I usually don’t reply to these weird comments, but I can’t help myself. When I first read this, I thought it was a troll. It’s a joke, right! Lol!
Then I realized you are serious! Dude, without trying to demean you, you actually asked the SP how many other guys she f***ed?!? It’s beyond insane.
Not sure if it’s social awkwardness, a lack of judgement, no class, etc. I’m speechless! We know they see other guys, but it’s not something to ask, in such a raw and classless manner. You’re joking when you’re wondering why she ghosted you, right?
You don’t know what to say or not say? How about ‘how’s it going’ or ‘how is your day so far’, or ‘any plans for the weekend’, etc.
Hint: start with small talk, avoid very personal questions, and obviously avoid classless and crass questions, such as you one you asked!!
I really feel for these ladies when I hear what some of them have to put up with. Wow!!