The best kind of dates are with SPS as you get great conversations and kink that never came from a partner or definitely not to the extreme kinks that I got from SPS! Regular vanilla dates were boring never went anywhere as you will not get that being a good host to an sp
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Meaning nothing is free but at least spend it wisely on a great sp ! You get it all and come out smiling!
Na the best dates are with the one you are in love with, no amount of kink or fetish can rival that and certainly not with one you are paying to make believe she is into you.
I am extremely lucky with the ladies I am seeing as we have become friends, but would trade it all for one date with the one that is no longer with me.
Yeah great conversations lol when you don’t even know her real name and hopefully she doesn’t know yours.
Yes I used to be in love with! Love today lol! It’s way better to be more healthy and have fun with good company as feelings give you headaches! I tried both! Yes, it’s so refreshing being friends with your regular SPS than dealing with vanilla dates I find!
It really depends on your circumstances and your age.
Honestly I don’t see why anybody would want to see an SP before the age of 50 other than maybe out of curiosity to see what it is like.
There are so many gorgeous women out there wanting to have a real relationship.
I have tried both also and nothing compares to being with the woman you love, the one you share a life and family with.
Gorgeous does not mean they love you! lol Sorry but that high adrenaline rush comes with SPS not women you are chasing wasting time! We all had those special women in our lives at one point as I even had one travel from Australia to come to me at her expense which is at unheard of !
I think it's a matter of risk/reward. When I hire an SP, I risk little but am pretty much guaranteed a reward.
When I go on a date, I risk my confidence/ego and have no guarantee of a reward.
SP is the easy route. An actual date is hard mode. Most people are happy to get a reward with little risk. It's not as fulfilling a reward though and is merely a bandage for the lonliness/lack of good sex. The cure is to find someone you genuinely connect with. Takes a lot of work though and many guys don't have the patience.
Sick of driving out there wasting time comes to a point I wanna spoil myself and have someone drive to me and have an awesome kinky time!
What is so special about coming from Australia to meet you lol. Women in Australia aren’t any different, I grew up there.
Living a lifetime with the woman you love, sharing your life, your dreams, having children and a family is what love is all about.
Kinky time and all this bs with SP is not real, it ends the moment your money runs out and the time you payed for expires, after that they probably don’t even know you exist or care.
Yeah it helps fill the void somewhat but that is all.
Well you get a woman to fly in at her own expense to see u ? Ya that happens everyday! Well I know so many men who are only married cause they men are paying out! Seriously don’t be delusional! I rather enjoy good company then pay for someone to live with me in my house!
I think you are the one who is delusional thinking that your time with SP is so special.
You are lucky if you are a little more than an ATM machine to them lol.
It is a job for them which btw many hate.
You are extremely lucky if you find one who becomes a friend and actually cares about you, but don’t mistake it for love or anything more than kindness and friendship.
There are women in this world who actually can love you and share your life and be an equal partner in everything and actually even out earn you.
Not all wives/girlfriends are gold diggers.
So what?
Marriage is a partnership which needs a lot of work and kindness and respect from both sides and above all trust in each other.
There are no guarantees and life is all about risk and reward.
When it works it is magical and there is nothing that compares.
If you are not willing to take the risk or put in the work then you can delude yourself with thinking that SP are the best thing since sliced bread, that is until your money runs out because with them so does your time.
For sure it’s just a friendship but I have a high adrenaline and find it very refreshing dealing with a sp! If you have the money
It’s called being used for a free life! Only if knew what great experiences he could of have with SPS instead of headaches!
Good if you have the money to deal with that good for you! I don’t! I rather not deal with worrying and stress as I have in the past with it as I need to be healthy at this point! All relationships have expenses! I have a cousin who is with same woman for 45 years he spent millions on her ! Ya that’s real love? Even last year I saw him paying for things and his wife was walking around with her hand in her pockets like he always pays! Who wants that?
It’s called being used for a free life! Only if knew what great experiences he could of have with SPS instead of headaches!
Like I said life is all about risk and reward.
There are as many love stories as horror stories.
It is up to you which one you create for yourself.
You make your own luck in life lol.
There are many unsuccessful men that are not able to attract a woman. The dating game is very hard on men in this day and age and not all got the skills to play that game. These men still need intimacy so they resort to paying. It would suck to be a 40 yr old virgin as a man. True lots of gorgeous women but they got so much offers and they got the luxury to choose who they want.
I keep hearing this all the time but have a hard time believing it.
I had no problem in my youth and neither did most of my friends and they weren’t all James Bond types.
Same goes for my nephews and children and their friends, none of them seemed to have a problem finding a life partner. yes not all of them are drop dead gorgeous, a couple are, some average and some that I guess they saw something in them I didn’t.
I think men today are just not willing to put in the work and think that dating should be like ordering something from Amazon and wait for it to arrive on your doorstep, which I guess is the case with an SP problem solved lol.
