This is true. Brushing of teeth prior to an encounter should be avoided. I would also advise to rinse your mouth with strong mouthwash before and especially after the encounter.
Do you have hobbying rules ?
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This is true. Brushing of teeth prior to an encounter should be avoided. I would also advise to rinse your mouth with strong mouthwash before and especially after the encounter.
My own rules:
1. Check the reviews before for any girls. (from trusted reviewers!), very rare TOFTT.
2. Never invite a girl with negative or moody reviews.
3. Attitude trumps beauty and age!
4. Only from trusted agencies.
5. Must enjoy cuddling/DFK. Not into mechanical PSE.
6. Never in my own place, always at hotels.
7. Always tip the girl IF service was good. We must encourage and reward good behaviors!
8. No repeats (rare exceptions...)
1. Check the reviews before for any girls. (from trusted reviewers!), very rare TOFTT.
2. Never invite a girl with negative or moody reviews.
3. Attitude trumps beauty and age!
4. Only from trusted agencies.
5. Must enjoy cuddling/DFK. Not into mechanical PSE.
6. Never in my own place, always at hotels.
7. Always tip the girl IF service was good. We must encourage and reward good behaviors!
8. No repeats (rare exceptions...)
- Never contact an sp with names like Louise, Guylaine, Shirley or Sandra
- Never contact an sp in St-Jerome or Drumondville
- Tell to myself each morning that Trump supporters can still be good people
- Never browse sp adds past 10pm
- Never browse sp adds before 8am
- Tell to myself each night that Trump supporters can still be good people
- Never contact sp with adds that contains one of these words: Mouillez, Chaude, Queue, Cochonne, Rapide, Chatte, Gourmande
- And never ever contact an sp with add title that say: Gourmande cochonne toujours chaude et mouillez se déplace rapide pour mettre ta queue dans ma chatte
With this, I am ready to conquer!
Cheers,
- Never contact an sp in St-Jerome or Drumondville
- Tell to myself each morning that Trump supporters can still be good people
- Never browse sp adds past 10pm
- Never browse sp adds before 8am
- Tell to myself each night that Trump supporters can still be good people
- Never contact sp with adds that contains one of these words: Mouillez, Chaude, Queue, Cochonne, Rapide, Chatte, Gourmande
- And never ever contact an sp with add title that say: Gourmande cochonne toujours chaude et mouillez se déplace rapide pour mettre ta queue dans ma chatte
With this, I am ready to conquer!
Cheers,
Good rules Jalimon, I to don't want girls with the same names as my mother, grand-mother or any other relative you only see at Christmas.
As for Trump supporters being good people, I'm not shure....
As for Trump supporters being good people, I'm not shure....
My process for the two basic scenarios for which I hire an escort....kinda like rules I guess:
KNOW THYSELF AND DO YOUR LEGWORK. It will result in better outcomes overall. This is the only rule that matters really.
Scenario 1: ENCOUNTER WITH A SIDE OF SEX.
- Defined as a pleasant evening with a (potentially) interesting woman. This usually lasts 4 to 8 hours. An ephemeral connection with a human being for an evening is what I want; the sex is secondary. I usually look for this in places where I don't know anyone but want to experience some of what the city has to offer. Eating alone is sad.
- These are tricky because I'm not on my home turf and I don't have time for tryout dates. Most of the time this process leads to positive outcome. If not, I get dinner company and we end it with that.
1) I review ads and bookmark the ones that appeal to me based on the write up and photos. (is the content unique or the same boudoir gibberish women think men want to hear. Do the photos looks like they are of a real person...or are they all photoshopped sudo sexy fantasies designed for man with little imagination)
2) Inevitably a few women stick in my mind and I go back to their pages a few times. This becomes my short list.
3) Review twitter feed, facebook feed, posts on the local board, if any and see if she still interests me. Not really interested in the menu; vanilla is fine with me. I am more interested in her ability to hold a conversation as a normal human being than what is happens later in the evening.
4) Reach out and see if she is friendly and reasonable. If not, move on. If she is, I do a little back and forth; careful not to be a time waster.
5) As we come to an agreement on the evening's activities, I send her a small dissertation about me. No more than page or so; mostly bullets. She has likely never met me and we are going to spend an extended amount of time in a public and private setting. I want to make sure she does not spend the first half wondering about my eccentricities or how I usually conduct myself.
6) A little communication can go a long way.
7) Be clean, on time, don't surprise her with any major changes, play safe and be a gentleman...or as close to one as you are capable. ;-p
Scenario 2: TRANSACTIONAL SEX
- Just got an itch to scratch and my nethers are mostly in charge.
- This assumes I don't have a "goto gal" in mind.
1) Suddenly the menu matters! Review message boards and look for ladies that offer what I am looking for.
2) I don't care if she finds me interesting. I don't care if I find her interesting. I don't care about the write up, I don't care about ethnicity. I don't care about appearances that terribly much other that she looks like she has her shit together and has what I am looking for. Performance is king. I never forget she is a human being but in these short encounters, she is compensated for my pleasures for 90 minutes and that is about the end of it. This is a fee for service transaction and I've never meet an escort that has not treated it that way. Some are better at hiding it than others...
3) Look for reviews from credible reviewers. Lots of fraud in this line of work.
4) Reach out and see if she is friendly. If not, move on. If she is, I do a little back and forth, careful not to be a time waster, and let her know exactly what I am looking for in a courteous way. Admittedly this can sometime be difficult sometimes. I tend to tread gently at first and let her give me the ok to be more explicit.
5) A little communication can go a long way.
6) Be clean, on time, don't surprise her with any new requests, play safe and be a gentleman...or not if that is what the two of you agreed too. ;-p
Note: Cost is, of course, a factor. In this business, price is no indicator of value just like hiring a porn star is no guarantee that you will fuck like a porn star. (who wants to cum on command anyway). I'm more likely to go above market rates for the ENCOUNTER, I am making an evening of it and I think this scenarios is harder for the lady (Hell, I don't even want to spend 4 to 8 hours with me). I pay local market rate for the TRANSACTIONAL encounter.
Oh, and I never hire eye candy for the sake of eye candy; my most memorable experiences are with less traditional beauties.
Tw1st
KNOW THYSELF AND DO YOUR LEGWORK. It will result in better outcomes overall. This is the only rule that matters really.
Scenario 1: ENCOUNTER WITH A SIDE OF SEX.
- Defined as a pleasant evening with a (potentially) interesting woman. This usually lasts 4 to 8 hours. An ephemeral connection with a human being for an evening is what I want; the sex is secondary. I usually look for this in places where I don't know anyone but want to experience some of what the city has to offer. Eating alone is sad.
- These are tricky because I'm not on my home turf and I don't have time for tryout dates. Most of the time this process leads to positive outcome. If not, I get dinner company and we end it with that.
1) I review ads and bookmark the ones that appeal to me based on the write up and photos. (is the content unique or the same boudoir gibberish women think men want to hear. Do the photos looks like they are of a real person...or are they all photoshopped sudo sexy fantasies designed for man with little imagination)
2) Inevitably a few women stick in my mind and I go back to their pages a few times. This becomes my short list.
3) Review twitter feed, facebook feed, posts on the local board, if any and see if she still interests me. Not really interested in the menu; vanilla is fine with me. I am more interested in her ability to hold a conversation as a normal human being than what is happens later in the evening.
4) Reach out and see if she is friendly and reasonable. If not, move on. If she is, I do a little back and forth; careful not to be a time waster.
5) As we come to an agreement on the evening's activities, I send her a small dissertation about me. No more than page or so; mostly bullets. She has likely never met me and we are going to spend an extended amount of time in a public and private setting. I want to make sure she does not spend the first half wondering about my eccentricities or how I usually conduct myself.
6) A little communication can go a long way.
7) Be clean, on time, don't surprise her with any major changes, play safe and be a gentleman...or as close to one as you are capable. ;-p
Scenario 2: TRANSACTIONAL SEX
- Just got an itch to scratch and my nethers are mostly in charge.
- This assumes I don't have a "goto gal" in mind.
1) Suddenly the menu matters! Review message boards and look for ladies that offer what I am looking for.
2) I don't care if she finds me interesting. I don't care if I find her interesting. I don't care about the write up, I don't care about ethnicity. I don't care about appearances that terribly much other that she looks like she has her shit together and has what I am looking for. Performance is king. I never forget she is a human being but in these short encounters, she is compensated for my pleasures for 90 minutes and that is about the end of it. This is a fee for service transaction and I've never meet an escort that has not treated it that way. Some are better at hiding it than others...
3) Look for reviews from credible reviewers. Lots of fraud in this line of work.
4) Reach out and see if she is friendly. If not, move on. If she is, I do a little back and forth, careful not to be a time waster, and let her know exactly what I am looking for in a courteous way. Admittedly this can sometime be difficult sometimes. I tend to tread gently at first and let her give me the ok to be more explicit.
5) A little communication can go a long way.
6) Be clean, on time, don't surprise her with any new requests, play safe and be a gentleman...or not if that is what the two of you agreed too. ;-p
Note: Cost is, of course, a factor. In this business, price is no indicator of value just like hiring a porn star is no guarantee that you will fuck like a porn star. (who wants to cum on command anyway). I'm more likely to go above market rates for the ENCOUNTER, I am making an evening of it and I think this scenarios is harder for the lady (Hell, I don't even want to spend 4 to 8 hours with me
). I pay local market rate for the TRANSACTIONAL encounter. Oh, and I never hire eye candy for the sake of eye candy; my most memorable experiences are with less traditional beauties.
Tw1st
Risk management!
Be prepared for, and be willing to accept, your session may be a total waste of money.
Even the best lady in the world can sleep in or be sick.
Or you might have a shitty day at work that ruins your mood.
Life is not fair, you are not "guaranteed" anything in this world.
If you are not willing to write off an hour's time then do not risk it.
I think of visiting a new lady as a sort of interview process. If it doesn't work out no big deal, I just don't see her again. No hard feelings.
My policy is find someone you really like and click with, and stick with them instead of running around. Loyalty has its rewards.
Be prepared for, and be willing to accept, your session may be a total waste of money.
Even the best lady in the world can sleep in or be sick.
Or you might have a shitty day at work that ruins your mood.
Life is not fair, you are not "guaranteed" anything in this world.
If you are not willing to write off an hour's time then do not risk it.
I think of visiting a new lady as a sort of interview process. If it doesn't work out no big deal, I just don't see her again. No hard feelings.
My policy is find someone you really like and click with, and stick with them instead of running around. Loyalty has its rewards.
My rule is to never be afraid to leave. I rather waste my time than waste money. If I have a bad feeling, or if I'm just asking myself "should I or should I not", I just tell the girl I'm leaving and I head for the door. Sometimes it's because of the girl looks (don't look like the pics), most of the time it's my 1st impression (was rude, cold, pushy, or looked bored or annoyed), and sometimes I just don't like the setup (lighting, smell, cleanliness). I need to make a decision in a split second, but now if I find myself double-guessing myself, I know I should probably just leave. There are many fish in the sea and my budget is not unlimited. So it's better to walk away and try somewhere else.
I've never been shy of showing up some place and excusing myself, but there was a time when I was still taking the chance, thinking it wouldn't be that bad. Not so much anymore. I probably misjudged a few and missed a great opportunity here and there, but I think overall I avoided a lot of bad encounters by trusting myself more.
I've never been shy of showing up some place and excusing myself, but there was a time when I was still taking the chance, thinking it wouldn't be that bad. Not so much anymore. I probably misjudged a few and missed a great opportunity here and there, but I think overall I avoided a lot of bad encounters by trusting myself more.
“And yet another moral occurs to me now: Make love when you can. It's good for you.”
― Kurt Vonnegut, Mother Night
I addition to this quote the rule No. 1 I try to follow is the same as with healthy eating. Only eat when you are hungry. Call SP only if you really want sex. If you are bored, have hotel room, extra money, your ATF is on schedule all of these are secondary. The primary reason should be this one: you want sex at this very moment
― Kurt Vonnegut, Mother Night
I addition to this quote the rule No. 1 I try to follow is the same as with healthy eating. Only eat when you are hungry. Call SP only if you really want sex. If you are bored, have hotel room, extra money, your ATF is on schedule all of these are secondary. The primary reason should be this one: you want sex at this very moment
kudos buddy. that takes a lot of sheer will power. I've only been able to do it twice in my life, but the situation was obviously wrong. I guess most of us think with our little head once we pass through those doors. Then again, I do my homework as to not put me in those situations.
1. There are no second chances. This is not dating and a relationship. She does anything that is anything but honorable she is gone. How some of the guys I used to know become doormats in this hobby I will never understand.
2. Three encounters max. I realize that once the girl gets comfortable with you or vice versa bullshit rears its ugly head.
3. This is the only area of male/female dynamics that is civilized and honest (In the beginning) I am willing to take her to fine restaurants. I definitely wouldn't do so if this is not pay to play.
4. Once I realize the excitement is gone I am gone. Not into the comfort and familiarity when it comes to this hobby or even out of this hobby in general.
5. If we out going out to dinner she better dress the part and I don't need to say so either.
6. Only fully shaved. No strip. Nothing.
2. Three encounters max. I realize that once the girl gets comfortable with you or vice versa bullshit rears its ugly head.
3. This is the only area of male/female dynamics that is civilized and honest (In the beginning) I am willing to take her to fine restaurants. I definitely wouldn't do so if this is not pay to play.
4. Once I realize the excitement is gone I am gone. Not into the comfort and familiarity when it comes to this hobby or even out of this hobby in general.
5. If we out going out to dinner she better dress the part and I don't need to say so either.
6. Only fully shaved. No strip. Nothing.
Opposite for me. Bullshit almost never happens. The comfort is so pleasant that the bullshit is disregarded.
To each their own.
I'm usually more worried about my bullshit than hers. Her bullshit is usually obvious to me. Mine is harder for me to detect!
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