i do not believe that age is the problem, but the way you treat the ladies. I would like to meet SPs in their 40s or 50s (maybe i'm abnormal ;-) ), but most of them are younger. I meet one who is in her 30s and I like it because I like more mature women.
hobbying into your 50s??
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I'm 60, maybe look a bit younger, but I like to see girls in early 20's, sometimes teens! Never had a problem with GFE services. But, I am a great lover 
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My boss is in his 70s, I am sure he hobbies. His wife makes jokes about it, I think she knows he hobbies as well. No problem as long as she gets her new MB every 3 years and weekly shopping allowance.
I am close to sixty but slowing down a bit. Probably quit the hobby and retire when I can't get hard any more.
I'm chugging along in my mid 50's. I started a few years ago. Well, many years ago at sc then made the jump to massage parlours (my first was Sarah Lynn from massage exotica, jackpot!!!). I like seeing 30 and over , only one lady I see now who is in her late 20's. I'm trying to get everything out of my system and have no regrets!!! I want to have as much fun as possible and see whoever I want before my dick stops working . I'm chugging along at 100 mph
No problem as long as she gets her new MB every 3 years and weekly shopping allowance.
He hobbies everywhere...
He hobbies everywhere...
i had started a thread with the same title 5 years back, and it got dozens and dozens of responses. Unfortunately i deleted all my posts in a moment of paranoia a few years back, so cannot re-read the responses....
I am approaching 50. I still look good for my age, and have not experienced any ageism on the part of sps (yet). In fact, I have had a pretty good last couple of years with lots of dfk (the ultimate test of attraction).
But I am scared...
How much longer can I expect to receive real gfe services? especially from young attractive ladies (in their 20s)?
No need to worry about..! Most of the SP have the best regulars clients at 60. So let have a happy retirement with the most beautiful women on earth...
Once on the beach down south with my ex and my own parents we saw a old dude with a young hottie.
My ex: Look at the pedophile!
My mother: It must be his grand-daughter..
Me: Or just a successful men
My dad: Or just a lucky one
Cheers,
Am well over 50 BUT i should mention that in the last years i have developped strong, good relationship----some months or even years---- as friends and lovers with some sex workers i met. That's why I LOVE BLACK GIRLS...they don't care about age..au contraire....and yesssss i love love this hobby.....CHEERS.
Hehe I agree. I would say Latina as well as black girls do not care about age... It makes a big difference
Cheers,
I am starting to get confidence issues because of my age, even if I am much younger than some of you guys. I am thinking of stopping the hobby altogether at times. I am 37 years old.
There was a time when the escorts were about the same age as me, so there was some sort of connection. But now I am older than them. The reason why I am seeing escorts in the first place since the age of 18 is because I can't really get laid otherwise. I guess I must be not "attractive" enough. But if I didn't get laid at 18, I don't see why I would get laid more at 40. In fact I have had less and less dates with ordinary women over the years. I don't match with girls on Tinder that are under 25. They have literally no interest in me. So I pay them to compensate, but even while I am paying them, I have this weird feeling that they are not attracted and are not enjoying it.
I mean, if you are a young man who is popular with ladies and know how to charm them, even when you'll get to 50 or 60, you'll still have attractive qualities. For example, when I was 30 and my dad 55, if we both flirted with a good-looking 30 year old woman, I am convinced she would have choose my dad. He was good at it. Meanwhile, I sucked. And when you are a young man who suck at getting laid, and it goes downhill with age, you can hit a wall at a relatively low age. Attempting to be attractive to women while aging is basically a losing battle.
There are countless girls that I saw, that I thought were incredible experiences, only for them to disappear completely just after I saw them. Did I traumatize them to the point of retiring from the business? I will probably never know but this seems to occur too frequently. I am simply not popular with women, and it seems that even when I pay them, I am not sure they want to meet me. Maybe I should just stop the hobby completely. That's too bad, because I have thousands of dollars in the bank with no purpose.
There was a time when the escorts were about the same age as me, so there was some sort of connection. But now I am older than them. The reason why I am seeing escorts in the first place since the age of 18 is because I can't really get laid otherwise. I guess I must be not "attractive" enough. But if I didn't get laid at 18, I don't see why I would get laid more at 40. In fact I have had less and less dates with ordinary women over the years. I don't match with girls on Tinder that are under 25. They have literally no interest in me. So I pay them to compensate, but even while I am paying them, I have this weird feeling that they are not attracted and are not enjoying it.
I mean, if you are a young man who is popular with ladies and know how to charm them, even when you'll get to 50 or 60, you'll still have attractive qualities. For example, when I was 30 and my dad 55, if we both flirted with a good-looking 30 year old woman, I am convinced she would have choose my dad. He was good at it. Meanwhile, I sucked. And when you are a young man who suck at getting laid, and it goes downhill with age, you can hit a wall at a relatively low age. Attempting to be attractive to women while aging is basically a losing battle.
There are countless girls that I saw, that I thought were incredible experiences, only for them to disappear completely just after I saw them. Did I traumatize them to the point of retiring from the business? I will probably never know but this seems to occur too frequently. I am simply not popular with women, and it seems that even when I pay them, I am not sure they want to meet me. Maybe I should just stop the hobby completely. That's too bad, because I have thousands of dollars in the bank with no purpose.
What it comes down to is how well you have aged physically, and how much you have refined your social skills with women. If you are a single man all or most of your adult life, have half a brain and a college education and developed semi-useful social skills, chances are you learned a thing or two about how to interact with women and keep them interested or at least not bored. Whatever improvements you have made in social skills and acumen hopefully offset declining attractiveness. Some people age better than others, part of it is how you are living your life. I have a few friends who do not take care of themselves and they look like shit. Others who do not use drugs or alcohol to excess, work out regularly and look very good.
You have some control over your social skills and your looks, so work to improve them. I read these posts saying basically, "I suck with girls and that is why I see escorts." You have already labelled yourself a loser and that is what you will project to people you meet in public. My attitude is, "I pay for sex because it's easier than the alternatives, and the alternatives (women my own age) don't interest me anyway." There are some bad attitudes in this thread. It's not a foregone conclusion that a 22 year old will not be comfortable with a 52 year old guy, if that guy is in shape, looks good and knows how to talk. You guys just need to work on your games. Instead of putting up these defeated posts.
You have some control over your social skills and your looks, so work to improve them. I read these posts saying basically, "I suck with girls and that is why I see escorts." You have already labelled yourself a loser and that is what you will project to people you meet in public. My attitude is, "I pay for sex because it's easier than the alternatives, and the alternatives (women my own age) don't interest me anyway." There are some bad attitudes in this thread. It's not a foregone conclusion that a 22 year old will not be comfortable with a 52 year old guy, if that guy is in shape, looks good and knows how to talk. You guys just need to work on your games. Instead of putting up these defeated posts.
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