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I very well understand the intimacy of the act but a "friend" that well knows the top notch quality of services offered may have a hard time comprehending "why mostly any other, but not
I would add also theres always the stigma of loosing the friendship too.. Relationships take on a different tone once they have graduated to the bedroom..
I would be concerned friendship boundries would be crossed or pushed in non-working circumstances...
Not to generalize but will, often once a guy had had something to be told no doesn't often fly. I still deal with my ex being inappropriate when the only comunication we should be having is about his son..
And a friend comes with the added issue of attachment... your friends for years, and there is a form of love involved, but when your unavailable for a relationship with the person, and they finally get that chance to sleep with you, their love might become something more while unable to probide and it sours the underlying friendship.
To the SP, do you like threesomes with you and two other guys?
As long as it's about everyone having a good time, I need to count too to be able to enjoy it...
I don't like situations where the guy/guys just look for their own pleasure and I feel like they would be better suited to just have a blowup doll in place because they don't have any appreciation or respect...
 

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I’m really surprised to read this, albeit very pleasantly so. I was under the impression this dynamic was highly unusual and rare within the community and here I am having just read an entire response I could have written myself word for word, top to bottom.
I’m very open about my relationship status with everyone I meet and it’s the reaction I receive from this that had me convinced it was unheard of.
Counter question: why is it so shocking ?


yaaaaasss! Stag / vixen + Hotwife come to mind and a few other kinks satisfied by my work.
Nice to see I'm not the only one.. it does seem to be a very rare thing.. I'm thinking more because many men can't seem to understand how ours might get off on sharing since most peoples idea of love is to possess what is theirs and sharing is a no go and unacceptable, either from or jealousy... I've had some people tell me he can't possibly love me if he is allowing this kind of job. To them it is the anti-love.

And like you, when I get to talk about the love master and i share on a visit it gets me more excited in that visit and for those who are interested and like it... oh it really sets and helps my mood brighten.. ask questions with true intrest, see the love i have for him shine while i get to talk about him, and reep the benifits of that fresh excitement from doing little else than conversation.. i will likely act as though he is in the room at that point (and he wants to see his slave pleasing others under his order, your getting a better deal by haveing that reminder braught to mind.)
 
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Here is something I'm wondering: since the moment you chose the path of escorting, how have your intimate/sexual fantasies evolved?

I mean, from my experience, my fantasies evolved a lot since I lost my virginity. I didn't have the dirty mind I have now when I was 18. Every time I made a fantasy come true, I made myself a new one... a new goal. Since some of you have seen it all, how does your mind keep up? Where are you at? Are your fantasies kinda mellow and down to earth like a candlelight dinner or do you have crazy shit in your mind like "hey! Time to get gangbanged!"

Just wondering...
 
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Here's another one for the fun of it: how much do you think online porn affect your clients in their behaviour, sexual performance and overall self esteem?
 

Rebaynia

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Here is something I'm wondering: since the moment you chose the path of escorting, how have your intimate/sexual fantasies evolved?

I mean, from my experience, my fantasies evolved a lot since I lost my virginity. I didn't have the dirty mind I have now when I was 18. Every time I made a fantasy come true, I made myself a new one... a new goal. Since some of you have seen it all, how does your mind keep up? Where are you at? Are your fantasies kinda mellow and down to earth like a candlelight dinner or do you have crazy shit in your mind like "hey! Time to get gangbanged!"

Just wondering...
While working I tend to keep it pretty gfe... I get asked for some pretty insane things that master has refused for my safety, but many of the fantasies I have need trust, so things I would do with my master, but I don't trust strangers easily... Those fantasies were a little out there before I got back into the business. Though being in a master/slave relationship says enough about my kinky desires lol... I have done all my kink in relationships before coming back to this work... besides not many people are willing to pay extra for extras so they don't happen often.
The most common ask is if I can dominate them, and well I'm a slave.. I may be a type A personality, but I'm not innately a dominant. And have no idea what to do as a dominatrix so often have to turn them down.. I still need master to teach me what stuff I might do in those cases while we do have "bitches" (men who enjoy the humiliation, being cockold and want to serve us as a couple) applying for the ability to serve us, master has some high standards for them so none have made the cut so far. I can't do what I don't know how to.
I can dominate in a way but not dominatrix style dominating... I present a dominant nature, but am completely clueless on how to use it when I do come across men who are submissive, and bring out my inner beast.
 

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I’m going to kindly ask you to stop typing out my life and thoughts ㋛
LOL I'm just intrigued to find I'm not the only one ;) . Though I haven't checked your profile I'm thinking you likely are much younger and in more demand than myself. Glad you found your way sooner in life than I did... This lifestyle is still new to me ( just over a year) and still haven't done much with my master as he is still helping heal the emotional damage of my past before he came along... but it is fun that my fantasies I have had to hide in my past relationships finally get to be brought to reality.
 
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To the SP, do you like threesomes with you and two other guys?

To the SP, do you like threesomes with you and two other guys?

I’ve experienced it 3 times and it was fun each time. I would say it makes it easier if the men are comfortable with their sexuality and don’t shout “hey don’t touch me dude” every 3 seconds. We’re having sex everything goes fast it will happen that the other man touches you by accident.
 

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Here's another one for the fun of it: how much do you think online porn affect your clients in their behaviour, sexual performance and overall self esteem?

how much do you think online porn affect your clients in their behaviour, sexual performance and overall self esteem?

Men around a certain age seem to have received their sexual education online and it shows. They think all women like to have their (‘) rubbed hard. You are not a DJ, I am not a turntable, relax…

Some also watch so much porn, they end up not being sexually stimulated by people in real life therefore they have issues getting hard or cuming.

Last but not least, most men have no idea what the average sized penis looks like. A lot of them think they have a small one but it’s only because of what they see online. When was the last time you’ve seen another man’s dick? It was on the Internet right?
 
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Rebaynia

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Last but not least, most men have no idea what the average sized penis looks like. A lot of them think they have a small one but it’s only because of what they see online. When was the last time you’ve seen another man’s dick? It was on the Internet right?
I've told some people they were too big to handle and take it easy... and their response I'm not that big..
Does size matter? Lol
honestly if your 8 inches or bigger your in take it easy territory... honestly smaller is a preferred preference (approx. 5-6 inches).. it stretches to accommodate bigger, but doesn't mean it's a pleasant feeling. It takes time to accommodate a larger size. and can't do 2 rounds easily if he is bigger. after round 1 the insides feel all bruised and swelled shut. round 2 feels like your punching a bruise.
size is a thing men are focused on. not women as much.
Porn gives guys the wrong idea on what a woman should be able to just accept...
 

AirBo

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how much do you think online porn affect your clients in their behaviour, sexual performance and overall self esteem?

Men around a certain age seem to have received their sexual education online and it shows. They think all women like to have their (‘) rubbed hard. You are not a DJ, I am not a turntable, relax…

Some also watch so much porn, they end up not being sexually stimulated by people in real life therefore they have issues getting hard or cuming.

Last but not least, most men have no idea what the average sized penis looks like. A lot of them think they have a small one but it’s only because of what they see online. When was the last time you’ve seen another man’s dick? It was on the Internet right?
This is the exact answer that I thought would come out
 

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To the ladies, does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you? NOT creepy stuff like asking your personal information, but nonverbal... body language, touching and receiving? I hope you understand, even if I don't have the words to describe. :) And let's assume it's not embarrassingly awkward, but genuine.

Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?

Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
 

Rebaynia

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To the ladies, does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you? NOT creepy stuff like asking your personal information, but nonverbal... body language, touching and receiving? I hope you understand, even if I don't have the words to describe. :) And let's assume it's not embarrassingly awkward, but genuine.

Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?

Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
I don't mind. If/when someone does it just means they appreciate me that much more, and will be sure to have me back. I am scared with new people, so regulars who are in love are definitely a bonus to me. I tend to go and enjoy their company.. I'm not good at reading if someone is overly friendly, because I'm just normally overly friendly. So it doesn't make me uncomfortable. I can feel bad vibes, but don't really recognize if someone is giving extraordinary good ones...
I tend to want/need intimacy in my visits to see it as a pleasant visit, I'm oblivious to non-verbal communication. My brain just doesn't work that way.
 

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To the ladies, does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you? NOT creepy stuff like asking your personal information, but nonverbal... body language, touching and receiving? I hope you understand, even if I don't have the words to describe. :) And let's assume it's not embarrassingly awkward, but genuine.

Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?

Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?

does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you?
Not sure I understand correctly. Do you mean grabbing my thigh, touching my hand and my face? Getting close to me and cuddle? Or you meant “tell me about your fears Lena” ?

I love when people try to get closer and touch me (except my face), it’s a GFE so to me it’s normal.

Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?
I can see why and how that could happen.

Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
Not for me
 
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