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Thread: if you lived in montreal, would you have SPs visit your apt?

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    if you lived in montreal, would you have SPs visit your apt?

    I live in a nice apt in the downtown area, don't have nosy neighbors, and i'm young and good looking anyway so the doorman wouldn't think anything was unusual about a well dressed and attractive 20 y.o. girl coming up to see me.

    I only ask because it seems like such a waste to spend money on a hotel, and to get a hotel anywhere near as nice as my apt would cost a lot of money. Have any of you had any experiences with SPs or their agencies that would make you hesitate about having them visit you at home? Assuming you're single, of course. I figure the money saved on hotels could be put to use on longer or more frequent appointments. Obviously I'm only goign to go with well reviewed girls and agencies...

    I've never been with an SP but after my last relationship i just want a sure thing right now. Opinions?

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    Never, ever, ever... mix your real life with your hobby.

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    I agree. Protect yourself. Keep your private life / love and your hobby / business seperated. Nothing is better than a hotel room anonymous.

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    Robbery is a problem with anyone who ever goes to your home. SP or not. Heck the guy from a utility company is just as likely to case the place!

    I have been to many clients homes. I guess some people are more paranoid than others. If you stick with people who have an established reputation there should not be a problem.

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    Heh, that's actually very true, naughtylady. When I was 15 and i first moved to quebec with my parents, we hadn't finished moving in yet and they had to go back to toronto to organize the rest of the move. I stayed at my school for a week, and when my parents got back, the house was empty. We always figured it was the guy that was working on the furnace that overheard my parents talking about leaving for a week.

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    I think that since you are young, you would want to try as many different girls as possible. There is a possibility that any one could rob you. The number of people in your place,regardless of profession increases the risk. The risk is greater with a large number of people.
    I'm in my early 40's and I think if I were to move to Montreal and get a condo or apartment, the ideal set up would be to do business with maybe no more than 2 or 3 SP's on a regular basis.

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    On my side, it was not the robbery, but mostly to keep more privacy and discretion. LEOs makes me more suspecious rather than robbers.

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    once again, in Canada prostitution is legal. Especially independant outcalls. So what is the problem with LE?

    Ronnie,
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    but they will never forget the way you made them feel.

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    Use your head. Keep things separate. Eventually this cocktail mix (no pun intended) will catch up with you (cross over onto your private life, potential for robbery etc).

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    I agree with SA that, let's not forget, this is the escort biz and not the robbery biz. Assuming that you are dealing with reputable agencies and sps, like some of those discussed on this board (ie. SD), chances of being robbed become more remote.

    And what's this with street gangs and (according to Elvis under another thread) Mom Boucher and company? Common guys. Not all agencies are the same. Why can't an agency be just an agency wanting to be in the escort business just for the sake of it? Judging by the high number of agencies out there, one can assume that not all have the same owners or set up or management. Plus, there are a lot of indies out there also that answer to no one.

    And finally, concerning privacy, i think that the environment where one lives has a lot do with it. For instance, if you are living in a big high-rise apt building where you're simply a tenant, then it would appear a lot simpler and more convenient and cheaper to receive the sp at your residence because, in such a setting, most people, including neighbours, don't even know each other. On the other hand, if you're in a condo or the owner of a house, and you either have nosy neighbours or you become friends with your neighbours, then i think you're better opting for the discretion and "peace of mind" offered by a motel/hotel room.

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    I just re-read what your original post was. Dude if you are young and fairly attractive....don't get involved with this hobby. Go out..meet a nice girl..and use the money you would spend on this to build a nice life for yourself.

    Putting aside all of the other risks involved with it....there is one that we tend not to speak of. The more you do this...the more desensitized you become towards women. They become more of an object than a person....i say that from personal experience and it took me a long time to be able to seperate women that i meet that are sp's and women in my private life.

    i dunno just my opinion.

    Kevin

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    Lightbulb A guy in a similar position

    Hey Prep_mtl,

    Welcome to MERB. I've been in a similar situation as yours for the past 2 years, a 25 year-old farily attractive male living alone in the downtown core. Let me just say that this is an ideal setup, you're easy to get to, and can save yourself a bundle not using hotels. Some of the gentlemen here may send you dire warnings about "keeping your private life and your hobbying life separate", but I've never had any problems in that category, and you have to keep in mind a fair number of them are married men. I'm assuming you're single and have a farily tight budget if you're in your early 20's (unless of course you're a whiz-kid with a good job in which case I'm extremely jealous ), so having them come to you saves you a bundle and also keeps you from a sleazy 1 hour motel.

    As for the robbery issue, I too was concerned the first time I ever called an outcall agency, so I hid my most valuable stuff away but left a few token items out just as a test. They never moved an inch, and I quickly realized theft is not an issue with these agencies, the last thing they want is to attract unwanted attention. Secondly it's not like the girl has that much of a chance to pinch anything unless you spend a great deal of time washing up after the first SOG, if anything they should be more worried about you rummaging through their stuff while they're washing up since they are carrying your cash.

    That's my two cents on the issues listed above, if you've never hobbied before and are afraid it is something that will alter your life forever, that all depends on your personality and values. Since I am a firm believer that prostitution should be legalized fully, I am not ashamed of being a hobbyist (though I have retired these last 5 months because I'm in a good relationship for once). Although it's not something I would run to confess to my girlfriend, were I serious enough to get engaged with someone I would have no problems confessing the fact since it would be a past chapter of my life and I've had myself tested numerous times over my three years of hobbying and have always come out clean (current track record 20 SPs). I was young, horny, and desperately needed experience in the sack to gain confidence. Now that I've got that, I only hobby if I'm going through a serious dry spell. As for being desensitized to women and treating them like objects, it only takes a date with one great girl to bring you right back to the light side of things.

    Best of luck with your decision and I hope this was helpful to you,

    Raven out
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    Hi Ravencroft,

    I hope you eventually come to conclude that a little bit of cheating on your GF is in order as I do miss your posts. You were a very good contributor to this Board in the past.

    If not good luck with this girl.

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    Thanks EB,

    It was hard at first (I almost went into convulsions from withdrawal ), but I've settled down for a bit, but believe me there will be at least two more posts sometime in the near future since I still have two important fantasies to fulfill: a trip to the greek isles, and the menage-a-trois. Who knows, I may have to sample the latter several times, just to be thorough in my evaluation

    Sorry I've missed the last few parties, but I knew if I saw some of the new girls from DC and other agencies in person, I would have probably caved a long time ago.

    Raven out (for the time being )
    "There are two things that are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not so sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein

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    To Judge69

    You are paranoid.

    Do not stereotype people.

    I trust everybody, I would not bring an SP to my home for other reasons than a possible burglary. If you are worried about theft, don't ever leave home, always keep your hands in your pockets and then you won't need the services of a pretty, young SP.
    Save a tree...eat a beaver!

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