hobbying into your 50s??

[2fast2slow]

i had started a thread with the same title 5 years back, and it got dozens and dozens of responses. Unfortunately i deleted all my posts in a moment of paranoia a few years back, so cannot re-read the responses....

I am approaching 50. I still look good for my age, and have not experienced any ageism on the part of sps (yet). In fact, I have had a pretty good last couple of years with lots of dfk (the ultimate test of attraction).

But I am scared... I dont want this to end...and I know one day it will.

How much longer can I expect to receive real gfe services? especially from young attractive ladies (in their 20s)?

 

[Meta not Meta]

Interesting question ... l wonder the same. I still get a lot of DFK, also very important to me. Stay attractive! It helps to be single, eat well and get a lot of exercise. Hygiene (especially oral, obviously) and a good appearance become even more important as you age. Three recent SPs have guessed my age, at their request, as 36, 38 and 42, but I'm much older. Yes, lol, perhaps they were just being kind ...

 

[Steely Dan]

On the edge of 60 and never had an issue (that I am aware of anyway.....:smile

 

[2fast2slow]

On the edge of 60 and never had an issue (that I am aware of anyway.....:smile

do you still get dfk from 20 year olds? some people would think that is creepy, but that is what I want

 

[Julia Sky]

Its not really a test of attraction. it's a test of who does her job best. Hhaha ! So don't panick, you will still get DFK even in 30 years when you're 80 lol. At least from non-YMMV providers. There are a lot out there, don't worry I had a discussion about this with a few girls and most agreed that hygiene is more important than looks when it comes to DFK.

 

[cloudsurf]

On the edge of 60 and never had an issue (that I am aware of anyway.....:smile

SD I have to say that you look 10 years younger.

I was in my mid 50`s and had never seen an escort. What changed ?
Up until my mid 50`s I had no trouble dating much younger regular ladies.
But after my last 30 something serious g/f , it became harder to date beautiful young women.
Attractive women in their 30s and 40s were cougars or wanted kids.
I turned to escorts and had the best sex of my life in my 60`s.

Now in my early 70`s I `m still lucky enough to get dfk from 99% of the women I see. I must say though that I`m getting tired of the routine and will retire soon.

 

[Steely Dan]

SD I have to say that you look 10 years younger.

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Thanks Cloudy! Very nice of you to say! :yo:

 

[Steely Dan]

do you still get dfk from 20 year olds? some people would think that is creepy, but that is what I want

Rarely if ever see 20 year olds. But mid 20's for sure. No probs..

 

[minutemenX]

Interesting question ... l wonder the same. I still get a lot of DFK, also very important to me. Stay attractive! It helps to be single, eat well and get a lot of exercise. Hygiene (especially oral, obviously) and a good appearance become even more important as you age. Three recent SPs have guessed my age, at their request, as 36, 38 and 42, but I'm much older. Yes, lol, perhaps they were just being kind ...

Why you don’t t worry of not getting a blow job? Aged genitals are equally disgusting . Don’t worry, you can always get what you are paying for if you stick to professionals not amateurs. Be clean, polite and as a bonus witty and you can hobby until you die

 

[Dr. Richard Kimball]

Some guys can keep going into their 70s and 80s.

 

[westwoody]

Spend time in the gym, but do age appropriate workouts. More reps, less weight, watch your form.
I can lift heavy but the next day my joints will be killing me.
Watch your diet, try Keto if you want to lose fat.
The biggest thing: avoid stress as much as possible.

 

[Wallballer]

Ha, Ha.

I'm 64 and no great beauty. Not bad shape, but bald with a few extra pounds.

A combination of charm, hygiene, and Canadian dollars seems to do the trick. (I'm also good with my hands and have great stamina.) I go to highly reviewed ladies, primarily indy's of all ages. The ladies seem to and say they have had a fun time and I always get a second date.

My goal is party in my 80's. My focus is on being able, not on having women interested.

Wallballer



My goal is 80.

 

[Meta not Meta]

I heard from one SP about an elderly man, I think she said in his 70s, who would see her regularly, but for nothing physical, I think. She would just get undressed, lay on the bed, and they would talk .... "That'll be me in ten years," I told her.

 

[Rusty Staub]

I once spoke with an SP who saw a 90 y/o john for full service. I guess his wife died 15 years before and he had not had sex it like 20-25 years.

She was listed at 25 but very opened minded.

I was creeped out by this lol but she was fine with it.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

61, do not DFK but have not had any issues with SP's service wise. I am looking for 30 or older now though, looks like either Satin Dreams or Indys, a few agencies have a 30 yr old which I may see.

 

[CaptRenault]

You would be surprised how many 70+ gentlemen have more stamina then way younger man,and less selfish too...experience is a asset...

Bien dit, Lily. :thumb:

Experience is also an asset for women. I know, since I've met you.

 

[Meta not Meta]

"... and less selfish, too." Yes, generosity can go a long way with a lover. Something I try to practice ....

 

[jalimon]

Interesting thread. I try to keep my mind at being a 46 year old kid, which i am hopefully this will keep me going in my fifties!

Cheers,

 

[TheBlob]

I don't see this as a problem, really. I doubt that a majority of clients are good-looking 30 something athletic males. The girls are there for that. It's not a dating game, it's a client/service provider relationship.

 

[2fast2slow]

thanks for all the replies...I feel better already

A couple of you took issue with my statement about dfk. I have been at this for a long time. 20 years ago dfk was rare (as were a couple of other practices). Still today, bbbj is easier to obtain than dfk, even though in theory it is more risky. A lot of sps will provide bbbj but not dfk. More than will offer dfk and not bbbj by a longshot. And I get it. Dfk is more personal than other practices (including cim and cof, etc.), ultimately it is the act that is closest to an expression of love or lust. When you love someone, you don't think: ''I want to come in her mouth'', your instinct is to start by kissing LOL. bbbj, receiving cim or cof or whatever can be a great gift, but it is not as bilateral an act as kissing.

Every once in a while, I feel an sp is really into me (unless I am fooling myself lol), and that really is extra gratifying. At some point that will end. But I dont want to be negative. If I can actually continue to receive it, even if it will always be a 'service', that is still a great gift.