Doggyluver,
If you accept a "finder's fee" to refer a girl from one agency to another, the agency losing the girl is gonna view you as having been complicit in having poached that girl and you will be a poacher in their eyes. I am just stating the facts, not making any judgments on what you are doing. I get it. I am just here to tell you that if I am agency owner A and I find out agency owner B paid you a "finder's fee" to hire away one of my girls, you poached her ass away as much as the dude who paid the fee. Just trying to keep it real here and look at things from the other side instead of the client side. In the eyes of agency owner A you betrayed his ass, just as surely as Judas took some coin to give up Jesus to the Jewish High Priests, and ultimately, the Romans. No difference at all, functionally- it's a purchased betrayal, to the person who is betrayed.