HM when I got divorced I was left with nothing but debts and alimony.
Luckily I had a descent job, but most important of all .....I had self confidence galore.
My first 3 girlfriends were 18 to 20 years younger than me and gorgeous would be putting it mildly.
One was courted by Playboy and turned them down. An other was a lingerie model who looked like Nicole Kidman.
So self confidence is the best guarantee for success. You gotta build it to have it though.