What's with an open trash can with multiple visible condoms?
At my incall, we empty the trash, change the sheets, throw the towels and robes in the laundry after each client. It’s just savoir vivre.
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At my incall, we empty the trash, change the sheets, throw the towels and robes in the laundry after each client. It’s just savoir vivre.
Do special requests annoy you guys?
Might be a dumb question but I'm pretty new to all of this. If I'd like a session to go in a certain way - no wild kinks here - should I ask beforehand by text or in person?
Are most SP generally ok with this or would you advice to see the SP a first time, get her to lead the session to build rapport? Can I send a video as an example, would that be weird?
Mostly refering to indys here, not agencies.
Might be a dumb question but I'm pretty new to all of this. If I'd like a session to go in a certain way - no wild kinks here - should I ask beforehand by text or in person?
Are most SP generally ok with this or would you advice to see the SP a first time, get her to lead the session to build rapport? Can I send a video as an example, would that be weird?
Mostly refering to indys here, not agencies.
Do special requests annoy you guys?
No, as long as they’re realistic. I had someone the other day requesting 5-6 outfits change (fashion show) and MSOG for a 60 minutes booking. Ambitious…
should I ask beforehand by text or in person?
Always ask beforehand. See, if the man from my first answer had asked me on our date, he would have been pretty disappointed and the rest of the session would have been awkward.
Are most SP generally ok with this or would you advice to see the SP a first time, get her to lead the session to build rapport? Can I send a video as an example, would that be weird?
Now I’m curious, what is your special request? You can send me a direct message if you prefer. If I know someone who can accommodate you, I’ll recommend them to you.
I wouldn't send a video unless she agrees to see it.
You said it well, seeing a provider once to build a rapport and see where the next encounter can go is a great idea. Generally, what we offer in a session depends on the chemistry, so that path is a good one to follow.
Otherwise, I like to know before booking if some services are a dealbreaker, it is then better to ask the provider if she offers them to avoid time wastage on both sides. Don't ask what she offers, instead ask for exactly what you want. Some might not be open to answering this kind of question, be aware. If no services are a dealbreaker, then don't mention anything.
The kind of special requests that annoy me are the ones that don't let the session go with the flow at all or try to change the way I look. Personally, if you want to use me as a canvas to have your sexual fun without caring about who I am, what I say and sharing something with me, it's a session I will hate and that you will dislike as well. We know when you wrote to us because you liked our profile, when you are interested in seeing us, in knowing what we can offer and bring to the session and see what we can share together, and this is what going with the flow means. So one request is a thing, but controlling my looks and/or what will happen in the session as if I am a metronome is not the kind of encounter that I appreciate and will refuse to meet you.
In other words, it's important that you contact a provider that represents what you are looking for and can or wants to accommodate you instead of asking another provider to change to fit your fantasy.
that first guy might want to rub one out before contacting you.
That's really nice of you, gotta run some errands and I'll shoot you a PM later.
Thank you! Figured some SPs would prefer "date style"/"go with the flow" vs overly planned session.
If I may ... takes a real classy lady to offer this. You have all my respect.
Personally, I wouldn’t date a guy under a solid 7.
There’s no upper limit neither profesionally or personally.
I think we meant related to our work. Not to get you off.Do you remember the first time you had an orgasm? How old were you? What were the circumstances?
My first orgasm (ejaculation) happened unintentionally...I was twelve years old and visiting a next door neighbor that we knew well. I decided to take a little nap in their master bedroom so I put on the TV and watched a black and white movie. While I was watching the movie I was rubbing/stroking my penis not even thinking that I was doing that.
All of a sudden a bunch of white creamy stuff came out of the tip! Orgasm...However, it did not feel exciting at all -more of a reflex/reaction to the rubbing. I was scared because I thought I did something to my penis that "broke it."
Of course everything turned out fine but that was my first orgasm that "just happened."
Would love to read your responses
My reliable-ish guesstimate is 60/40 are in a relationship.
I extremely rarely ask and there has to have been a specific context for me to have done so, but every time I’ve asked, I was told they weren’t single so so far I don’t feel I’ve been lied to about relationship status. It wouldn’t be in their best interest anyway as they could potentially get unsolicited messages.
What do you think is the proportion of your clients who are in a relationship vs single?
I think 80% my clients are happily married. A few have admitted cheating with me to maintain a peaceful situation. A very few are in open relationships and tell me “can’t wait to tell my wife what we’ve done” or “she’s going to be so excited when I show your photos”. Extremely rarely, the couple is married and seeing me together.
“happily” married ?
No way 80% of marrieds are happy, even the ones not have fun with you.
Not really the subject bro
In a marriage sex is not the only thing. It’s a combination of multiple thing. And I think it’s a happy and healthy marriage if a man do respect his wife by not openly « cheat on her » and keep healthy boundaries with the provider he is meeting. I have a few clients that love their wife and will be ready to die for her but the sex life is not present anymore. So instead of breaking the harmony of their couple for just
« a physical need » they will come see girls like me that can give them that physical release. It doesn’t change their love and/or respect for their wives (my 2 cents)!
I Will say that my proportion is 80% married or in a relationship and 20% single. I don’t think someone ever lied about being single or in couple because it can cause a lot of problems for no reason.
Great thread - enjoyed reading the questions and the intelligent, thoughtful responses. Reminds me why I love this hobby and these amazing women - beautiful & smart! Wow .. thanks!!
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