Why do certain men think SPs work 8 hours a day, 365 days a year?
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I can balance 4 maki's end-to-end and walk, no hands involved. Or 4 sashimis.
I mean… there were agency girls I met in London who visited for 2 months at a time to make money before they went home. They were literally available any time any day. I saw one girl at 8 pm then repeated at 4am and again the next day at noon
It was so great.
I have been slowly getting to know more and more sp's, some for friendships, some for collaboration, but mostly because I like meeting people who we have things in common. And every provider I have met so far has been pretty awsome. I have thought them all beautiful inside and out.
Haven't done a girls night. I think I have had maybe 2 girls nights my entire life, just not high on the priority list. Getting to sleep early so I can wake up feeling good next day takes priority.
Do you girls have seen this?
This looks like a different experience from Montreal environment.
This looks like a different experience from Montreal environment.
I dont see why you cant have both. A very good friend invited me to dinner at his home with his family friday, after dinner he's going to repair my truck I'll gladly pay him for his time.
My dream is to one day be able to take my favorite SP out for dinner in a fancy restaurant and spoil her and then take her back to her place and pay her for the intimate time like usually.
I'm just waiting for the right time to offer her the opportunity.
If it was me and my schedule was free and the client was really nice I dont see why I would say no even if he cant pay for the time during dinner. You get a fancy free meal and then
do your business as usual and reinforce your client's loyalty at the same time. Unless one prefers client quantity over quality.
Would you want to know if your OF pictures were leaked on the web? If so, what would be a sensible way for you to be made aware?
So essentially, I stumbled across a data dump of photos from a local SP (highly rated here on Merb) and while it is unlikely our paths will ever cross, I don't necessarily feel like coming off as a creep who found her pics by contacting her, nor do I feel the need to look like a loser trying to gain her favors.
What should I do? I feel like she should at least be aware should she decide to go forward with a DMCA takedown, but if the consensus is to leave it be, it's fine by me.
How about:
So essentially, I stumbled across a data dump of photos from a local SP (highly rated here on Merb) and while it is unlikely our paths will ever cross, I don't necessarily feel like coming off as a creep who found her pics by contacting her, nor do I feel the need to look like a loser trying to gain her favors.
What should I do? I feel like she should at least be aware should she decide to go forward with a DMCA takedown, but if the consensus is to leave it be, it's fine by me.
How about:
- Asking a duo partner (if she has one) to let the person know?
- Sending an incognito email or incognito text with link to site and link to DMCA
- Doing nothing
You should reach out and let her know. I personally would be far more creeped out if a duo partner reached out on behalf of someone who seemingly has something to hide haha. The second option is probably the safest way to go about it - that's what I think anyway.
But I will say though, it's very unlikely for someone to magically "stumble upon" leaks from a specific provider in the wild. You have to at least somewhat look her up for that to happen and if she isn't someone you intend to book or support in the first place I do think it's a little awkward to look people up like that in this context. But you know what? Leaks are criminal and can cause serious harm. Some people have taken their lives over leaks. So you coming off as a creep doesn't matter nearly as much as someone having agency over use of their image. Reach out and let her know.
Whether you choose to believe me or not is up to you, and by the sounds of it, you seem like you already have your preconceived notions about all us weirdos behind a screen so... :shrug:. But yeah, sucks to not be given the benefit of the doubt when one is telling the truth. Anyone who checks Merb will instantly recognize the name.
For what it's worth, there's only one type of OF fans I like, and that involves male content creator and fake massages so yes, I was hunting for pirated content but did not actively seek her or anyone for that matter.
I'm just trying to do the right thing and it's landing me exactly where I wanted to avoid in the first place, no good deed goes unpunished right?
Probably a question already asked: how often have you ended up in a relationship with a client in your few or many years of career.
And I think the question can also be answered by merbites, have you dated an SP and if more than one in your years of hobbying, then how many?
Although, I understand if your answer is “a gentleman or lady never kisses and tells”
And I think the question can also be answered by merbites, have you dated an SP and if more than one in your years of hobbying, then how many?
Although, I understand if your answer is “a gentleman or lady never kisses and tells”
I have a question.
If the government started some kind of program that would grant SPs a permit to operate that would legitimate her practice and exempt her Johns from
the 'buying services law' on the condition that you pass a background check and have regular follow up visits with a social worker to make sure there is no
trafficking involved in addition to regular mandatory health checks. Would you participate? If not why?
If the government started some kind of program that would grant SPs a permit to operate that would legitimate her practice and exempt her Johns from
the 'buying services law' on the condition that you pass a background check and have regular follow up visits with a social worker to make sure there is no
trafficking involved in addition to regular mandatory health checks. Would you participate? If not why?
No. Maybe others might, but I wouldn't.
No. This sounds like having an employer you need to check in with. We already do our health checks, for our own health consciousness. This isn't something I would want the government in my personal private business about, what happens between my legs is not for them to know. (Finances yes. How I get those finances that's a hard hell no.) This would quickly become a dictatorship over the sex industry. Who gets it and who doesn't. Then restricting the number of providers who gets to be concidered legitimate. Then what also qualifies someone to be legitimate? And those with low traffic? Does she qualify if she sees 5 or less clients a week? Then what happens when something like conservatives get in there? You've just handed over a list of easy targets for the government to make an example of to crack down on and publicly shame. Not to mention our personal identity we don't want connected to our business in most cases, becomes broadcasted if this hypothetical list of legitimate providers gets released. Then there's the instant no fly lists these providers get put on. They already have to pray for a miracle that they don't get called out with a 10 year block from visiting the states, when some might have a life that is led on both sides of the boarder.
That comes across as pretty cynical but I do see your points. And I wrote it in the first post, legitimate means someone who is an SP by choice, opposite to a victim doing it because of sex trafficking or coercion.
Because that's the real goal here, keep fighting sex trafficking while giving SPs more rights and protection. Sex trafficking is the reason why banks and customs give you a hard time.
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