Having paid sex with her doesn’t give you access to her private life. She’s allowed to decide what she wants to share with you
Ghosted by my regular
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Having paid sex with her doesn’t give you access to her private life. She’s allowed to decide what she wants to share with you
So did the question come with a tip $ then ? You mentionned something about "some of them want you to care, some don't" but now it sounds like maybe you meant caring about your penis
Private life? It's ridiculous I've seen her naked. How am I supposed to know that's not something you ask or not? I assume she does other dudes after me and before me. I think they want to uphold that illusion they're not so they don't feel dirty inside. The best sex for me anyways is when a woman assumes what she does.That's how I like it and if a woman ghosts me after that, well too bad. Most don't.
It's funny that 3 daughters of the game got triggered.
But that's cool, in any case moral of this story is not to care and just move on.
It's funny that 3 daughters of the game got triggered.
But that's cool, in any case moral of this story is not to care and just move on.
It seems like you’re mixing stuff and don’t understand simple things. It’s ok…
The lack of social awareness/common sense /common decency is baffling lol
Dont get me wrong, i have some social awkwardness to a degree, i feel like a lot of “Johns” do, hence why we see escorts
But dude, how do you not get that asking a girl “been fucking a lot lately?” , even if she is an escort, is just weird and kinda cringey…
And then you sort of double down about not caring what she should or shouldn’t share about her private life, simply cause you saw her naked lol? Dude its her job…even if she does genuinely enjoy the sex with you and/or your company in general, she’s still an escort and you her client…period…
Goddamn, you lack common sense dude
And im most definitely not white knighting here
Haha, dude, I go in for the perversion shamelessly. You're obviously gonna do things you dont do with your wife or girlfriend. You have your rules of engagement. I have mine.
That being said, the question I ask bothers some girls, not all. How can I know which one it bothers if I don't ask? I find it sexy when the girl tells me she's been plowed all day the day before. (I obviously dont do dfk lol)
I really don't understand some reviews where guys say the girl is intelligent, refined or whatever. I mean, I'm not introducing them to my parents. I like it raw, sue me.
I stick with girls who can handle it and don't care for those who don't. Maybe we should rename the thread -- how to get ghosted. lol
That being said, the question I ask bothers some girls, not all. How can I know which one it bothers if I don't ask? I find it sexy when the girl tells me she's been plowed all day the day before. (I obviously dont do dfk lol)
I really don't understand some reviews where guys say the girl is intelligent, refined or whatever. I mean, I'm not introducing them to my parents. I like it raw, sue me.
I stick with girls who can handle it and don't care for those who don't. Maybe we should rename the thread -- how to get ghosted. lol
Oh ive done some pretty “perverted” and kinky stuff with some SPs and absolutely love PSE stuff (especially when mixed in with some GFE)…and funnily enough, it just so happens that ive gotten high mileage because I wasnt treating them like some piece of meat lol…who would have thunk it ???!!??
That actually treating them like decent human beings would actually get them to be more open to do raunchier and kinkier stuff.
As for an SP being more cultured and refined, well in the downtime between multiple shots, I guess I enjoy talking with a girl with a decent head between the shoulders. Of course, I may not be as much of a sex machine than you and my little guy down there does need a bit of a break to recuperate a bit before rising up to the occasion again, hence the part where its fun to chat with a pleasant girl who’s got more interesting things to talk about than whats happening in Occupation Double.
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I'm refinement in a different spectrum. Marquis de sade style. lol
Rocco sifreddi under the sheets.
I am sweet once I'm done. I pay them for their trouble and make a few jokes.
I usually don’t reply to these weird comments, but I can’t help myself. When I first read this, I thought it was a troll. It’s a joke, right! Lol!
Then I realized you are serious! Dude, without trying to demean you, you actually asked the SP how many other guys she f***ed?!? It’s beyond insane.
Not sure if it’s social awkwardness, a lack of judgement, no class, etc. I’m speechless! We know they see other guys, but it’s not something to ask, in such a raw and classless manner. You’re joking when you’re wondering why she ghosted you, right?
You don’t know what to say or not say? How about ‘how’s it going’ or ‘how is your day so far’, or ‘any plans for the weekend’, etc.
Hint: start with small talk, avoid very personal questions, and obviously avoid classless and crass questions, such as you one you asked!!
I really feel for these ladies when I hear what some of them have to put up with. Wow!!
Agree with you 100%. I was speaking in general terms. In that particular case, the OP definitely deserved a response to his inquiry. Unless we haven’t been told everything. Maybe she has told him, but he didn’t "hear" it and he persisted in asking for rdv, the she had enough and ghosted him. (Just playing devils advocate)
Of course there is a business transaction anytime money is involved. But I think the human interaction is of far more significance.
I can't understand post like this, you need to respect your SP for sure treat her well but you need to understand that those women are not there find a boyfriend or fall in love.
I been on and off with escorts for a while now, I recently separated after 3 years and am looking at reviews for potential bookings. But in the past I been told a few times myself by some SP, for some odd reason they did not want to come to my place, I learn that one was allergic to my cats and prefer to tell the agency booker that my place was dirty go figure.
The best advise is don't get attached and if she did ghost you just move on find another one after all there are a lot of SP out there.
In 2017 I was seeing an SP she received in her condo many times I arrived earlier and waited in the parking and saw many of her regulars come in and out. Made me realize I was not as special as she made me feel hahah.
I think you are in a class of your own.
There is not much more to be said.
Ok i just read this too makes a lot of sense now, bro you got ghosted because she saw you were falling for her, like i said escorts are not there to find boyfriends or fall in love, they want to make money, its also a fantasy world.
I’m not the one who got ghosted, not sure why you’re replying to me!!
I was replying to someone else’s comment!
I said your reply makes a lot of sense after reading it, and posted my 2 cents.
The user who created it was banned so all of his threads have been deleted
Oh, that’s too bad!
MODS: is there a way to bring back that thread even if the OP of that thread was banned ?
The Mods may have had good reason for deleting that thread, because this kind of thing leads to stalking, obsession, and criminality..
A lot of you probably do not remember this, but there was an incident back in around 2005 (approximately). At that time there was an agency or consortium of independents called French Kiss Society. There was a client of one of the escorts who worked there who began stalking her. She apparently obtained a protective order of some kind, and the dude, who was a poster on MERB under handle of Ponpon, was criminally charged for behavior of stalking the escort. The Mods, at the time, did not ban Ponpon as he had not broken any board rules and his case was handled in the criminal justice system. After he served his punishment, I remember he posted (in French, although he spoke a few words of English) that his punishment was done, whatever it was.
I don''t specifically recall what was posted in the deleted thread, but these threads that are about the subject of falling in love with SPs, or warning people not to, are generally encouraging stalkers or other unhealthy behaviors of obsession or misogyny. I am guessing some SPs may have complained about them as well, although I do not know.
If you cannot separate fantasy from reality, it is really time to stop seeing escorts. And that is really the bottom line.
A lot of you probably do not remember this, but there was an incident back in around 2005 (approximately). At that time there was an agency or consortium of independents called French Kiss Society. There was a client of one of the escorts who worked there who began stalking her. She apparently obtained a protective order of some kind, and the dude, who was a poster on MERB under handle of Ponpon, was criminally charged for behavior of stalking the escort. The Mods, at the time, did not ban Ponpon as he had not broken any board rules and his case was handled in the criminal justice system. After he served his punishment, I remember he posted (in French, although he spoke a few words of English) that his punishment was done, whatever it was.
I don''t specifically recall what was posted in the deleted thread, but these threads that are about the subject of falling in love with SPs, or warning people not to, are generally encouraging stalkers or other unhealthy behaviors of obsession or misogyny. I am guessing some SPs may have complained about them as well, although I do not know.
If you cannot separate fantasy from reality, it is really time to stop seeing escorts. And that is really the bottom line.
crazy, i created an account because I am going through the same thing
I had my regular girl for 4 years until she retired because of her boyfriend. I’ve been in search ever since… hoping to find that one.
to contribute, in my experience, the best is to keep going, keep booking, until you find the next “her”. You can definitely take a break from this if your plan is to work on yourself but if its to sulk over the relationship, i’m sorry but that rarely heals because you both knew the “boundaries” there’s no resolve over that. This unfortunately has happened to me a couple of times, i just try to remember “it was good ill it lasted”.
hope we both find it, good luck mate
I had my regular girl for 4 years until she retired because of her boyfriend. I’ve been in search ever since… hoping to find that one.
to contribute, in my experience, the best is to keep going, keep booking, until you find the next “her”. You can definitely take a break from this if your plan is to work on yourself but if its to sulk over the relationship, i’m sorry but that rarely heals because you both knew the “boundaries” there’s no resolve over that. This unfortunately has happened to me a couple of times, i just try to remember “it was good ill it lasted”.
hope we both find it, good luck mate
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