I think women were likely forced into it before being asked...
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Agree....first time we have such an interplay with the ladies.....et elles y participent/répondent avec franchise......yep very very interesting....thanks girls....and the one who started it....
Thank you for making this thread interesting and asking questions with respect and curiosity. I will keep trying to get other sex workers to join and answer questions.
I did not expect such a positive response from you all. Thank you to the other sex workers that have taken time to answer.
I did not expect such a positive response from you all. Thank you to the other sex workers that have taken time to answer.
Quel est le cadeau qui vous a fait le plus plaisir ?.....et le genre de cadeau que vous aimez recevoir...... vêtements/bijoux/voyage/vin/champagne....others.....
What's on my wishlist is always what I will appreciate the most. Many times I was gifted cheap lingerie, jewelry and clothes that I'll never wear and things I never asked for or ever thought about. As another girl I know said on Twitter, I don't live in a large enough space to stock things I don't like or need at all. My wishlist is curated with items I need, like, and most importantly, know I will use! Otherwise, a good bottle of wine is always a gift I'll enjoy!
*Peyton's tweet goes like this and reflects my thoughts well:
"I very much appreciate the thought behind bringing me gifts. But, if it’s not on my wishlist / something I’ve explicitly asked for: please don’t buy me anything.Take my garbage down for me when you leave, it would be a better gift over another $20 vibrator / box of chocolates. I live in a 500 sqft space and already have to get creative for storage. Gifts are not really gifts if they’re something you want to give me more than something I actually want. A repeat visit is always the best present you can give me! "
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I enjoyed receiving gift cards that allowed me to choose things that I wanted for myself. Any gift that is genuine is appreciated but unless you’re a regular , you often haven’t a clue about what I like/am passionate about. So in that case gift cards are appreciated!
When I am lied to about the address or apartment number..
I have had guys try and meet me at my car and try to guide me to the back door to the wrong address so I wouldn't notice (I did, addresses are on the back of buildings as well as the front). or when I showed up at an apartment building and they think it's no big deal that they mislead me.. but I've been lied to I won't go in and I wont return. I don't give multiple chances... I have major trust issues, and if he's lying about that what other forms of disrespect am I in for, and mistrust his entire intent because he is trying to pull one over on me for the location. Even as indy, I let someone know where I am in case something bad happens.. and if that person doesn't have the correct info for my safety then I don't feel safe...
oh and if they try to short change me the price, get there and they say i only have x amount, i hand them back their money and walk out... some will magically find the missing amount... some are flabbergasted that I have no interest in being short changed and will walk away with nothing over $5. It's the disrespect to me... I have a no tolerance to any form of disrespect.
I was raised in a single parent home. and for myself much of my time as a parent I was alone myself (I didn't believe in staying with a sub-par man just because he got me pregnant) unfortunately it also meant I didn't know how to find a good man, and seemed to attract men who eventually I would just realize held me back in life. so had to be both the bread winner and the home maker, because only men who were willing to settle for a single mom and ex escort were ones who weren't exactly good catches. (i had the lowest self esteem) either they didn't work, or if they did, didn't really contribute much, or anything at all for some.. I saw them as good for nothing else but giving me orgasms... my attitude has changed some over the years (or maybe not.. lol.. now men support me with sex instead of me supporting them for it.. ) but each relationship seemed to be 1 step closer to better men each time.
But after my life, I get to say what I have in my life I earned myself. It was hard work and earned and haven't really had handouts.
For the longest time I cursed feminism because what it seemed to have produced was men who were more than willing to sit back and do nothing now that the woman was expected to do everything... I always wished it wasn't like that. My relationship now is very different than the ones in the past, and the gender roles are more in place with our m/s relationship, I finally get to feel like the woman in the relationship than feeling like I was carrying dead weight just to be viewed as a respectable woman in a relationship. (threw respectability out the window and berried myself in my deep dark fantasy world now)
I'm kind of a cautionary tale of what could happen I guess... after quitting escorting for a love that didn't work out and having a kid, and being back in the dating world, when the job done in the past was brought up, more then enough men, one after another, made sure to let me know I was the dirtiest piece of crap out there, even though all my life I have been perceived as a sweetheart. Till there was no self esteem and self worth left... I spent 20 years building it back up, to find this is where I am happiest, and in a relationship who accepts me for it, and keeps me built up to enjoy it as i still struggle with the nasty things said to me in the past for having done it to begin with.
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Are these men that do these things for you extremely wealthy? Or are they stretching themselves? I make a lot of money relatively, but paying for a trip+time with a provider adds up quickly for anybody. I had someone pay my rent in the past and more recently, I had a client buying flight tickets for my baby and I. I do get other expensive ish gifts from time to time.
They’re all single with children that don’t live with them so a little more disposable income I guess. They have good jobs and we have great relationships as far as it goes in this world. We do chat outside of our paid encounters.
Ladies who are un the sex business, what are your views about all that non-binary thing? You can't have non- binary sex, or can you?
I don't think there is any difference in non-binary sex.. it's just playing with whatever part is being provided, pleasing whatever the sexual organ is regardless of the identified gender... .. there just might sometimes be a discussion to be had at the beginning about any body parts they might wish you to avoid. often there might be a case of body dysmorphia to be aware of in handling them.. It's also possible some might even just be looking for a girl with a stapon and avoid their member all together.. but it is a very rare situation.
Three times. Once, the guy gave me the ick feeling I couldn’t shake and I didn’t feel comfortable with him in my space. And twice for hygiene reasons. They showed up looking as if the belonged outside a metro begging .
Not likely... I don't shave it off to add fake pubes... I can just imagine how uncomfortable that must feel, seeing as the real deal was uncomfortable enough to need to get rid of it. Just the idea of what that must feel like is giving me the icks.
Here's a question that surely was already answered some time ago, but I figured it would fit to be asked again here.
Do you like spanking under certain conditions or not at all?
Do you like spanking under certain conditions or not at all?
Do you like spanking under certain conditions or not at all? Yes, if it’s reasonable.
I haven't approved spanking yet as a work thing, I don't want lasting marks from clients when working. A tap on the ass here and there, i don't care about .. my master doesn't want marks on me that aren't there without his approval.
But oh on a very different playing field... when I am spanked by my master, I get insanely wet... With him i have all the trust in the world, no fear, and it is consensual, and exhilarating.
I am a bit of a rock/metal head, my favorite band is I Prevail... and oh... i am in that mosh pit... and used to think i had a bladder problem when in the mosh pit... till like the last 2 times I have gone, and realized, it wasn't pee, but just that i would get so wet it felt like i had peed my pants by the end of the concert...
And fun in counting the bruises that have been had in the mosh pit itself... and the poor people who would see the bruises in shock and horror while i tell them it came from having the time of my life in a mosh pit.
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Friend no, acquaintance probably.
i agree that months is a bit weird to me too. Also, the further the booking, the firmer I’ll be on deposits.
I don’t have an absolute “favorite” timeframe. Weather last minute, same day, 24-48h, 1 week or 1 month, they all have their pros and cons.
That said, my least favorite are the “right now”s. In my experience (and according to my mental stats) they have the highest flop/fuckery/kickout rate. Obviously, not all last minute appointments are bad appointments.. but the good ones are very few and far between.
Except for one, every seriously problematic booking I’ve ever had was a “right now” one. I also find right now guys to be the most demanding (which makes sense considering they’re the ones inquiring in the heat of the moment and super horny). They ghost mid convo the most and the discrepancy between what they want and what they’re willing to pay is the absolute highest. They usually have done little to no research and they’re just the worst overall. The no shows amongst this group don’t bother me very much because they happen while the wave of inquiries I get right after bumping my ad is still going on so I’ll just move onto the next most seriousperson. Interestingly though, it’s also all or nothing between low ballers and big spenders.
My favorite is booking in the morning for evening and evening for super early morning. It’s my personal sweet spot. I have plenty of time to get ready, eat, organize the rest of the day around a reservation yet still be in the same mood/mindset when you show up as when you booked it. No shows are really annoying in this group. If I book you in the morning for that evening, I stop bumping my listing and responding to new inquiries so salvaging the day / time slot is near impossible. Some no shows but not too many either. I find the requests and expectations way more reasonable but not overly boring within this group. Average $ amount per meet is good, not great but more consistent. Most if not all attempts at endless texting and conversation happen within this group. Somehow too many think that since they’ve booked for evening, they’re entitled to text endlessly until said appointment.
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