What is your theory about the "oldest profession" relative to the providers being female. In other words SW are in the majority female. So, what are your thoughts on why males don't go into this SW? Is it because of lack of demand from women or from other men? I am curious to know what you think about this...
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not to sound like i am generalizing the sexs... but the question kind of refers to it..
for starters, in the past it was the mans place to work and there was no place for women in the labor force, it was her job to man the house while the man worked... but not all women were married.. and if a girl was devirginized before marriage she was a ruined woman.. if she was deemed unfit to be a wife because she was tainted, she often didn't have a husband, in some cases it would be up to her parents or brothers to support her.. and if there was nobody, often the only way she was able to make money to survive was to sell sex, because the very men who would refuse to marry her because she was tainted were willing to pay to spend time with her.. or she was sold into it by her family because they couldn't support her.
on to todays world.. men are still more than willing to pay for the time with a woman and not have to actually have a relationship with her.. they seem to have a need to explore and test the waters they can get.. dating can be hard, and many men just don't have the time between work and other life and family responsibilities. paying for it becomes an easy way to satisfy a need...
as for women paying for it... not too often.. sure there may be special occasions in a lifetime that she will make the call... but sex itself often goes on the backburner... besides most dating encounters women's pleasure isn't the goal he cares often for his own ejaculation and there is still a large number of women who have never had an orgasm to know what they are missing out on because the time wasn't put into them.. why waist the money if you don't think you are capable of the orgasm... so you can see another man reach climax while you are left unsatisfied.
and then there's the point my master brought up to me... even an unattractive woman can walk into a bar and likely just announce she is horney and someone will take her up on the offer... not to sound jaded, but there's always someone who is just happy to have a warm willing hole present itself regardless how she looks.
the clientele for male escorts is majority other men... there are women clients I'm sure.. but the percentage of women looking next to the percentage of men is just a really big difference.. it just comes down to supply and demand..
So, what are your thoughts on why males don't go into this SW? Is it because of lack of demand from women or from other men? It’s always been easier for a woman than for a man to get laid. Men usually chase and women get chased.
What tips would you give a thirty something male to find real love in this era of dating apps, impatience, and materialism ?
Would you or your friends ever marry a man who makes less money than you? Why or why not?
Would you or your friends ever marry a man who makes less money than you? Why or why not?
do you and other sw have more "traditional" ideas of gender roles? Ie, men provide and women manage the kids and household? I’ve tried the stay at home mom - providing partner thing and didn’t enjoy it. I prefer we both make our own money and both take care of the house and kids if we have some.
Yeah, that's why I was never a Leafs fan either
What tips would you give a thirty something male to find real love in this era of dating apps, impatience, and materialism ? I can’t really answer this one because I’m not really a romantic person.
Would you or your friends ever marry a man who makes less money than you? Why or why not? My friends? No, none of them would. Me? Me neither actually. Doesn’t mean I expect my partner to pay for everything though.
What do you hate the most in our Merb reviews? Never read yours specifically so this answer is more general but; why do they have to be so graphic? Sometimes I read reviews and I feel like I’m in the room with you. They actually hurt us more than they help us, because you create false expectations.
I love the short and sweet reviews like: did she look like her photos? did she offer what she’s advertising? Was her incall clean? did you enjoy the session? Would you book again?
Everyone in my life knows that I’m a sex worker. From my mom to my grandma to my boss at the dentist office. It isn’t something I feel ashamed of personally.
A regular client is different to everyone but personally a regular client is someone I see frequently (atleast on a monthly basis, often times more frequently) or someone who I’ve seen frequently enough to be memorable.
Ramadan, February and sometimes march. And September because of back to school.The trend is considering the mean of the last 5 years being a Sex worker.
Why SP's don't mention their prices on LL? I don’t use that website so I don’t know. I will let others answer.
Same.. I don't use the site.
But I can guess from going to take a look at it... there are some who do. My guess is those who don't are hopeing to be contacted to tell you, and might not have a set price... My guess is those might be the types of girls with a menu and set prices for each individual activity with set time frames... (I've had a friend show me how someone else he knew had her prices laid out... it seriously looked like a restaurant menu)
They may do it also just not to be passed because they are asking rediculous prices also. If your asking fair prices your likely to show them, just to let those men willing to pay that price know they can afford you. ??? Like i said i don't really know, but there are a few theories.
Do you think Women started to offer in order to provide for them selves or did they offer beacause men would inquire?
(I know this is some kinda of Chicken or egg kinda question.)
This is the best version of Mtv crib...EVER!
Seriously, thank you for sharing with us, this trend is great.
I think women were likely forced into it before being asked...
Agree....first time we have such an interplay with the ladies.....et elles y participent/répondent avec franchise......yep very very interesting....thanks girls....and the one who started it....
Thank you for making this thread interesting and asking questions with respect and curiosity. I will keep trying to get other sex workers to join and answer questions.
I did not expect such a positive response from you all. Thank you to the other sex workers that have taken time to answer.
I did not expect such a positive response from you all. Thank you to the other sex workers that have taken time to answer.
Quel est le cadeau qui vous a fait le plus plaisir ?.....et le genre de cadeau que vous aimez recevoir...... vêtements/bijoux/voyage/vin/champagne....others.....
What's on my wishlist is always what I will appreciate the most. Many times I was gifted cheap lingerie, jewelry and clothes that I'll never wear and things I never asked for or ever thought about. As another girl I know said on Twitter, I don't live in a large enough space to stock things I don't like or need at all. My wishlist is curated with items I need, like, and most importantly, know I will use! Otherwise, a good bottle of wine is always a gift I'll enjoy!
*Peyton's tweet goes like this and reflects my thoughts well:
"I very much appreciate the thought behind bringing me gifts. But, if it’s not on my wishlist / something I’ve explicitly asked for: please don’t buy me anything.Take my garbage down for me when you leave, it would be a better gift over another $20 vibrator / box of chocolates. I live in a 500 sqft space and already have to get creative for storage. Gifts are not really gifts if they’re something you want to give me more than something I actually want. A repeat visit is always the best present you can give me! "
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