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[Rebaynia]

Do SPs prefer overnight sessions in their own bed/room ?
If SP don’t like overnights. What’s the longest daytime session they can handle with a client ?

I'm outcall only... I have a family to protect from this lifestyle.
I don't really do overnight as i don't trust anyone enough to sleep next to, it is too vulnerable a situation to me. And i sleep at night. I don't work threwout the night time.
Depending on the company 4 hours seems to be my social limit. After that, unless there is food or more mentally stimulating activities, I start to get irritable needing a break from entertaining. I am neurodivergent, and being social can be quite draining.

 

[gaby]

Hey girls how do you celebrate HALLOWEEN???

 

[Biggie Smalls]

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

 

[gaby]

...or a good bottle of wine ou champagne???....lollll

 

[LC18]

I wasn’t clear. If you participate in overnight at a clients place or hotel. Do you prefer own bed or room for the overnight ?
Really wanted to know much sleep or do not disturb time you need for overnights

Sorry. Didn’t understand it the first time. Let’s try again!

Do you prefer own bed or room for the overnight ?
What’s the point of booking me for the night if we are not going to sleep in the same bed? Unless you’re a sleep kicker or you snore enough to cause a small earthquake, sleeping in the same bed is ok to me.

Really wanted to know much sleep or do not disturb time you need for overnights
We can sleep in the same bed but do not wake me up in the middle of the night for sex unless I specifically said you could.

 

[LC18]

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

I am going to quote myself:

I'd like to bring a gift. Is that ok?
Gifts are never mandatory but always appreciated. I recommend that you either find her wishlist or ask the person directly. You wouldn't want to bring a bottle of wine to someone who's been sober for months or chocolate covered almonds to someone who is deadly allergic so always ask before you bring anything. Twitter can be a good place to find out what a provider might be into or might like.

 

[Biggie Smalls]

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

I am going to quote myself:

Thank you, dear. Good advice.

 

[Nachoy]

1 Do you close your eyes during sex?
If not
Where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?
2. Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
if you do what’s typical playlist you like?

 

[LC18]

1 Do you close your eyes during sex?
If not
Where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?
2. Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
if you do what’s typical playlist you like?

Do you close your eyes during sex?
Sometimes.

If not, where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?
His eyes, his D.

Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
I always have music on.

if you do what’s typical playlist you like?
My playlist is relaxing instrumentals. Barely noticeable but it makes a difference when your date isn’t so talkative

 

[Nachoy]

What are your views about monogamy?
Can a SP ever become truly monogamous?

 

[Rebaynia]

What are your views about monogamy?
Can a SP ever become truly monogamous?

Yes. I was an escort at 18, and quit because I wanted love more than numbers. In my mind it was an either or, I didn't see it as something I could have both. I was the one who was faithful in my monogamous relationships while they were the ones who stepped outside the relationship. And felt hurt that me having my higher drive could be faithful, while needing to refrain myself for their lower drive, for them to still look outside the relationship.

My relationship now knows and understands who I was while single & in relationships, and wants me to embrace all sides of myself. Not keep myself locked up because of the side of myself I would shut down once I would get into a monogamous relationship. Caging my appetite. Knowing that for myself I need to have that box opened because I don't fit in it. Being with other people is actually something I have more issue with than him, but he knows after my last few relationships this is what I need for healing, and to regrow the wings that have been cut off by them.

Just because a girl was an escort doesn't mean she can't be monogamous. In some cases she may be the most dedicated to being faithful, with a better understanding of the difference between love and sex.

 

[Fradi]

I may be wrong but I would think most SP when they quit and decide to find love and a relationship want it to be monogamous.
I think they have probably had more than enough of seeing many men and want someone to love them and them alone.
Personally I don’t believe in cheating and believe that if you are in love with someone they and your family and how to provide a better life for them should be your main goal.
Cheating only leads to jealousy and mistrust and a relationship without trust is doomed.
For some an open relationship may work, for me it would not, I don’t believe in sharing the one I love nor do I believe in deceiving her.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

I don’t think it is worse.
How do you find meaning very easy if you have a loving family you spend time with your children and grandchildren, nothing beats being surrounded by your loved ones.
If you have a group of friends , you get together to play golf with have lunch with go on vacations life doesn’t have to be about survival and work only.
Too many people focus on politics what is wrong with the world etc.. instead of enjoying the simple things and their family.
I guess over time when you get older you realize what is really important to you and you blot out the rest.

Yes it also helps if you happen to know an absolutely gorgeous young lady and you can spend time with her occasionally.

I’m too young to have grand kids. Lol. I don’t have any kids that I know of.
My friends have young children and limited free time. If if they could afford to go on vacation, it’s not possible to coordinate mine with them.
I never cared about politics. It’s a waste of time.
Unless you’re like early twenties just getting older doesn’t bring new found realizations of what’s important. Life events do, I’d say.

ON TOPIC:…
What are your 3 favourite movies? Why?

 

[Fradi]

Unless you’re like early twenties just getting older doesn’t bring new found realizations of what’s important. Life events do, I’d say.

ON TOPIC:…
What are your 3 favourite movies? Why?

How do you get life events without getting older lol.

1 The godfather.
2. Lord of the rings
3 The good bad and the ugly.

 

[neverbored]

Do you close your eyes during sex?
Sometimes.

When you close your eyes, to you visualize or do you imagine the feeling ?

 

[Rebaynia]

1 Do you close your eyes during sex?
If not
Where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?

I tend to close my eyes. I'm not an eye contact type of person it makes me feel REALLY uncomfortable. I don't read people threw eyes like others seem to, and apparently i express everything threw my own. ??? .. Whatever that means. So i keep them closed most of the time to allow them to enjoy what the body says since there is a great disconnect between the body and mind for me. I do make eyecontact when they ask for it, but it won't last long.
Often i allow myself to be off into a kinky fantasy that will keep, or get me excited while he enjoys what he is doing, or i am doing to him.

2. Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
if you do what’s typical playlist you like?

Music is nice to have background sound. When it is too quiet it just feels boring. Besides music can make it more fun by giving a tempo or pace to play with.

I like mostly 90s music or mettle. Soft or romantic is nice too. Just not rap or electronic music.

 

[Rebaynia]

ON TOPIC:…
What are your 3 favourite movies? Why?

I don't have any favorite movies. I will watch a movie a total of 3 times, it will be imprinted in my memory, and i can recall the movie at a later date be it weeks, months, or years later, almost in detail, like watching it again in the mind. Once a movie is imprinted, I move on to another thing to watch to entertain myself.
I am bad with titles and names, so i can't remember what the movies are called or who plays in them, but the situation, storyline, and characters often stick.

The only movies I tend to keep coming back to are stand up comedians.

Oh one series I have enjoyed a few times over was bigmouth from netflix. Not a movie per say, but show series often just play out as a really long movie as far as I'm concerned.

 

[LC18]

When you close your eyes, to you visualize or do you imagine the feeling ?

When you close your eyes, to you visualize or do you imagine the feeling ?
I only close my eyes to switch things up a little. Don’t want to spend the whole time staring at them. O.O

 

[Nachoy]

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?

 

[LC18]

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?
Yes, if I wanted someone simple. Just sex and nothing more but right now I still need to be able to send messages throughout the day and memes so booking a male companion wouldn’t be ideal.