I don't see why I would offer a session for free. Forgetting about being paid is not likely since I request the payment before giving any services. This business is not one where you send a bill to your clients a few weeks later.
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I realize in your line of work that a free ride is not a concept you practice, but yes i do sometimes work for free, charity works in many ways. I give of myself what i can.
May i ask, have you ever extended a session, lets say for an hour or 2 and not asked for compensation? Maybe, you were having fun and had the time to give.
Oh, and by the way, your selfies are extremely arousing, thank you.
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I realize in your line of work that a free ride is not a concept you practice, but yes i do sometimes work for free, charity works in many ways. I give of myself what i can.
May i ask, have you ever extended a session, lets say for an hour or 2 and not asked for compensation? Maybe, you were having fun and had the time to give.
Oh, and by the way, your selfies are extremely arousing, thank you.
I realize in your line of work that a free ride is not a concept you practice, but yes i do sometimes work for free, charity works in many ways. I give of myself what i can.
Correct, booking a provider is a luxury. There’s no pro bono, if my clients or potential cannot afford my rates they’re not entitled to discounts or free time no matter what their situation is.
May i ask, have you ever extended a session, lets say for an hour or 2 and not asked for compensation? Maybe, you were having fun and had the time to give.
2 hours? For free? No never. 20-25 mins maybe a few times but beyond that no. I don’t really want to “reward” someone who doesn’t value my time.
A lot of carrot danglers will email you and tell you “if you give me a discount, I’ll book you often”.
Oh, and by the way, your selfies are extremely arousing, thank you.
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I apologize if this has been asked already, quite a long thread, and I have not had a chance to peruse it, in it's entirety. But I am curious, as we are on a forum that, at it's most basic, is a review/rating of SW's. If we flip the script and see what qualities are important to you, when seeing clients? Looks, hygiene, tipping, gifts, amenities (wine/snacks/music/etc), or anything else for that matter. Really am curious, as to what matters most to you, how you would rate clients and based on what criteria/factors.
Thanks in advance, for taking the time to answer these questions, it's a fun and interesting topic.
Thanks in advance, for taking the time to answer these questions, it's a fun and interesting topic.
Some of these topics were touched on in this thread and others about tipping, or gifts.
But as for how I personally rate a client.
What he's looking for and how he treats me. Not asking for discounts, and talks to me like a human being, not as though it is only about his orgasm. There is a lot more to us than just the 1 function. Appreciate the person, and you find there is so much more to them. Yes it is a paid service, but it is nice to take the time to get to know the person.
Things like tips or gifts can add to the expierience. But nothing beats a nice person at heart even without the bells and whistles. His personality is what will determine whether I return or not the next time he contacts me.
SP reviews on this forum have become few and far between. Should I be looking elsewhere?
Maybe you should ask other reviewers and not SPs. This might not be the thread for your question.
I imagine most sp prefer longer dates such as dinner dates. Are you disappointed when clients request 1h dates? If a client is a regular booker of 1h dates let's say every month do you consider them a valuable client? What is your most frequently requested dates from clients : 1h, 2h. dinner date FMTY or other lenght?
Because it’s pee? It comes out from the urethra, what is the urethra connected to?
I adore them. I won't fall in love with my clients, but I appreciate them, and don't discourage their simping over me. Yes it is paid time. But I do appreciate the real friendships that develop and appreciate their emotions that may arise. getting to know them makes me feel safer when seeing them again.
Of course not! I wouldn't offer 1h dates if I didn't like them. Sometimes I'm busier so shorter appointments can be a preference, also we could find more opportunities to meet since it's easier to fit in a schedule, at any time of the day! All lengths have their perks.
The more popular date lengths for me are 2 hours and dinner dates. This depends on how one structures their rates. I get a few 2-to-5 days FMTY every year as well and I love them!
I appreciate my regulars. Often 1hr is all they can afford. I'm just flattered that even though they don't have much, they choose to spend it, and that time with me. They are incredibly valuable to me. I don't feel comfortable seeing new people. (I'm rather paranoid with people I don't know, I expect the worst and am glad when I meet lovely people.)
Do you consider well known members of merb
, to be in most part strangers? I would imagine that yes, but if one would send you a PM, how paranoid would you be?Do you ask clients about their handle on merb?
Do you consider well known members of merb
Do you ask clients about their handle on merb?
I don't advertise on merb, and am not looking at it as a self promotion. Just answering the question asked, I don't want to get in trouble on here so I don't know how to answer, or if I even should.
From my understanding personality aside, I am not what the typical Merb member is looking for.
Okay, fair enough, so i guess i will ask the question to all SPs, do you ever ask your clients if they are a member of merb and what their handle is?
And if so, does it make a difference?
I would think it a benefit to mention it when texting. It allows the knowledge that there has been a previous repertoire developed in public discussions. It is a way to get a step in the door since I am quick to turn people down for just about any reason or message I don't like.
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