Like Michelle said, a very large amount of inquiries are from people who didn't read the ad fully and are being impolite. Even just this weekend I had people contact me and waste my time only to ask if I offer x service which isn't in my ad..
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Parfois, oui. C'est arrivé que je me fasse dire ça, dans ces mots là exactement. Des fois c'est difficile de savoir si la personne me niaise ou si elle s'essaie vraiment parce qu'elle croit que je suis désespérée, ce qui n'est pas le cas.. Certains clients aussi ne comprennent pas qu'on a le droit de ne plus offrir une option ou un service en particulier et vont mettre beaucoup de pression ou utiliser de la manipulation pour avoir ce qu'ils veulent.. Et ça ne marche pas, ou du moins pas avec moi, et pas avec la plupart des SP que je connais.
I think everyone who does escorting thinks about their retirement plan this whole time. I've only been in this industry for about 3 years but all the sw'rs I've met have had other sources of revenue at least at some point during their career as an escort. I've also heard of 55-60 year old escorts. Not saying I'll still be escorting at that age cause I won't lol.. I'm just saying it's a thing and there is probably a demand for it. Personally in the next 5 years I want to get to a point where I make enough $$ otherwise and can be low volume and still reach my goals and feel financially stable and comfortable. I don't see myself being an escort anymore in 10 years, not because I'll be too old, but because it's a temporary journey for me. When I started in the industry I thought I'd only do it for a couple months, then a couple months turned to a year, and then a year turned to 3 years, and I had to start taking this job very seriously in many ways. It's a big part of my life currently, but it's not a part of my identity to be a sex worker.
I think this is not a thing. I know escorts that are over 60 and still making money. Hell even if you're 96 years old and don't think you're attractive enough, there is for sure a market for a toothless glory hole.
Yes I've tought about retirement plan, and came to the conclusion I love this job too much. I'll retire one day but I'll keep seeing a select few regulars. I also have other business ideas but ultimately I do think people can do SW as long as they want and their body allows it.
It's not a truth. Some are more responsible than others. Your judgement can apply to a lot of people in our rich society, many have debts and still spend carelessly.
I'm just really into my avocado toast and 12 dollar lattes.
Maybe as a side-note news shows almost every day people going bankrupt who have absolutely nothing to do with SPs
As someone that probably spends too much on the hobby, passing judgement on how they spend thier money is laughable.
I have this question to ladies. Why so many indies avoid, in contrast to agencies, a clear upfront description of their physical parameters such as height, weight, approximate age etc. or have them well hidden in back pages?
I would think that is true for many people regardless of how much they make and what profession they are in.
I know a few ladies that have always had a civi career besides escorting and are not only ambitious, but willing to work for it and are smart enough to plan for their future.
I hope they have a network and colleagues that can help them make wise decisions on how to invest and plan for their future.
People who are able to make a lot of money doesn’t equate to knowing how to save and invest wisely also. I don’t think they are different than the rest of the population.
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How often do you get a client from the states that pays you in USD at a 1:1 ratio instead of CAD? Does it ever happen or rarely?
No and it's a lot more complicated than that. Being an escort isn't like having a stable job. Everyone has a complex financial reality and I think it's a value judgement to say escorts "spend their money carelessly" if they use their money in a way that you wouldn't.
Independents usually have 15, 20, 40 photos on their website (our portfolio often goes back 2 or 3 years so you can see if we changed or not), add photos from at least one new professional photoshoot every year, many posts a lot of selfies on social media with regular interactions, and have an ad copy with often pertinent details in it. The whole gives you a good portrait enough, the people who book me don't need more details. But you can find my measurements and other details on one of my advertising platforms, to me that is enough.
But I must add that I often see a "detail" section on indys websites, though.
Agencies post 4 photos of a girl and that's it, no ad copy, some post selfies on their social media page but it doesn't seem the norm, which may be why physical measurements and details seem more relevant.
I consider upfront numerical stats as the evidence of honesty and respect for a customer. Photos are hardly substitute for the exact numerical description as often mix the art with reality. Some short girls have long legs and look taller in pictures, the opposite is also often true. Some chubby girls may look more proportional in photos etc.,etc.
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Then again people can (and do) lie about their numbers too. For this reason I feel like at least the pictures give you a better idea in some casses. Personally I don't even know my own weight, I'm not 100% sure about my height, and I know no other measurement of mine besides my boobs haha. I don't want to know my numbers for my own mental health.
I would add that photos are more representative than numbers alone, context: https://www.boredpanda.com/same-weight-different-size-transformations/
But if to you those numbers are important, so be it.
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Personally, I would feel very uncomfortable with a girl I found attractive in photos that is in reality about six feet tall and a spring chicken around 20 y.o. As for not knowing own stats I can understand that. I also live in the LaLa land as have never measured the length of my penis and do not like having pictures of me since i was about 40
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