The Sad Truth: Some Escorts Think We're Losers!

[Doc Holliday]

It's quite possible she did but it was so long ago and my memory is poor.

Oh come on! Can't be worse than mine! :lol:

One thing i remember, though. EVery time she'd meow, i'd go "woof-woof'. As time went on, it seemed to irritate her. She eventually asked me why i kept going "woof-woof'. So i asked her if it annoyed her, and she said "yes, it really does." So i replied "Now you know how some guys feel."

 

[Gordon's Gin]

Not all SPs think you are a loser, some thing you are a wiener!

 

[jago]

well in my book we could see it in 2 ways .
we ware both winners are etheir both losers.
i mean i'm,sorry to break this out but why prostitutions exist ?
is it becuz providers exist or because of the seekers?
in the point of view of an sp' *why should a guy pay for sex when he could fuck for free or in the the point of view of a client *why does a women would do this when she could find a job?
when i analyse this we could both be classified a losers and not only i said this because of my own perception but saying this by the way of the perception og the public in GENERAL, i don't think that that they see us clients or sp like winners lol totally not. they probably pity us or judging us or feel even disgusted anyway. some people take thing way too personally. An sp can consider a client a loser and vice versa. the truth is in type of relation we both need each other. i read comment in this treads like**well i can be the looser cuz she is the one that have my cock in her mouth or well they need us more than we need thm cuz we are the one paying* sorry but i have to disagree with somme hobbyist, yes we pay but at the same there is reason we chose this hobby in particular and don't tell me you would substract this hobby easyly for another one or that we don't need sex. so here its said yes we paid them but we also need them at some different degree

 

[jago]

we all are equal, for me and this go out to everyone (client or sp) if you cannot talk about yours *activities* with people in general are among people you are close with well that mean you ain't cumfortable or proud so in my eye no one should talk. for my case i don't really care i can tell to my people, and i'aint talknig about merb lol, my encounter with sp with no shame and all cuz i don't feel guilt, i don't care i'm ok with the person i am. i enjoy my life and that's it . so client and sp well no one are losers are everybody are losers. stop finding excuse like well* i fucking simply for the money or i pay escort cuz i don't want to be in a complication relation balbla who care what are yours reasons cuz outside of merb no one would care you be in the same bowl for the general public and they would care less of justifications, ultimately people focus on your actions not yours reason. so this said, sp get your money and john get your pleasure and enjoy fucking.

 

[gan]

The Sad Truth : There will always be some people who think you are worthless. Haters gonna hate bro. If everyone thought you were awesome that would mean you were not being your true self.

 

[TheDon]

Alot of times these girls create a higher image of themselves and looking toward their clients as inferior and lucky to be in their pressence.

This is to make them feel better and ok with what they are actually doing.

I had this situation happen first hand as the girl took every oportunity to put me down saying that I was not cool for not having an iPhone and my tags on my clothing were not designer.

I was just thinking WTF and wondering what type of game she was playing, but seriously she had some issues.

 

[oldbutartful]

I was once with a Smart Ass SP who was pissing me off and I asked her a simple Question what is the difference between Fornication and Adultery she went into quite a lengthily explanation, after which I replied " Yeah I have tried them both and I can't tell the difference either" Her face just went blank she looked at me for a minute and then burst out laughing realising I had set her up.

 

[hungry101]

Overall, I have been treated very well by escorts in Montreal. They have something I want and I have something they need. It is a great deal for all.

On the flip side, some hobbyists probably think the girls are losers. I've met a few.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Overall, I have been treated very well by escorts in Montreal. They have something I want and I have something they need. It is a great deal for all.

On the flip side, some hobbyists probably think the girls are losers. I've met a few.

Most of my encounters could be described by your first sentence. We both have something for each other and its a win/win situation. But it did happen i met some girls that, even tough they tried, couldn't hide the fact that they would be somewhere else rather than with me. Some i manage to at least made them confortable with discussion and social, but not all of them. But well... they can always leave before anything start, so im telling myself if they decided to stay, they must not be "that" displeased of me. Sure there some good looking guys that just want to eliminate risk or stress or whatever so they book escorts instead of trying to find one night stand, but lots of us, the clients are either fat, old or a combination of the 2. Some im sure are just plain ugly... Its a reality, and usually the girls that can't stand this don't last long.

In any case i don't take it personal...

 

[wasisname]

There are posts on merb where guys are VERY clear about what they think of industry girls and their personal stereotypes.
I've had it directed at me in posts telling me to mind my busines, not have an opinion and busy myself in my advertising instead.

Shhh. Men are talking honey. Get your ass in the kitchen and make us some pie.

I am kidding. Whats a little Eric Cartman among friends.

Although from what I understand the term trick comes from the idea of tricking some loser to pay for what a guy should be able to get for free.
If I were into that Jebus fellow I'd say Escorts do the lords work providing coitus to those of us who can't get it in any other ethical way and wish that Jebus may bless each and every one of them, or at least the ones that work fair and honest.

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Basically - if you work as an SP (or other) OR you are a hobbyist (regular or not) and have a bad, negative view of the people you interact with THEN MOVE ON.

Fourteen pages and Mitsou has narrowed it down to one easy sentence. Agree completely.

 

[oldbutartful]

There are posts on merb where guys are VERY clear about what they think of industry girls and their personal stereotypes.
I've had it directed at me in posts telling me to mind my busines, not have an opinion and busy myself in my advertising instead.

This is precisely why when I review an SP I only comment I do not give "marks" Each encounter should be a fair exchange in both respect and enjoyment. On some occasions I have had mediocre service (but everyone cannot perform 100% all of the time) If the SP has been polite and hygienic the fact that we did not have a perfect encounter is the way it goes it could be for many reasons ( if we meet later at night we are both a bit weary ) If I am not feeling 100% then that's my issue Not the SP's These ladies perform a service for a fee they are not your Girl Friend you pay a fee that makes you both Equal. If you "click" and have a great time and both enjoy the session its a plus for both. Many SP's have repeat customers and many Hobbyist stick to one SP that is a win, win situation for both

 

[Max15411]

I promised myself not to get involved in the lounge anymore but I'll tell you who I think losers are:

I didn't want to quote Mitsou's entire post but seems to me after what she said, this thread can be closed. She answered it perfectly.

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Good grief I think this is the second time recently that we've agreed.

Actually, Mitsou, we agree on more than we disagree. I could have quoted your entire post, but just chose the most pertinent sentence. (I also happen to be an aficionado of tantric massage.)

One thing, of course, on which we'll never agree is the acceptability of a agency operator taking advantage of a young woman.

 

[John_Cage]

The SP who said that must be new OR just trying to keep you as a regular. SPs are known to give random compliments to get you to come back...

Experienced SP knows that paying for sex is not the same as having sex with your wife/GF. First of all, you have to please your GF/Wife, you can't just expect a BJ every second day without doing something in return. For a lot of men, pay 200 bucks is a whole lot easier than trying to convince your wife to let you CIM or Anal. Or else you end up with Missionary everytime... With SPs, you don't need to worry about her period, her mood... etc... In fact, you don't need to worry about pleasing her, just have sex and leave. SPs are similar to one-night-stand women however, they are much much safer and usually far better looking. Why would I waste 2 hours at a bar and "maybe" get to sleep with a girl who may or may not be a 9/10 and risk coming home late or having some psycho girl after me? Why not just pick a SP, take an hour and get it over with?

Guys who worry about this whole "lose images" have confidence issues... No successful, good looking, intelligent man spend their life worry "OMG, do the SP think I am a loser?" lol... You think Orlando Bloom worries about that? No. Because he knows he's hot, similarly, if you are confident with yourself, paying for sex is by far the quickest and easiest way to get good sex.

 

[Elenadpleasure]

I've said this before to many clients. I don't know about the lady you had a session with but the reason I said it was because I was just simply flustered at how handsome the client(s) was
I meant it in no negative way. Only a compliment.

 

[westwoody]

If a customer has a condescending attitude towards women he will get it right back.

Two of my best friends are retired escorts. I have known one for over thirty years, she quit twenty years ago and is still my trusted friend. So drop the stereotyping.

 

[talkinghead]

good lord.

 

[westwoody]

sorry but you got a bias there buddie.sterotype ya your friend was university educated to become a dr or lawyer and this helped her through school.let me guess........ she does not have a pot to piss in or a place to throw it.and risked he life with serious illness and for what.
and if your a friend of hrs id say your blue collar and 40k or less a year live paycheck to paycheck
how close am i you might not like it but thats life.

Whoa that's a big pile of very wrong assumptions.

You don't even know anything about her but you jump at the chance to trash her.

 

[Passionné]

You don't even know anything about her but you jump at the chance to trash her.

You've got to remember there are clients here who think all escorts are nothing but cheap stupid whores who lie, cheat us, and are completely phony just because they work in this industry. As I said in another thread, they fail to look in the mirror to see who they are. If they smelled their own butts they'd see they are no better in any way.

My view is we are all the same, good and bad. PERIOD!