Personally yes. I can’t speak for everyone.Ramadan? Are middle Eastern men that large of a demographic that sees providers that it's noticeable?
Personally yes. I can’t speak for everyone.Ramadan? Are middle Eastern men that large of a demographic that sees providers that it's noticeable?
I enjoyed receiving gift cards that allowed me to choose things that I wanted for myself. Any gift that is genuine is appreciated but unless you’re a regular , you often haven’t a clue about what I like/am passionate about. So in that case gift cards are appreciated!Quel est le cadeau qui vous a fait le plus plaisir ?.....et le genre de cadeau que vous aimez recevoir...... vêtements/bijoux/voyage/vin/champagne....others.....
When I am lied to about the address or apartment number..Has there been a time that you have refused to provide service to someone after they arrived at your agreed upon place? If yes, what was the reason? Hygiene, attitude, price dispute, etc.?
I do have a certain traditional idea of gender role. Let’s say traditional but with a modern touch! I prone equality of gender but I do think that a few things are made for only men do to like mowing the lawn or being the provider of the household.Not to generalize too much based off your comments in this thread, but do you and other sw have more "traditional" ideas of gender roles? Ie, men provide and women manage the kids and household?
Since being independent I never refuse someone at their arrival. I’m grateful that I met really clean and respectful clients. I did have a situation where I was going to stop the appointment because the guy was trying to not respect my boundaries. Didn’t cross it but still! I told you NO once it should be enough to stop trying!Has there been a time that you have refused to provide service to someone after they arrived at your agreed upon place? If yes, what was the reason? Hygiene, attitude, price dispute, etc.?
Same! I tend to repeat the price in the confirmation message to not have to deal with this kind of guy trying to short me 10-20$! If you don’t have the amount we decided before I get there I’m sorry but I’m doing nothing. You knew you didn’t have the correct amount but still tried to push your way. Such a disrespectful thing and so insulting!When I am lied to about the address or apartment number..
I have had guys try and meet me at my car and try to guide me to the back door to the wrong address so I wouldn't notice (I did, addresses are on the back of buildings as well as the front). or when I showed up at an apartment building and they think it's no big deal that they mislead me.. but I've been lied to I won't go in and I wont return. I don't give multiple chances... I have major trust issues, and if he's lying about that what other forms of disrespect am I in for, and mistrust his entire intent because he is trying to pull one over on me for the location. Even as indy, I let someone know where I am in case something bad happens.. and if that person doesn't have the correct info for my safety then I don't feel safe...
oh and if they try to short change me the price, get there and they say i only have x amount, i hand them back their money and walk out... some will magically find the missing amount... some are flabbergasted that I have no interest in being short changed and will walk away with nothing over $5. It's the disrespect to me... I have a no tolerance to any form of disrespect.
Moi mon cadeau le plus important jusqu’à date a été ma voiture. Il m’as offert l’argent pour que j’aille l’acheter. Toujours reconnaissante et je manifeste de plus gros cadeau. Sinon dernièrement je me fais offrir des robes ou vêtements spécifiques qu’ils veulent que je mette. J’ai eu également deux voyages à Vancouver payer par un Mr sans même l’avoir rencontré et en début Octobre j’ai un voyage pour Toronto avec un autre Mr. On va pas faire les boutiques ou des choses extra mais juste le fait de payer pour mon déplacement plus pour mon temps c’est déjà énorme pour moi. Mon premier voyage à Calgary semi-payé également. Pour mon anniversaire j’ai reçu des parfums; des fleurs; des cartes et une invitation au restaurant. J’ai eu aussi beaucoup de chocolats car j’ai une dent sucré hihiQuel est le cadeau qui vous a fait le plus plaisir ?.....et le genre de cadeau que vous aimez recevoir...... vêtements/bijoux/voyage/vin/champagne....others.....
My most important and biggest gift has been my car. He offered me the money to go buy it. Always grateful and Im manifesting bigger gifts. Otherwise lately I'm being offered specific dresses or clothes that they want me to wear. I also had two trips to Vancouver paid by a Mr without even meeting him and in early October Im having a trip to Toronto with another Mr. We're not going to shop or do extra things but just paying for my trip plus for my time is already huge for me. For my birthday I received perfumes; flowers; cards and an invitation to the restaurant. I also had a lot of chocolates because I have a sweet tooth hihiQuel est le cadeau qui vous a fait le plus plaisir ?.....et le genre de cadeau que vous aimez recevoir...... vêtements/bijoux/voyage/vin/champagne....others.....
I was raised in a single parent home. and for myself much of my time as a parent I was alone myself (I didn't believe in staying with a sub-par man just because he got me pregnant) unfortunately it also meant I didn't know how to find a good man, and seemed to attract men who eventually I would just realize held me back in life. so had to be both the bread winner and the home maker, because only men who were willing to settle for a single mom and ex escort were ones who weren't exactly good catches. (i had the lowest self esteem) either they didn't work, or if they did, didn't really contribute much, or anything at all for some.. I saw them as good for nothing else but giving me orgasms... my attitude has changed some over the years (or maybe not.. lol.. now men support me with sex instead of me supporting them for it.. ) but each relationship seemed to be 1 step closer to better men each time.Not to generalize too much based off your comments in this thread, but do you and other sw have more "traditional" ideas of gender roles? Ie, men provide and women manage the kids and household?
Because most men don’t read anyway! So no need to write a bunch of things. You can write it’s free service if you text the word « pineapple » and 99% of them will pass behind because they didn’t read; they didn’t even look correctly at your pictures and they will be asking you in dms if you are white or black lol’llll! Or to send extra pictures to remember who you are. They text a bunch of girls at the same time.Why SP's don't mention their prices on LL?
Are these men that do these things for you extremely wealthy? Or are they stretching themselves? I make a lot of money relatively, but paying for a trip+time with a provider adds up quickly for anybody. Granted I'm at the beginning of my career and haven't had enough time to accumulate a fuck you amount of money, but I don't think I'd feel any differently about the exorbitant cost when I'm older.
Seeing their lifestyle those men are wealthy! But I do have really wealthy clients that pay my rate no tip or no gift at all. And that’s okay too! I prefer that than someone who gift me something and when we have a disagreement he then start remembering all the gifts and how he helped me bla-bla-bla. I think if you do appreciate someone it comes naturally to gift them even if you are not wealthy.Are these men that do these things for you extremely wealthy? Or are they stretching themselves? I make a lot of money relatively, but paying for a trip+time with a provider adds up quickly for anybody. Granted I'm at the beginning of my career and haven't had enough time to accumulate a fuck you amount of money, but I don't think I'd feel any differently about the exorbitant cost when I'm older.
Most of my expensive gifts comes from 50+ years married men ( oupsi )!Are these men that do these things for you extremely wealthy? Or are they stretching themselves? I make a lot of money relatively, but paying for a trip+time with a provider adds up quickly for anybody. I had someone pay my rent in the past and more recently, I had a client buying flight tickets for my baby and I. I do get other expensive ish gifts from time to time.
They’re all single with children that don’t live with them so a little more disposable income I guess. They have good jobs and we have great relationships as far as it goes in this world. We do chat outside of our paid encounters.
Ladies who are un the sex business, what are your views about all that non-binary thing? You can't have non- binary sex, or can you?
Three times. Once, the guy gave me the ick feeling I couldn’t shake and I didn’t feel comfortable with him in my space. And twice for hygiene reasons. They showed up looking as if the belonged outside a metro begging .Has there been a time that you have refused to provide service to someone after they arrived at your agreed upon place? If yes, what was the reason? Hygiene, attitude, price dispute, etc.?
Not likely... I don't shave it off to add fake pubes... I can just imagine how uncomfortable that must feel, seeing as the real deal was uncomfortable enough to need to get rid of it. Just the idea of what that must feel like is giving me the icks.A kind of goofy question: would you wear a merkin? Some kind of pubic wig?
When I started last year I wasn’t doing enough to declare it. So I will just try to spend the most I can cash and the rest I will put it in my bank. But this year I’m making really interesting amounts even though I’m not full time in this industry and I hate keeping cash on me or in my house. So I created a legal registered business with a business bank account. At the end of the year I will declare what I made and pay taxes like every body. I have to save up enough money to prepare myself for the taxes next year. Within a year or two I will be able to use my business annual income to have credibility and do things like buying a brand new car or buying a house etc.How do you guys spend the cash? Can you put it in a bank and invest it? Do you declare it as income like an ordinary job? Do you pay for all your living expenses in cash? Obviously it's not every provider, but some girls are fully booked constantly, and work a lot. It's a large amount of cash that they are bringing in. If nobody answers this question, I'd understand.