I gave an interview in 2021 about working in the sex industry while pregnant if you’d like to read it, it’s here
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Early 70s, I cried at 5 because my mother confiscated my playboy magazines I found in a rented cottage up north. Did I lost self esteem at that time? You bet!
I don’t mind physical touch. I love cuddling and have a conversation after intercourse. So yeah at some point we emotionally connect because we are human beings with feelings.To the ladies, does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you? NOT creepy stuff like asking your personal information, but nonverbal... body language, touching and receiving? I hope you understand, even if I don't have the words to describe.And let's assume it's not embarrassingly awkward, but genuine.
Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?
Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
This has been fun and interesting to read, so thanks to all who have participated!
My Q: after exiting the industry and entering into a long-term arrangement (should that be part of the plan, let's imagine), would you be comfortable with your partner seeing SPs with or without you, and/or with or without you knowledge? Would you be opposed to said partner frequenting SPs and consider it a relationship dealbreaker?
Thanks in advance
My Q: after exiting the industry and entering into a long-term arrangement (should that be part of the plan, let's imagine), would you be comfortable with your partner seeing SPs with or without you, and/or with or without you knowledge? Would you be opposed to said partner frequenting SPs and consider it a relationship dealbreaker?
Thanks in advance
The girls I see tell me this happens a lot.
I don’t understand why, it’s their choice. If they all followed Captain Save-a-Hoe, who would we have left to see?
Yes but it’s always the guy that have nothing more than his heart to offer me and wants me to stop everything just for his love and emotional support. Lol
I loose a few clients due to that delusional mindset!
Have you ever dealt with a 'saviour' or someone who wanted to change your lifestyle?
Yes, he disappeared after a month.
How are your sleeping patterns? Do you get enough sleep? I assume you might be busier during the night.
For me it would be a deal breaker.
In my relationship, thankfully his pleasure is in us, then us with other people... It is beneficial for me it is his pleasure to share me out, it was a shared discussion for me to enter this field.. but I am not emotionally able to handle if he wanted to be with someone else without me.. his pleasure is in his control over his slave, and showing off that I will do anything he orders. He may decide to one day as a punishment, I would know about it, but it isn't his goal to hurt his slave... If I am emotionally hurt, I won't be inclined to listen when he orders me to do something. And it could be disastrous if I go into an emotional tailspin. our entire relationship is based on trust. If I can't trust him, then I wouldn't be with him. He gets off on sharing me, me not so much, well not yet. actually our goal is 4somes not 3somes, another couple so as to both be in the sharing situation than for just 1 or the other.. likely by going that way it won't be such an emotional blow.
I've done 3somes before with people I was dating, but there was always a strict rule that while just about everything went.. he was not allowed to penetrate her. Thankfully that wasn't broken because they would have found themselves out on the street if they did... but that was because the situation was different... they never wanted another man in the room and if your not sharing then why should I? I also wasn't doing this for work..
As for it being an sp.. not likely...I'm not going to use money earned doing this to spend it on someone else. any time I've had another woman in the bed with us, it was an easy pick,
I have a better pickup rate then most men if I see a girl I like in a bar. No need to pay for it. I have a pretty good radar what girls are fascinated and into me when I am on the hunt.Yes. and was flattered, but I chose to leave that kind of lifestyle, I need the m/s lifestyle. master finds it funny, because as he puts it.. he saved me from the type of lifestyle they want to give me. that kind of lifestyle just led me into a deep depression. I just let them know that my master is the lifestyle I need. they want to help me, just enjoy time with me and see me more often
I am a day worker.. 8am-10pm. trouble comes out at night, and when trouble is out, I am safe home in bed... means I miss out on a busier timestamp, but my safety first. I'm a coward that way lol..
Thanks all for directly answering my question about attempts at genuine intimacy and unintended consequences.
Right, I did NOT mean being gross, grabbing, digging for information, whatever. I'm sure the ultimate answer is that it depends on many different things. It's nice to hear that it is appreciated if done politely.
Many men are excited by the opportunity to be kind and gentle, even though it often comes out wrong or is discouraged in public. And now I'll stop because maybe men should have some secrets, too.
Right, I did NOT mean being gross, grabbing, digging for information, whatever. I'm sure the ultimate answer is that it depends on many different things. It's nice to hear that it is appreciated if done politely.
Many men are excited by the opportunity to be kind and gentle, even though it often comes out wrong or is discouraged in public. And now I'll stop because maybe men should have some secrets, too.
LOL this is the wrong group of girls to think men have secrets to.. we are the ones who those secrets are often shared with behind closed doors, or in pillow talk. By those same men who are intimate with us.Thanks all for directly answering my question about attempts at genuine intimacy and unintended consequences.
Right, I did NOT mean being gross, grabbing, digging for information, whatever. I'm sure the ultimate answer is that it depends on many different things. It's nice to hear that it is appreciated if done politely.
Many men are excited by the opportunity to be kind and gentle, even though it often comes out wrong or is discouraged in public. And now I'll stop because maybe men should have some secrets, too.
How are your sleeping patterns? Do you get enough sleep? I assume you might be busier during the night
I don’t see anyone after 9-10 PM it’s rarely worth it. Generally party people, not the best behaviour and also I like to sleep like everyone else. If you want to see me passed 10 PM, book an overnight.
see for me it’s the other way around. I work more from 9pm to 9am. I’m not sure why, but so far that’s my clientele. So I sleep while the crotch goblins are at school. Logistically I would like to have a bit more in the daytime but personally I’m a night owl.
I’m à night owl. I can stay up all night and struggle to wake up the next day lol!
I rarely work after 10pm because I usually have my night shifts at the hospital. Also at night time as Lena said it’s not really worthy and can be really dangerous for a girl that works alone ( intoxicated people; a lot of late night outcalls inquiry without deposit or proof of address or screening; and boundaries pusher )
The same way i stayed 41 for many years.
Is the mob involved in the sex trade here? I'm sure they use the girls service, but do they control/own any of the agencies?
I wouldn’t know as I work for myself. The only people that take my money are the government and a baby.
No they don’t have control or own agencies. They have some bars, cafes but no stripclubs a as far as I know, all of which are mainly on the island and laval.
Otherwise, bikers control the vast majority of stripclubs as in drugs, sales and the like but not the actual girls per se. My home club is the only club I know that’s fully independant because it’s on the border-ish of too many groups’ turf. The main group of bikers controls most of the clubs from east of the island to center and beginning of west. Then west is a rival group. Bikers are actually extremely respectful of women and children and I’ve never ever ever even heard of a SW or any woman have an issue with one of them. Those most involved in the sex trade are actually gangs which bikers are extremely opposed to. As for agencies, their owners likely have connections or know people because throughout the prostitution, there’s drug consumption, private events and whatever else.
And yes, the mob and every group of bikers use the services and are usually extremely generous when doing so.
That’s nasty. I’ve fished way more condoms out of trash cans than I should have haha. My question is wtf with throwing away condoms in my kitchen garbage
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