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[Skym]

Do SPs get sexually attracted to their clients? Especially if the guy is jacked and hot? Lol

 

[Skym]

Does size matter? Lol

 

[LC18]

Do SPs get sexually attracted to their clients? Especially if the guy is jacked and hot? Lol

I am sexually attracted to most of my clients but it doesn’t mean they’re all hot. I have some that I find very attractive but sex isn’t that great.

 

[LC18]

Does size matter? Lol

To me it does but only for deepthroat. I enjoy doing it but can’t do it as easily with a larger guy.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Does size matter? Lol

Yes it does but not as beauty standards or medias makes you think it does. As Lena said, for particular activity or even vaginal canal it is better to have a certain size or shape.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Do SPs get sexually attracted to their clients? Especially if the guy is jacked and hot? Lol

I am attracted to people of all genders that are kind, attentive to my needs and have a great sense of humor. I do not care for body shape I am just glad if my partner feel themselves and good about themselves. Tgis gives them confidence and therefore makes them more attractive

 

[curly]

Do you ladies have a lot of female clients? Are they more interested in the pure sex or the intimacy?

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Are the demographics of clients changing? The typical profile of a client was generally older men, but with dating becoming more challenging and marriages declining, I would imagine more younger clients seeking SPs as well.

Anything you learned about yourself (or life, or men, or romance, sex, etc..) that you wouldn't have otherwise learned or realized before entering your profession?

My clientele is mostly mature men (50 + )!
I think all depends of what men of a certain age are looking for and the service you offer. Plus your rate. Even though my rates are consider average in Montreal (not low not too high) I tend to promote more longer appointments to really target a specific clientele. Most of my clientele are looking for that caring person and that connection that make them forget the transactional part of the relation and their every day life. Most younger men tend to be seeking only sex and shorter appointments for multiple reasons. That’s not what my branding is. I’m all about passion; real connection; real conversations.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Do SPs get sexually attracted to their clients? Especially if the guy is jacked and hot? Lol

I think attraction is subjective. It’s just a matter of perception (in your mind). I may be attracted to a client who is completely the opposite of what I’m searching in a partner physically just by the way he treats me and makes me feel when we are together!
A top model body does nothing if you are an awful person. Completely turn me off!

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Other than the money what made you decide to be a SP?

- I used to have a SD and I fell in love with the lifestyle . I love mature men like Lena
- the flexibility to make my own schedule
- being my own boss
- travel
- meet really interesting people that can help you in your future business plan
- meet simply amazing people
- experience different things and discover yourself more sexually
- Get to know your boundaries

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

When you are seeing someone in your personal life do you ever disclose what you do ? I would think it would be easier to not have to state it outright.

My love life is pretty much boring at the moment and I’m not really searching but if I meet someone I will tell him within the few first dates what I do. When I’m getting to know someone that I like I’m looking for something serious so I want them to tell me from the beginning if it will be an issue or not.
I’m not a one night stand or a friend with benefits or « let’s hang out and see how it goes » type of girl ! So I date only for something serious if not it’s a complete waste of time for me.
Really strange from a hooker huh? LOL

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Question. If a meeting involves dinner out and pleasure time do you prefer the dinner first or pleasure.

If it’s our first meeting I prefer the dinner before just to break the ice and get more comfortable. If we have met more than once then I don’t mind having desert before.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

I'm glad you asked. I've always wondered if service providers genuinely enjoy having sex with clients or if they fake orgasms. Is there mutual pleasure and satisfaction involved in these encounters?

I do have a lot of pleasure in my meetings even though I don’t always have an orgasm and it’s okay ( I can cum in two ways) . I don’t fake because that ask me way more energy and concentration instead of actually enjoying the moment and taking it easy.
At the end of the day the important thing is that we both respect each other and enjoy ourselves even if I or you didn’t have an orgasm!

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Have you or would you ever consider dating a client?

I got a few clients wanting to « date me » but the conditions there were asking were purely beneficial for them only! Most of them are not serious about dating you it’s just a way to ask for a discount or free time.
So to answer the question: Yes I did consider and I will consider dating a client if it’s a real connection; if he is ready to really take care of me ( that’s mean also financially not just the physical and emotional part) and if I don’t feel it’s only to take advantage of me. It’s not easy to do the difference between « I want to date you because I want free sex and I’m seeking for company » and « I want to date you because I want you to be by my side and I will do anything to make you happy»

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

If a friend or a acquaintance want your services, would you accept ?

With the experience I have now I will say no! I did have a friend who became a client but as you can imagine it ended up badly and now I have lost a friend and a client. Better be safe than sorry !

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Oh good, a no stupid questions thread, because I def feel my question might be a bit stupid, but what's the ideal time frame to book and indy in advance? How far out do schedules start to fill up? I've heard booking something more than a month out might be considered a bit weird. I would figure the more notice the better but I'm brand new to all this so I don't know. :shrug:

I will say 2 days in advance is usually good but with our personal life we get busy really quick so I will suggest 1 week in advance if you can. That gives us enough time to possibly rearrange our schedule to accommodate you!

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Do SPs get attracted to their clients?

Yes we do

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I do have a lot of pleasure in my meetings even though I don’t always have an orgasm and it’s okay ( I can cum in two ways) . I don’t fake because that ask me way more energy and concentration instead of actually enjoying the moment and taking it easy.
At the end of the day the important thing is that we both respect each other and enjoy ourselves even if I or you didn’t have an orgasm!

I greatly appreciate your thoughtful and sincere words.Your honesty is truly commendable and it earns my utmost respect.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Do you ladies have a lot of female clients? Are they more interested in the pure sex or the intimacy?

I don’t have a lot of female clients. I may have had 2 female clients since last year ( I don’t include couples ). I don’t advertise that either !
For my experience it was more for the sex. They wanted to try something they never did before and that’s it.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

This may be a sensitive question, but I've always wondered what is the mindset regarding your future ? For some girls, this is a second revenue stream, but I've known a lot of girls for whom this was the only revenue stream and there aren't many jobs out there that can pay what this pays. I've known only a handful of girls that actually had the mindset of putting money aside and when their beauty starts to fade, they can hit rock bottom really fast. Another issue I see, even with a degree, if you haven't worked in that field for a few years, the skills fade, which means the value on the market also fades.

At what point do you start working on the next step ?

I don’t want to judge girls that don’t have a plan in mind for the after part because for them there is no after ; they love the industry and until they are able to work the future doesn’t matter!
For me even before starting to work I had a future plan. I do love this job but I don’t see myself doing it until my old days. If I ever do it will be really different from what I’m doing now!
I will love to display my future plans to everyone here but I think it’s better for me to keep them for myself until I get to realize them. All I can say is that I would have never been where I am now without this job! It helps me to finish my nursing school without depths and giving me the choice of working part time just to keep my skills. I have things to achieve and this job is helping me to go faster!