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Thread: Spending an overnight or a weekend with a lady.

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    Question Spending an overnight or a weekend with a lady.

    I always wondered what were the benefits of spending an overnight or even a weekend with a SP. I understand that some guys even take them on vacation.
    Could someone tell me the benefits and what do you do during the time off?
    Aren't you bored after a while?
    Has anyone ever sent the girl home earlier?
    Guillaume Le Conquerant, hedonist all the way.

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    I don't do that, but I can imagine how it would be fun provided it was an escort you had seen several times and thus had come to know well enough to feel comfortable on a long expedition like that.

    I have met a few escorts whom I think I could do that with. I have, OTOH, met a few whom I found difficult to spend a full hour with even if the sex was good.

    If you picked your spots right, I would imagine it to be a blast. But I would only do it with someone I'd seen several times on appointments of at least three hours or so and had taken outside the hotel room for part of that time to see how you get along when you're not scorching the sheets.

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    Nope, no review here!

    Once again, I click on a thread in the review section with the hopes of finding a review... what the heck was I thinking??

    Trying to live vicariously thru others...

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    Agreed, Voyager. Thread is misplaced. Mods?

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    I can only guess at the reasons some of my clients choose overnights.

    Sex, all night, when you want it, as much as you want it; (unlimited SOG) could be a reason.

    Not having to eat alone (some people really hate this) when in a strange city.

    Having some with whom you can have intelligent conversation with while recovering from your last SOG.

    Being able to have some else take care of that morning hard-on without having to open the door.

    Just musing...

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    Wander over to Terb...

    Try contacting Pinkquack over on Terb. He has taken a couple of ladies away on vacations and they were very successful trips. I knew one of the girls and she had a blast. I also know that PQ was very familiar with both girls (having seen them a number of times) before he invited them away.

    https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=186624

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    I've done an overnight three times with three different ladies and I'm actually currently discussing travel with a SP for an upcoming business trip.

    In terms of the overnights, I thought that for the most part, they were nice. With the exception of the 2nd overnight experience, I was exhausted because of lack of sleep in the overnights because of sleeping late in the hotel and waking up early in the hotel. In terms of the 2nd overnight experience, it was a bit more "distant" than the 1st overnight experience and 3rd overnight experience.

    In terms of the number of SOGs, it might have been unlimited because none of the SPs mentioned anything except at the beginning phase to say that I could have as much as I wanted, however, the 1st overnight was 4 SOGs, 2nd overnight was 3 SOGs, and 3rd overnight was only 2 SOGs. All of these limits were mainly due to time constraints.

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    I've done it three times: a 4 day trip, a 3 day trip, and a week. All with the same person.

    1. Know her before you go. Make sure you have enough in common to keep it going. Sex will only be part of the trip. Do you click well enough to enjoy each other's company?

    2. Time off? There was no time off. When we weren't romping and rolling, we were cycling, hiking, dining out, shopping, and on and on. Again, make sure that your date interests you beyond the bedroom. In my case, she's been retired now for nearly two years, lives 3000 km away, and we still speak 4-5 times a week.

    3. Benefits? Huge, depending on your likes. I like sleeping like spoons through the night. I like waking up and doing it again. I like doing it when we feel like doing it, not at a specific time because we have this hour or two scheduled.

    4. Bored? Not for a minute.
    The mounties always get their man.

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    Done it and i will do it again next time 3 week overseas

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    IMHO, anyone interested in only the number of SOGs should probably not go for an overnight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod 5
    It was moved from the Outcall Review forum to the Lounge as its not about a review on a provider. The initial post seems like a general discussion on extended dates, not asking for any specific 411 information such as providers who do extended dates or recommendations on providers.
    Okay, so i had it backwards? I was unaware that this thread had originally been posted in the outcalls section. Thanks Mod 5.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Equanimity
    At some point in your life you reach a stage that if you have had 2 or SOG's the night before do you really need another one first thing in the morning ? At twice the price of the first 2 shots ?
    It all depends on what your idea of fun is. Personally, I enjoy the company of a charming young woman, particularly if she knows how to have a good time, and is possessed of both wit and intelligence.

    Quote Originally Posted by Equanimity
    Paying someone to be your friend on vacation just sounds ......well it sounds sad and pathetic is what it sounds like. Sorry I realize that sounds unnecessarily judgemental. Wasn't meant to be.
    Frankly, if I'm simply looking for a receptacle for my seed, I can find much less expensive options. If this sounds judgmental, ...
    The mounties always get their man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Equanimity
    I enjoy a woman who is interesting and fun to be with as well as being , shall we say, athletic. If I were alone, I would consider an arrangement where I paid for a plane ticket and a seperate room and gauranteed her of 2 hours of "business " a day and that's it. If she wanted to have lunch or dinner with me great, I'd spring for the tab, but I'm sure as heck not paying for that time. If she wanted to go her own way and do her own thing in the off hours that would be fine too.
    A couple of thoughts here. First off, these were vacations for both of us. She was paid very little. In fact, she'd have earned more had she stayed behind in Montreal. I wouldn't travel with someone just for a couple of hours of sex; that can be found in any city; who needs to bring her along.

    In my case, we'd met several times before and I knew that I'd enjoy her company (and she mine) 24 hours a day. I wouldn't travel with someone that I didn't know beforehand and that I didn't know would be a fun companion around the city as well as in the bedroom. (BTW, the longest trip we took was to a wilderness and we spent most of the time in the woods.)
    The mounties always get their man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxima
    Should we classified your situation as an exceptional case that would not apply to the average merbite?
    In a normal situation how much do you reckon a week with an HDH SP would cost the average merbite?
    No, my case wasn't exceptional. How much would it cost with an HDH for a week?

    If I were to call a random HDH and ask her to spend a week traveling with me and she didn't know me, I'd expect to be turned down no matter what the offer.

    This is really a case by case basis. I know one guy who took an SP that he'd come to know quite well to South America for nothing more than her expenses. She knew him, knew she'd have a good time with him. She considered it more vacation than work.

    I paid for each of my trips with my gorgeous friend, but I know guys who've spent more on single evenings with HDH girls than I spent on these trips (not counting airfare, meals, hotel, gifts, rental car, blah, blah, blah.)
    The mounties always get their man.

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    24 hours with a hooker.
    NOT for me.

    I think getting paid $100 or $300 per hour for 24 hours is more of a hooker famtasy than a john fantasy.

    To me a an SP is to twist and turn the way I like for an hour or two max.
    To be treated like the actresses in xxx rated movies.

    If you don't treat her like that...well many before you have and that is the baseline for what john's are worth to hookers.

    Hookers that do not cooperate are for naive, shy johns taht do not know better.

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