You're missing the point and making a bad argument. I have experienced women that I went on a date with jumping on raw without giving notice while in the heat of the moment. I would say it's incredibly common with tinder dating etc....I would agree 100% that an SP that gets tested on the reg is much safer than the dating scene for sure.
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That's my point and I'll invite a change of subject if possible
Moral of the story : casual sex and sex with SP's both have risks. People who have a lot of casual sex tend to take more risks than SP's because they are not professionals. However, to make sure you avoid STI's, ask for safe services.No you are missing the point, you are not 100% safe with either, this is not about statistics or a lottery.
We all agree that SP take far more precautions and are much better with hygiene than civilians.
That however does not make them that much safer as there are STI that only require skin to skin contact and protection doesn’t play any part.
Having said that I can’t say the same with most clients they have and by the sheer number of sexual encounters they have and yes unprotected as well as they do have boyfriends, fuck buddies, content collaborators in which cases they don’t wear protection.
I think I have already explained how much testing and test results are worth if you don’t believe me check Julia Skys comments on the subject.
This hobby is not for people who are self obsessed with STI or germaphobics nor is it with random women they pick up.
You protect yourself as best you can and according to your risk level, most clients here don’t protect themselves during oral sex me included so again it is up to you what you are comfortable with and what your risk level is but playing this game of who is safer is ridiculous.
Of course nothing is 100%, it's just not the point you were disputing. An SP that tests regularily, has higher rates and a screening protocol is likely much more safe than meeting a stanger in a bar that gets tested once a year if you're lucky. You're not on the same page. I personaly have never got an STI with an SP, but I have got them from dating partners.
You are forgetting one huge thing.
That SP literally has hundreds of clients, you actually believe those clients get tested more than the girl you pick up in a bar that has maybe one tenth the amount of sexual experiences or less. . The screening the SP does are you kidding what has that got to do with it. They are screening to be safe from potential physical abuse and for time wasters they are not asking for your test results. If they did that they would go broke.
Anyway like you I have never caught anything from either an SP or a civilian.
My friends that are not in sex work have gotten STIs a few times because they don’t always use protection (their partners probably do the same). My sex worker friends have never caught anything because they’re really serious about it since that’s how they make money.
If you made money with your hands, let’s say you’re a dentist. Would you deep fry stuff with your bare hands directly in oil? Would you cut veggies with your eyes closed?
If you made money with your hands, let’s say you’re a dentist. Would you deep fry stuff with your bare hands directly in oil? Would you cut veggies with your eyes closed?
It is not about the fact that sex workers are much more vigilant and careful I totally agree with that. Like you say it is about their livelihood
I wish civilian people were half as concerned about it, it is purely about the numbers and that clients will never be as careful as sex workers.
We are in the end all grown ups and know the risks.
New Question: With a huge demand next week/weekend for the Presidents cup, do the local SP's plan to have more girls working? Since they post the schedule the night before and 20k new people are in town with USD or Euro dollars I would think the girls are going to be booked fast.
How would I know that? I’m not running an agency
Wrong question: everyone knows that it's only during F1 week that demand increases
If I ask someone out after our date, it’s free.
If someone asks me out after our date, it’s paid.
I doubt it's part of the act if someone does this, but it's not something I personally would do.
Rule of thumb; she asks, it’s on her. You ask, it’s on you!
Just because time is paid, doesn't necessarily make it fake. I like real connections with people I meet and see.
Though I wouldn't ask someone out after, as my time is with my family when I am not out visiting. I have to pay childcare. And well I tend to need to escape into games to decompress after social time, it takes a lot out of me when I am being social. Like I don't even visit my mom unless I have to, so for a client to take it personally that I don't spend extra time with them is just to not know me. Especially repeat visits, as I wouldn't see them again if I didn't like them.
this! i actually enjoy talking with a lot of my clients and spending time with them
Question for clients. During bookings I often get asked certain questions. Some of them come up more often than others, and I think the most common is ''are you dating right now?'' or ''do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?''.. Why do clients ask me this, and does the answer even change anything? (Just to be clear I'm not dating currently, but if I was seeing someone I certainly wouldn't be announcing it)
I don't ask these questions, but it's info I don't really want to know. My time with an SP is "fantasy time" so to speak. If they have an SO, I'd rather not know.
I wonder if the guys asking this are maybe thinking in the back of their minds that they're Christian Slater, you're Patricia Arquette, and it's going to be a True Romance situation. Or maybe they see themselves more like Richard Gere and you're Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman. Probably depends on their finances and when they were born. Just hopefully they don't see themselves as Nicolas Cage and you as Elizabeth Shue in Leaving Las Vegas.
How free? So You will pay for my drinks and meal if you ask me out
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