This is not a review thread, it is exactly the kind of thread that is more likely to spark debates and opinions. As long as it stays within civilazed and respectful boundaries I don’t see any problems unless the OP express such matters.
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I developed friendship and chemistry with an agency girl
We exchanged contact info and she was okay with me booking her outside agency time
She lasted one year as SP with the agency
She decided stop working as SP and got a job as a Nanny
She told me she made a fraction of money but loved looking after children and got burned out by her job as SP
She told me she didn’t like being “treated as just a sex object”
As clients we have to be kind, considerate and respectful of the SP otherwise they quit
I see your point, but these comments are being ignited by the questions and answers which are very much on topic. I think the distribution between Q&A and discussions are currently very balanced and civilized. I enjoy both the insight from the SPs as well as the inputs from other members.
I didn't say it doesn't happen that agency girls give out their details... But it is heavily frowned upon. The agency cares most about getting their cut, and if a girl is caught, she can be let go by the agency, the agency will purposely give her the bad clients, or give her a bare minimum of clients. Till she earns their trust back.
And burnout is a very popular reason... just covered some of the reasons for the burnout instead of just saying burnout. But would be why she is looking to leave. Other the sick, or relationship, the other reasons given were reasons for burnout.
For the SP, do you watch porn? If yes, is there a specific type of porn you like watching?
No, not anymore. I most of the time just read stories online. If I watch videos, it will be my own.
What are the most common reasons for quitting this work ?
I think the most common one would be to pursue a relationship, or when you have met your financial goal, when you graduate. I’ve quit this job before, I was pregnant. I came back this year in March
And when you do quit, do you keep in touch with some of your regulars ?
Yes, kept in touch with my regulars. Sent them photos and emails, they sent gifts for the baby and myself.
Sorry if this has been asked already, but I don't think so.
Has it ever happened that the person on the other side of the door is someone you know directly or indirectly? How did you feel, and how did you handle the situation?
Personally I'm always worried I might meet a lady I know, and wouldn't know how to act and what to do. Thx
Has it ever happened that the person on the other side of the door is someone you know directly or indirectly? How did you feel, and how did you handle the situation?
Personally I'm always worried I might meet a lady I know, and wouldn't know how to act and what to do. Thx
Rudeness by who?
If a dom if rude in how they are behaving, my opinion is they are a beta, and doesn't deserve the submission. I will typically dominate a rude dom. A dominant should be confident and have the submissive want to listen to him, not have to make or force them to. If he is rude it just makes me think of an entitled brat who needs to be put in his place. There is no way you can be rude, and demand respect and trust, which is the basis of a dom/sub dynamic. Submission is earned, it isn't granted just because you demand it.
Rudeness by a submissive, depending on the situation, could just be a play on being a brat, and is looking for some form of punishment. That is a big IF situation though. If it wasn't agreed on before then it isn't your place to assume and issue punishment. If it is a hired submissive, then you likely don't have the trust or authority to issue punishment unless the sub has granted you the ok. If it was agreed upon that you may, the punishments would have to be discussed previously and the sub will let you know if you are crossing a line at which point you stop.
Just because you want to dominate a submissive doesn't mean you have the authority to. In most true dom/sub relationships the sub names her limits and the dom stays within the subs boundaries, a safe word is used and the sub calls the shots when it is enough and is respected in what they have to say. Though this may be different in serious dom/sub relationships that the limits have been previously agreed upon that they may be tested, but even then there generally has to be a lot of trust, faith, and confidence in the dominant by the submissive to be able to allow the breech of limits.
Kinky play can be dangerous if it isn't done right and if your looking to be a dominant then you need to do your homework on how to be a good dominant, otherwise your likely just abusing a submissive person and causing emotional and mental trauma to them. If a submissive is being rude, there's a good chance you haven't earned that submission your demanding, and forcing it isn't the way to gain true submission. Getting them to want to obey is how you have their true submission.
Yes I have once seen a man who I served as a professional in my previous job, who always did flirt with me then. When he saw it was me who he had contacted, he was elated. We had our visit, and it went well enough. Part of this job is secrecy, He likely wouldn't tell anyone he had seen me, and i wouldn't tell I had seen him. We both have reputations to uphold.
Thing with photos are you can see who your asking for. If they post their face I guess. I don't see any reason to make it weird. As long as both parties respect the others right to privacy, there shouldn't be an issue. I guess the key in all of it is mutual resect. I would think it would only be awkward if it is someone who you know in your private life and do not get along with. In that case I would suggest a respectful bow out and an agreement not to talk about it with others to be respectful anyways. no one wants to be the topic of gossip, and are entitled to their personal privacies.
does it bother you ladies if a client constantly delays finishing during a session by either pulling out multiple times or asking you to stop during a bj until the feeling passes and ask you to start again?
No it just stresses me because I’m afraid he won’t be able to finish if he keeps delaying. Some men will blame you because they can’t manage their own time.
With most new clients it s go with the flow?
I am not sure I understand your question. Could you elaborate?
It's not a bother. As long as he can, and doesn't blame me if his practices bypass the time paid for. Once the timer sounds, he's on his own to finish himself off. It is time paid, not service rendered. And he's spent his time as he'd have wanted to, pleasure as he has enjoyed it. I walk away guilt free, whether he came or not. The time was passed as he had wanted it to. Though if my internal clock kicks in, I may remind him near the end of the time he runs the risk of not completing before his time is done, and may want to finish soon.
Customer complaints might generally be when they are asking for things beyond my comfort limits with a client. I won't compromise when it comes to my work practices or my safety.
In the texting process I tend to ask what someone is looking to enjoy, and am clear about my practices to avoid these situations. If I don't feel we will be a good match, I will out right say you may need to find someone else. How I tend to discuss with people, seems to weed out those who I would not be compatible with. I prefer to take time and get a feel for the person in messages and what they want and see if we are a fit before showing up at the door to find we aren't compatible.
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What steps do you take to address customer complaints or dissatisfaction?
The only recent complaints I’ve had were of people attempting to book and complaining about the prices. I’m sorry…actually I’m not, those are the prices that I chose for my time. There are many other women similar to me with prices in your budget. Whenever someone complains about prices, I just stop answering. I already know they’re not worth the effort.
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