Hello UHGL,UHGL said:Korbel, I have a lot of respect for you. Having said that, I believe as men we should lead, not follow and we do not have to feel threatened by women or make things out to be us vs. them........ not that you have posted anything that would have me believe that you anything but a perfect gentleman.
Still, I would like to offer another option...... maybe as a mixed up young woman, she got scared of the feelings and emotions that she was having for Mr. O? Maybe all the guys in her life had abused her in the past? Maybe part of her decided to push Mr. O away, before she got in too deep, to save herself from the heartbreak and suffering that has been her pattern of her relationships? Sadly, we will never know.
Then again, maybe you are right? Either way, I do agree with you, Mr O should forget her.
I was reacting to the specific scenario of the conditions as described by Obvio007 on the basis of one individual's actions. Under that scenario I stand by what I said. Now all you say may be true. Given that, I still see no excuse at all for anyone doing the kind of things described. If she did feel "scared of her feelings" then the best move would have been not to go in the first place. Yes, as Daringly said: he put himself in that position. But we all put ourselves in vulnerable positions based on the information we have. If there was this great connection between them then by all experience this should not have happened. He did what was rational and reasonable at the time. It was her who betrayed him.
And still, the scenario you describe is only speculation. There are many SPs who have deliberately exploited clients in the past and will do so again. Banger mentioned his story, and I know others who have theirs. It's very possible Obvio may have exaggerated or told only part of the story that favored him. But I see no reason to doubt the basic elements he has given.
Cheers,
Korbel
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