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SP reviews on this forum have become few and far between. Should I be looking elsewhere?
Maybe you should ask other reviewers and not SPs. This might not be the thread for your question.
I imagine most sp prefer longer dates such as dinner dates. Are you disappointed when clients request 1h dates? If a client is a regular booker of 1h dates let's say every month do you consider them a valuable client? What is your most frequently requested dates from clients : 1h, 2h. dinner date FMTY or other lenght?
Because it’s pee? It comes out from the urethra, what is the urethra connected to?
I adore them. I won't fall in love with my clients, but I appreciate them, and don't discourage their simping over me. Yes it is paid time. But I do appreciate the real friendships that develop and appreciate their emotions that may arise. getting to know them makes me feel safer when seeing them again.
Of course not! I wouldn't offer 1h dates if I didn't like them. Sometimes I'm busier so shorter appointments can be a preference, also we could find more opportunities to meet since it's easier to fit in a schedule, at any time of the day! All lengths have their perks.
The more popular date lengths for me are 2 hours and dinner dates. This depends on how one structures their rates. I get a few 2-to-5 days FMTY every year as well and I love them!
I appreciate my regulars. Often 1hr is all they can afford. I'm just flattered that even though they don't have much, they choose to spend it, and that time with me. They are incredibly valuable to me. I don't feel comfortable seeing new people. (I'm rather paranoid with people I don't know, I expect the worst and am glad when I meet lovely people.)
Do you consider well known members of merb
, to be in most part strangers? I would imagine that yes, but if one would send you a PM, how paranoid would you be?Do you ask clients about their handle on merb?
Do you consider well known members of merb
Do you ask clients about their handle on merb?
I don't advertise on merb, and am not looking at it as a self promotion. Just answering the question asked, I don't want to get in trouble on here so I don't know how to answer, or if I even should.
From my understanding personality aside, I am not what the typical Merb member is looking for.
Okay, fair enough, so i guess i will ask the question to all SPs, do you ever ask your clients if they are a member of merb and what their handle is?
And if so, does it make a difference?
I would think it a benefit to mention it when texting. It allows the knowledge that there has been a previous repertoire developed in public discussions. It is a way to get a step in the door since I am quick to turn people down for just about any reason or message I don't like.
Are you disappointed when clients request 1h dates?
No not disappointed.
If a client is a regular booker of 1h dates let's say every month do you consider them a valuable client?
If he books 60 mins and isn’t too ambitious, he will be a valuable client yes. If he books 60 mins and expects us to do 20 positions, massage, outfit change etc, I will stop accepting his requests. It’s mentally draining.
What is your most frequently requested dates from clients : 1h, 2h. dinner date FMTY or other lenght?
90 mins in Montreal is very popular and 2 hours when I’m out of town. I am glad my marketing works.
Ladies, thank you so much for the insights you have given us, I appreciate your directness as well as your sense of humour
What is your take on older gentlemen ?
i am in my later 60’s, still have my hair although it is salt and pepper now ( maybe more salt than pepper).
I am curious, do you find an older client creepy or have a dirty old man perception of him and would rather not see him if it can be avoided? Some SP’s state an age range in their ads so it’s obvious they don’t want that type of client, but would like to know your thoughts, as this business does allow SP’s to filter out clients according to different criteria ( ie respectful, no low ballers or time wasters, etc).
Thx!
What is your take on older gentlemen ?
i am in my later 60’s, still have my hair although it is salt and pepper now ( maybe more salt than pepper).
I am curious, do you find an older client creepy or have a dirty old man perception of him and would rather not see him if it can be avoided? Some SP’s state an age range in their ads so it’s obvious they don’t want that type of client, but would like to know your thoughts, as this business does allow SP’s to filter out clients according to different criteria ( ie respectful, no low ballers or time wasters, etc).
Thx!
I’ve heard by different YouTube lifestyle/dating/game coaches that most SP “ despise” their client irl , that they resent the transactional nature of the relationship, that most “ real” men with game are what they are really attracted to. I’ve had one experience where this was absolutely true. How many of your colleagues get jaded and how many enjoy the encounter? Would you ever consider a purely social encounter away from the business? Is the connection sincere or mostly an act ? What makes for good chemistry? Tks.
This is exactly what I avoid when I am screening my clients. Anyone I get the transactional vibe of just wanting sex for money is a no go for me. People and experiences like that will get me to hate what I do. I came back to do this job to get away from doing work I don't like and that stresses me out. Often I need to feel some kind of vibe, or chemistry in the texting aspect before I am even willing to visit someone. If I don't feel I will enjoy my time with your company, then I won't see you. It is as simple as that. Looks, age, all the shallow shit doesn't matter to me. Who you are and whether I feel you are genuine and a good person and personality is what I aim for.
I wear my heart on my sleeve and if I don't like you, I can't hide it. I have seen some people who rub me the wrong way when seeing them, and for those ones, when they contact back again, I will tell them I did not enjoy their company and will not be returning. It is also why I refuse to have a booker, or work with an agency. I don't want to just do this job and hate myself and my life that this is what I do. I want people I will enjoy and get along with and have good experiences with. Especially since I already don't feel good about myself that this is what I have to resort to to get by in life. My clients being good people and reminding me how I make their life, and day better is what makes me feel better about getting to see them. They make me feel ok and better about what I do, and help me to learn to embrace who I am and that I enjoy on some level that I do this.
Hello Laster!
Most of my clientele are late 40s to late 70s, with some in their late 30s lately. I have seen some in their 80s! And that's probably a reason why I have been in this business for so long since I usually go along better with older gentlemen!
In the last years, I actually began filtering out younger clients (20s) since we don't share the same vibe and they can't « offer me » the experience I want to have and don't allow me to give the experience I want to give. What I observed is that most don't care about the environment where they invite me since I do outcalls only, don't bother to offer me a glass of water, or more importantly, don't welcome my sexual personality and experience. As I get older, this becomes more and more obvious. It makes for a so-so encounter and nobody is happy.
It can absolutely happen with people of any age, so in the end, the type of email you send me as well as other factors will be good indicators of our possible chemistry and the success of our moment!
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What is your take on older gentlemen ?
I love them, maybe because they usually like to take time. Longer dates, more “get to know each other”, longer foreplay.
Do you find an older client creepy or have a dirty old man perception of him and would rather not see him if it can be avoided?
Only those who actively seek 18 years old SPs. I will never change my mind on it.
Some SP’s state an age range in their ads so it’s obvious they don’t want that type of client
I personally have a 21+ policy because I don’t feel comfortable seeing someone under that age.
How many of your colleagues get jaded and how many enjoy the encounter?
How would I know? I can only speak for myself and from a privileged standpoint. If I disliked my clients so much I would do something else. Do I have bad days? Yes like everyone else. Do I have clients I don’t have chemistry with? Yes.
Would you ever consider a purely social encounter away from the business?
Yes. Compensated.
Is the connection sincere or mostly an act ?
Sincere. If you meet me and don’t feel connection, it sucks but it’s ok. You cannot “click” with everyone.
What makes for good chemistry?
Talking, I rarely have a connection/good chemistry with men that just come in and expect to do “adult activities” right away. It just makes me feel like a blowup doll.
I’m not asking you to read me your autobiography but we can do a little bit of small talk and then get in the shower.
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