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While working I tend to keep it pretty gfe... I get asked for some pretty insane things that master has refused for my safety, but many of the fantasies I have need trust, so things I would do with my master, but I don't trust strangers easily... Those fantasies were a little out there before I got back into the business. Though being in a master/slave relationship says enough about my kinky desires lol... I have done all my kink in relationships before coming back to this work... besides not many people are willing to pay extra for extras so they don't happen often.
The most common ask is if I can dominate them, and well I'm a slave.. I may be a type A personality, but I'm not innately a dominant. And have no idea what to do as a dominatrix so often have to turn them down.. I still need master to teach me what stuff I might do in those cases while we do have "bitches" (men who enjoy the humiliation, being cockold and want to serve us as a couple) applying for the ability to serve us, master has some high standards for them so none have made the cut so far. I can't do what I don't know how to.
I can dominate in a way but not dominatrix style dominating... I present a dominant nature, but am completely clueless on how to use it when I do come across men who are submissive, and bring out my inner beast.
LOL I'm just intrigued to find I'm not the only one
. Though I haven't checked your profile I'm thinking you likely are much younger and in more demand than myself. Glad you found your way sooner in life than I did... This lifestyle is still new to me ( just over a year) and still haven't done much with my master as he is still helping heal the emotional damage of my past before he came along... but it is fun that my fantasies I have had to hide in my past relationships finally get to be brought to reality.
The more the merrier. Amirite?
Put your phone number in the comment section of your etransfer ت
To the SP, do you like threesomes with you and two other guys?
I’ve experienced it 3 times and it was fun each time. I would say it makes it easier if the men are comfortable with their sexuality and don’t shout “hey don’t touch me dude” every 3 seconds. We’re having sex everything goes fast it will happen that the other man touches you by accident.
how much do you think online porn affect your clients in their behaviour, sexual performance and overall self esteem?
Men around a certain age seem to have received their sexual education online and it shows. They think all women like to have their (‘) rubbed hard. You are not a DJ, I am not a turntable, relax…
Some also watch so much porn, they end up not being sexually stimulated by people in real life therefore they have issues getting hard or cuming.
Last but not least, most men have no idea what the average sized penis looks like. A lot of them think they have a small one but it’s only because of what they see online. When was the last time you’ve seen another man’s dick? It was on the Internet right?
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I've told some people they were too big to handle and take it easy... and their response I'm not that big..
honestly if your 8 inches or bigger your in take it easy territory... honestly smaller is a preferred preference (approx. 5-6 inches).. it stretches to accommodate bigger, but doesn't mean it's a pleasant feeling. It takes time to accommodate a larger size. and can't do 2 rounds easily if he is bigger. after round 1 the insides feel all bruised and swelled shut. round 2 feels like your punching a bruise.
size is a thing men are focused on. not women as much.
Porn gives guys the wrong idea on what a woman should be able to just accept...
This is the exact answer that I thought would come out
@NatashaSnow - You are hilarious, and the kind of girl I'd like to just have a beer and shoot the shit with (Not the kind of shit shooting Rebaynia has detailed previously)
To the ladies, does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you? NOT creepy stuff like asking your personal information, but nonverbal... body language, touching and receiving? I hope you understand, even if I don't have the words to describe. And let's assume it's not embarrassingly awkward, but genuine.
Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?
Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
And let's assume it's not embarrassingly awkward, but genuine.Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?
Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
I don't mind. If/when someone does it just means they appreciate me that much more, and will be sure to have me back. I am scared with new people, so regulars who are in love are definitely a bonus to me. I tend to go and enjoy their company.. I'm not good at reading if someone is overly friendly, because I'm just normally overly friendly. So it doesn't make me uncomfortable. I can feel bad vibes, but don't really recognize if someone is giving extraordinary good ones...To the ladies, does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you? NOT creepy stuff like asking your personal information, but nonverbal... body language, touching and receiving? I hope you understand, even if I don't have the words to describe.
Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?
Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
I tend to want/need intimacy in my visits to see it as a pleasant visit, I'm oblivious to non-verbal communication. My brain just doesn't work that way.
To the ladies, does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you? NOT creepy stuff like asking your personal information, but nonverbal... body language, touching and receiving? I hope you understand, even if I don't have the words to describe.
Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?
Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
does it bother you if a man tries to "emotionally connect with you" while... connecting with you?
Not sure I understand correctly. Do you mean grabbing my thigh, touching my hand and my face? Getting close to me and cuddle? Or you meant “tell me about your fears Lena” ?
I love when people try to get closer and touch me (except my face), it’s a GFE so to me it’s normal.
Many people put up emotional barriers they don't want to cross... for good reason, and physical communication might be seen as a danger to those barriers?
I can see why and how that could happen.
Some responses are faked of course and that can also be for good reasons, but are attempts at non-verbal communication or intimacy off-putting?
Not for me
I gave an interview in 2021 about working in the sex industry while pregnant if you’d like to read it, it’s here
Early 70s, I cried at 5 because my mother confiscated my playboy magazines I found in a rented cottage up north. Did I lost self esteem at that time? You bet!
This has been fun and interesting to read, so thanks to all who have participated!
My Q: after exiting the industry and entering into a long-term arrangement (should that be part of the plan, let's imagine), would you be comfortable with your partner seeing SPs with or without you, and/or with or without you knowledge? Would you be opposed to said partner frequenting SPs and consider it a relationship dealbreaker?
Thanks in advance
My Q: after exiting the industry and entering into a long-term arrangement (should that be part of the plan, let's imagine), would you be comfortable with your partner seeing SPs with or without you, and/or with or without you knowledge? Would you be opposed to said partner frequenting SPs and consider it a relationship dealbreaker?
Thanks in advance
The girls I see tell me this happens a lot.
I don’t understand why, it’s their choice. If they all followed Captain Save-a-Hoe, who would we have left to see?
Have you ever dealt with a 'saviour' or someone who wanted to change your lifestyle?
Yes, he disappeared after a month.
How are your sleeping patterns? Do you get enough sleep? I assume you might be busier during the night.
For me it would be a deal breaker.
In my relationship, thankfully his pleasure is in us, then us with other people... It is beneficial for me it is his pleasure to share me out, it was a shared discussion for me to enter this field.. but I am not emotionally able to handle if he wanted to be with someone else without me.. his pleasure is in his control over his slave, and showing off that I will do anything he orders. He may decide to one day as a punishment, I would know about it, but it isn't his goal to hurt his slave... If I am emotionally hurt, I won't be inclined to listen when he orders me to do something. And it could be disastrous if I go into an emotional tailspin. our entire relationship is based on trust. If I can't trust him, then I wouldn't be with him. He gets off on sharing me, me not so much, well not yet. actually our goal is 4somes not 3somes, another couple so as to both be in the sharing situation than for just 1 or the other.. likely by going that way it won't be such an emotional blow.
I've done 3somes before with people I was dating, but there was always a strict rule that while just about everything went.. he was not allowed to penetrate her. Thankfully that wasn't broken because they would have found themselves out on the street if they did... but that was because the situation was different... they never wanted another man in the room and if your not sharing then why should I? I also wasn't doing this for work..
As for it being an sp.. not likely...I'm not going to use money earned doing this to spend it on someone else. any time I've had another woman in the bed with us, it was an easy pick,
I have a better pickup rate then most men if I see a girl I like in a bar. No need to pay for it. I have a pretty good radar what girls are fascinated and into me when I am on the hunt.Yes. and was flattered, but I chose to leave that kind of lifestyle, I need the m/s lifestyle. master finds it funny, because as he puts it.. he saved me from the type of lifestyle they want to give me. that kind of lifestyle just led me into a deep depression. I just let them know that my master is the lifestyle I need. they want to help me, just enjoy time with me and see me more often
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