Ask us anything part 3
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Just like I guess some people love to have someone’s tongue shoved deep in their mouth…yes I fucking speak for myself like I always do
Question for clients who browse the forum frequently : what makes you watch specific provider's review threads if you don't book them or don't intend to do so? 
I'm just curious
I'm just curious
I only mainly read the ones that I am intrigued by, but I sometimes read random ones out of curiosity. Only started seeing SPs recently so I still don't know exactly what to expect, so I tend to stick to the ones I've seen already ^_^'Question for clients who browse the forum frequently : what makes you watch specific provider's review threads if you don't book them or don't intend to do so?
I'm just curious
As an older, embarrassingly out of shape man, I can't help hearing the little voice in my head that says the beautiful provider I'm with would rather be anywhere else than with me. I find it negatively affecting the experience. Can a provider actually enjoy their time with a man like me or are you just consummate actors? I know, this is a pathetic question but .....
Depends on the provider. But I'm sure there are some who don't need to pretend to have fun and just do.
I can only speak for myself, but my enjoyment of sex is often very detached from the way someone looks. My body reacts to the way things feel and to the way the moment unfolds, not to the way someone looks.
But also, being out of shape isn't necessarily synonymous with being undesirable, so there's that. And enjoying time with someone is about so much more than looks - personality plays a big part.
I don't think this is a fair question to ask honestly.. I wouldn't call it pathetic, because I understand where it's coming from and I'm sorry you're having this insecurity. For a lot of providers, myself included, enjoyment has nothing to do with what our clients look like, more how we are treated by them and other factors.
If you, and other clients (I often read "she's only doing this for me the money" here as a complaint... I don't like seeing this because it's our job. If you want to see someone who's ''only doing this for fun'' open tinder and try to find a match...), worry that we aren't truly enjoying the experience then I invite you to try and help us find it enjoyable.
Be respectful, kind, have good hygiene and interesting things to talk about. Your provider should have a good time!
also remember we are used to seeing people of different ages who have very different body types all the time, so we end up having a different way of looking at things.I've heard many providers say that no matter what they can find something charming and attractive about everyone they meet. We are also constantly scrutinized and judged on our looks, so I think most of us don't want to do it to others. I've almost never heard a provider make fun of the way a client looks.
I'll speak for myself, what makes a booking truly enjoyable is the clients personality, and often the conversations. I've had sessions with very conventionally attractive and young clients but I didn't enjoy these bookings any better. Sometimes when certain men know they're attractive, they can act a bit more entitled.. We've all heard ''can I have a discount because I'm cute?''. The answer is no.
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Why wouldn’t she enjoy her time with you? Do you think people are all very superficial and shallow? There’s more than looks in life
That’s a lesson I’m glad this job taught me
Bring a book of her interest or myself i can bring my guitar just makes things interesting ! Talk about an interesting topic as well!I don't think this is a fair question to ask honestly.. I wouldn't call it pathetic, because I understand where it's coming from and I'm sorry you're having this insecurity. For a lot of providers, myself included, enjoyment has nothing to do with what our clients look like, more how we are treated by them and other factors.
If you, and other clients (I often read "she's only doing this for me the money" here as a complaint... I don't like seeing this because it's our job. If you want to see someone who's ''only doing this for fun'' open tinder and try to find a match...), worry that we aren't truly enjoying the experience then I invite you to try and help us find it enjoyable.
Be respectful, kind, have good hygiene and interesting things to talk about. Your provider should have a good time!
I've heard many providers say that no matter what they can find something charming and attractive about everyone they meet. We are also constantly scrutinized and judged on our looks, so I think most of us don't want to do it to others. I've almost never heard a provider make fun of the way a client looks.
I'll speak for myself, what makes a booking truly enjoyable is the clients personality, and often the conversations. I've had sessions with very conventionally attractive and young clients but I didn't enjoy these bookings any better. Sometimes when certain men know they're attractive, they can act a bit more entitled.. We've all heard ''can I have a discount because I'm cute?''. The answer is no.
Question for clients.
Why some of you feel so threatened by lube?
It's not the first time I read this kind of comment on the board:
Why some of you feel so threatened by lube?
It's not the first time I read this kind of comment on the board:
ignorance and lack of sexual maturity
Ya... really those are strange comments. I blame poor knowledge in female anatomy. They probably also think they give orgasms everytime they touch a woman. Maybe I've been doing it wrong my whole life ?
However, I've always found the really thick lube to cause loss of sensitivity. Which I never really understood why that happens while wearing a condom. To the point that I wonder how it differs from a women's POV.
I don’t use lube because I’m not wet. I use it because I want to be able to fuck for longer without causing any vaginal tears from friction
I guess for some it may deflate the ego, same thing goes for toys.
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I don't use it for lack of being wet either. But between friction and fun, it helps prevent the condom from breaking. Even if i have an/several orgasms, enough friction can happen for that moisture to evaporate.
Which is the thick lube? Silicone?-not recommended for use with condoms though.
I generally stick to a flavored water based.
Not sure why one would feel threatened. Lube is an aide to enjoyable sex like many other things. Some ladies use lube, some dont. I guess ot is to each lady to decide whether lube will increase enjoyment and or reduce risk (condom tearing).
deep-seated insecurities and/or an inflated sense of their own sexual prowess as well perhaps. such individuals probably also get “turned off” by women who use toys and can’t orgasm from straight penetration alone.
