in a row, I'm just more comfortable with what I've experienced so far. But....

Aside from certain SP who charge low and choose to see several clients in a row like a few LL and EI girls (and I know this because I've had friends who did it for various reasons), most indies from what I've noticed rarely see more than 2 or 3 clients a day, and we have plenty of time to shower in between. Most of the time I just have one client in a day, sometimes 2, rarely 3. I always take a shower before and after seeing a client to refresh myself.

All I can say is you can't expect GFE services at MP's.. I know there's one or two places where it's offered but that's far from being the norm based on what I've been told. That's even why some providers choose to work at parlours. They don't want to offer GFE. Just be prepared to pay extra or have this service refused to you. Even if a client tells you he received xyz service at an establishment like this, it's very YMMV in my experience.

 

[LC18]

My question is, if I'm not the first of her shift, is it certain the girl washed herself since the last guy? I do NOT want to eat left over condoms or worse. What's common practice?

*big sigh*

What makes you think she didn’t let her boyfriend creampie her before her first shift?


That first shift, last shift thing is always so…being the first of her shift doesn’t mean she showered before and being the last doesn’t mean she DIDN’T shower before

 

[Lunaseraphim]

*big sigh*

What makes you think she didn’t let her boyfriend creampie her before her first shift?


That first shift, last shift thing is always so…being the first of her shift doesn’t mean she showered before and being the last doesn’t mean she DIDN’T shower before

Exactly lol you got a got point here.

 

[LC18]

Exactly lol you got a got point here.

Whenever someone messages me saying “I want to be the first of your shift” I politely tell them that I don’t want to see them. I find it so unbelievably rude

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Whenever someone messages me saying “I want to be the first of your shift” I politely tell them that I don’t want to see them. I find it so unbelievably rude

It's very rude in my opinion as well. Also I think some of them think we get ''looser'' down there as the day goes by, it's ridiculous. Also as indies we don't have shifts lol. I don't like it when clients assume we are always at our incall receiving a ton of clients in a row, not that it's wrong or bad for people to work like this...

 

[Giselle Montreal]

It's very rude in my opinion as well. Also I think some of them think we get ''looser'' down there as the day goes by, it's ridiculous. Also as indies we don't have shifts lol. I don't like it when clients assume we are always at our incall receiving a ton of clients in a row, not that it's wrong or bad for people to work like this...

Yeah, that's it, we don't have shift... And I don't have clients everyday.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Yeah, that's it, we don't have shift... And I don't have clients everyday. Oh, these guys...

Yeah sometimes I go 2 to 4 days without seeing a client and some of us take weeks and even months off.. We choose our rates and ways of advertising based on how many clients we want to see. (well that's one of the reasons)

 

[Alucard87]

*big sigh*

What makes you think she didn’t let her boyfriend creampie her before her first shift?


That first shift, last shift thing is always so…being the first of her shift doesn’t mean she showered before and being the last doesn’t been mean she DIDN’T shower before

Maybe I'm too trusting (naive) for all this idk

I just (so far) have trouble finishing with condoms. So if a service doesn't include bbbj and daty/dato it just doesn't interest me too much.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Maybe I'm too trusting (naive) for all this idk

I just (so far) have trouble finishing with condoms. So if a service doesn't include bbbj and daty/dato it just doesn't interest me too much.

No the message isn't that you're too naive, Lena was joking and trying to show a flaw in your reasoning. Most providers take hygiene very seriously, that's the point. If you want a GFE service then go to an agency or hire an independent provider.

 

[LeDodo]

Yes but that's still not what I'm talking about. If someone has small breasts that's usually clear on photos so why complain about it in reviews? I see such comments as "you can see in photos, she has x body type, 0/10" ...

Why did he go see her if he doesn't like her body type? If you don't like older women why did you see someone who says she's 45 in her ad and complain "she looks her age"?

That's what my question is about. If a SP isn't your type there's no point in seeing her, unless you're ready to have an open mind.

I also think it's weird that if a booking didn't go well due to various factors the reviewer would go out of his way to insult the SP.. it's cruel and weird..

Yes shaming a SP after a booking that didn't go well is utterly cruel and weird.
We can see the same type of behavior in like Google reviews. Like people giving one star when something they didn't like and exaggerating everything. That's also why one needs to be careful with reviews as you need to make your own idea based on the averaged comments (if there is enough). Because it's easy to give subjective views instead of objectively on services itself. Unfortunately online reviews have open doors to unaccountable violence/bullying

 

[LC18]

Maybe I'm too trusting (naive) for all this idk

I just (so far) have trouble finishing with condoms. So if a service doesn't include bbbj and daty/dato it just doesn't interest me too much.

I think it’s normal to be at first but lucky for you, you’re at the perfect place to educate yourself on the matter

 

[Alucard87]

No the message isn't that you're too naive, Lena was joking and trying to show a flaw in your reasoning. Most providers take hygiene very seriously, that's the point. If you want a GFE service then go to an agency or hire an independent provider.

Thank you, perhaps I chose the wrong words. My expectations might be off. I know what the reality is that being "first" doesn't guarantee anything. I've seen other reviews here where cleanliness was a big issue, and that can happen with anyone. I think I just don't want to go to a MP and was trying to justify my way out of it. I had been looking at La MTL and some of the girls (most) advertise full service.

I think it’s normal to be at first but lucky for you, you’re at the perfect place to educate yourself on the matter

Yes ma'am

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Thank you, perhaps I chose the wrong words. My expectations might be off. I know what the reality is that being "first" doesn't guarantee anything. I've seen other reviews here where cleanliness was a big issue, and that can happen with anyone. I think I just don't want to go to a MP and was trying to justify my way out of it. I had been looking at La MTL and some of the girls (most) advertise full service.

If I were you I would take reviews with a grain of salt.. Sometimes reviews are very harsh, unnecessarily so. Also, full service isn't the same as GFE. Full service just means there is penetration. It usually just means CBJ and sex. At the spa where I worked most of us were full service but anything GFE related (kissing, bbbj, daty) was an extra. A lot of girls didn't offer any of these at all because they were really risk averse. I'd say that's even why some clients go to spas, they want completely safe services and they don't want to pay for someone's full GFE rate, which is usually higher.

 

[Nachoy]

Yes but that's still not what I'm talking about. If someone has small breasts that's usually clear on photos so why complain about it in reviews? I see such comments as "you can see in photos, she has x body type, 0/10" ...

Why did he go see her if he doesn't like her body type? If you don't like older women why did you see someone who says she's 45 in her ad and complain "she looks her age"?

That's what my question is about. If a SP isn't your type there's no point in seeing her, unless you're ready to have an open mind.

I also think it's weird that if a booking didn't go well due to various factors the reviewer would go out of his way to insult the SP.. it's cruel and weird..

there are people who are never satisfied, ever
Give them a sunny day instead of a raining day and they will find a way to complain that its too sunny for them
As a SP you cannot please everyone and I would say most encounters are going to be okay , but there going to a few that complain no matter what

 

[Lunaseraphim]

there are people who are never satisfied, ever
Give them a sunny day instead of a raining day and they will find a way to complain that its too sunny for them
As a SP you cannot please everyone and I would say most encounters are going to be okay , but there going to a few that complain no matter what

Agreed.

 

[LeDodo]

Do you play music or a playlist to set the mood? Candles? Rose petals?

 

[jeffmathers]

Well, I'm specifically thinking about reviews in which the provider looks like her photos.. Like for instance if someone is not curvy and doesn't have big boobs or a big butt, that's pretty easy to see. Why complain about it in a review?

On ne devrait pas manquer de respect aux travailleuses. C'est absurd de voir des gens s'indigner de l'impossibilité de répondre à leurs attentes. J'connais des travailleuses du sexe de grande taille qui disent avoir reçu de mauvaises critiques en disant « Elle était trop tall», alors qu'elle avait indiqué sa taille dans l'annonce et que le client lui avait demandé de porter des heels.

J' crois q beaucoup de gens sont misogynes et/ou amers d'avoir été rejetés par une personne physiquement attirante par le passé, et que c'est la seule façon pour eux de satisfaire leur ego blessé. J'aimerais q les travailleurs de tous les secteurs soient traités avec respect et humanité. Pourtant, nombreux sont ceux qui prennent plaisir à insulter les travailleurs.