It would never cross my mind to ask that during booking or during the session. I really don't want to know tbh. I'm really surprised that you say this is the most common question you get.
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I don’t ask as it’s too much invasion in private life unless I get to know the SP much better I suspect it’s lonely dudes who want to engage you into something more than transactional sex
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I've been asked this by someone who when I said I was taken said he didn’t partake in taken women, lol.. till he contacted me 3 more times asking the same thing and eventually made an appointment anyways. Convincing himself that because I wasn't doing this sneakily behind my man's back, that it wasn't the same thing as encouraging cheating I guess.
But it is written on my website that I am my masters, so it isn't something I hide, and like clients who are actually curious about the lifestyle I have with my master.
Besides hard to hide the fact, when I wear it proudly around my neck. The topic kind of comes up when asked about the collar I wear 24/7. Even in civi life, I am asked or comented/complimented on my collar, and I often just touch it with a smile and say it represents my relationship.
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I won’t bring it up, but I won’t shy away from it if they do. It is not something I would ask.
I have had SP I know well enough to talk about personal things, there are really only 2 ladies I trust enough to do that with.
My ATF pretty much knows almost everything about me we have been friends for a long time.
I would never ask that kind of personal question. Even the thought of it makes me uncomfortable. That said, unlike some others out here I'm not interested in fantasy but in reality so I enjoy chatting with SPs about our lives. I know how to protect my anonymity and I assume she does as well. Relationships, families, work, experiences in the hobby--I don't go nosing around but I enjoy sharing that way. One of my requirements is that the SP speaks passable English!
It would never cross my mind to ask such questions but it did popped up during some conversations, always coming from the girls. But they were 2 very regular providers. I think it is just normal after several meetings and so much time spent together.
For sure! I always get caught offguard when it's a new client.
Personal questions of the sort should never be initiated by the John, in my opinion.
Multiple reasons could be behind such questions from a simple faux-pas of an unexperienced gentleman, a person seeking to go further on a sexual freebie, even looking for emotional loopholes to manipulate etc.
In any case I would think that politely answering with something like "I prefer keeping my personal life totally seperate from my professional life in order for us to experience the best possible quality time during our rendez-vous".
If a gentleman he should let go and move on graciously. If not and he continues to prod, red flag.
Oh, don't worry about me! I'm not affected by this at all emotionally and I'm definitely not interested in pursuing anything with a client. I was more wondering what it would change for them if I actually answered ''actually yes I have a partner'', not that I ever would if I did.
Now I'm curious about the reverse. Do you ask clients about their relationship status? Do many clients bring it up themselves, unprompted? Is it information you want to know or not? Does it change anything?Oh, don't worry about me! I'm not affected by this at all emotionally and I'm definitely not interested in pursuing anything with a client. I was more wondering what it would change for them if I actually answered ''actually yes I have a partner'', not that I ever would if I did.
I'm guessing it's more common and acceptable to discuss the client's relationship status since the SP/client relationship can often be similar to a therapist/patient relationship.
I don't usually ask that question because I'd honestly rather not know, even tho I understand that realistically I am going to have clients who are married and may not be honest with their wives. Some clients do bring it up, saying things like ''I haven't had intimacy with my wife in a long time....'' or ''my partner is asexual and we came to an agreement together''. A lot of clients bring up that they are lonely and single.
I don't exactly view myself a therapist and I certainly don't have the qualifications for this, but I also see what you mean, there is a big part of the job that comes with listening and being empathetic and understanding the client's needs. In that sense it does help to know where the person is coming from and why they are seeking my services. I'm not here to judge.
Don’t ask, don’t tell.
If they tell me I don’t really care though. I’m just hoping they’re smart enough to not get caught because I don’t want to deal with a broken hearted wife :/
THIS!! 100%. This is why I don't ask, and honestly, I'd rather not know. Everyone has a different moral compass and some people don't view seen a SP as cheating, some do. Some wives know their husbands see SP's, some don't. Even if a client says he has an arrangement with his wife he might be lying.
Some people like to lie to themselves.
How do SP stay fresh in their vagina? Almost all SPs I meet have no fishy odor. Whenever i have sex with a civie, I say 50% of the time I can smell fish.
Is there some type of showering technique that you do to keep the pussy nice and fresh?
Is there some type of showering technique that you do to keep the pussy nice and fresh?
I let it do its thing naturally. Vaginal douche and all are not good for the vagina. You better leave it alone. We could say that good life hygiene, drinking enough water and eating somewhat well help keep our body in homeostasis and is good advice for everyone. Edit: also, not everyone knows how to listen to their body, including knowing what their regular smell is. Keeping in touch with our sensations and signs in and out of our body is essential to stay healthy.
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