I need help...not sure what happened...

[Abathur]

Did a hh incalls today(I know I did not listen to you guys to do 1 hour with well-reviewed ladies), the girl was nice, gentle, and accommodating so the problem was on me...

We chatted like 5 mins, then she BJ me like 10 mins, then we did slow missionary for like 10 mins, then I got kind of kicked out (or time-up and possible blacklisted)...

I did not come after 10 mins, and to make matter worse, my JJ became smaller while inside her...I did not feel too exciting during the BJ and missionary either which is horrible...

I did two incalls recently, with the first lady, I came in 2 mins, with the second lady, I came in 5 mins.

maybe I was too nervous?

I am also taking anti-diabetes and anti-anxious medicine, could it be the medicine?

After taking those medicines, I found myself have much less sex drive...

Before when I was an innocent man-child, I was always eager to check on ladies, wondering what sex feels like, now after several encounters, I feel like I kind of lost interests, is it because the mystery is gone or because of the medicines I been taking?

 

[Flyingby]

Alright. Seriously. Now i think you are just trolling.
stop asking for help
You need help that you won’t find here

 

[testingsite]

Abathur, did you discuss this issue with your family doctor? If not, then I would suggest you talk to your family doctor first. They most likely would refer you to a sexologist who are the expert in this field and should be able to help you.

 

[Fradi]

Why would you get blacklisted according to you you were there for 25 mins of a 30 min session.
I doubt the girl cared whether you came or not, you are not the first or last.
Stop trying to analyze everything just pick a well reviewed girl, relax and let her take over and just enjoy the moment.
She will do all the work and you will have a fabulous time.

 

[Abathur]

Alright. Seriously. Now i think you are just trolling.
stop asking for help
You need help that you won’t find here

Seriously, I do need help, I am really worried...even with the lady on Friday night, when she BJs me, I did not feel much either, back then, I thought because she was not my type (overweighted) but today is different, today's girl is young and nice, but I also did not feel much...

I think it is because of those medicines...

 

[Abathur]

Why would you get blacklisted according to you you were there for 25 mins of a 30 min session.
I doubt the girl cared whether you came or not, you are not the first or last.
Stop trying to analyze everything just pick a well reviewed girl, relax and let her take over and just enjoy the moment.
She will do all the work and you will have a fabulous time.

yeah, she probably really doesn't care, she has lots of clients, I have to wait for 15mins before her last client left...

 

[Fradi]

By a Dyson, problem solved.

 

[Abathur]

By a Dyson, problem solved.

Not sure if I follow...

 

[CoolSin000]

Did a hh incalls today(I know I did not listen to you guys to do 1 hour with well-reviewed ladies), the girl was super nice, gentle, and accommodating so the problem was on me...

We chatted like 5 mins, then she BJ me like 10 mins, then we did slow missionary for like 10 mins, then I got kind of kicked out (or time-up and possible blacklisted)...

I did not come after 10 mins, and to make matter worse, my JJ became smaller while inside her...I did not feel too exciting during the BJ and missionary either which is horrible...

I did two incalls recently, with the first lady, I came in 2 mins, with the second lady, I came in 5 mins.

maybe I was too nervous?

I am also taking anti-diabetes and anti-anxious medicine (I don't have diabetes, I am 176CM, 125lb, I take them for other purposes), could it be the medicine?

After taking those medicines, I found myself have much less sex drive...

Before when I was an innocent man-child, I was always eager to check on ladies, wondering what sex feels like, now after several encounters, I feel like I kind of lost interests, is it because the mystery is gone or because of the medicines I been taking?

In my opinion - you should discuss this matter with your family doctor and your psychiatrist because we are not part of the healthcare profession. But if you worry that the doctors will judge you on your sexual activities with an SP - you can say, "I feel that I have less sex drive with my girlfriend" or something along those lines.

Good luck.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Anti anxiety meds can definitely tamper with your manhood as in erectile functionality, and possibly your maintainability. Would discuss with your doctor.

 

[Abathur]

Abathur, did you discuss this issue with your family doctor? If not, then I would suggest you talk to your family doctor first. They most likely would refer you to a sexologist who are the expert in this field and should be able to help you.

Not before, I haven't had any real sexual experiences 1 month ago, I just began this seemingly short-ended journey...

Not sure is it because I don't have enough encounters...

 

[Fradi]

You said you felt nothing during two BJ.

 

[Abathur]

You said you felt nothing during two BJ.

Not nothing, it was conformable just much less excitement, I read some people came after just a few mins BJs...

 

[Fradi]

Not nothing, it was conformable just much less excitement, I read some people came after just a few mins BJs...

Everybody is different and some SP are much better at BJ than others, hence why we keep telling you to pick a well reviewed lady.

 

[TheBlob]

Not before, I haven't had any real sexual experiences 1 month ago, I just began this seemingly short-ended journey...

Not sure is it because I don't have enough encounters...

You probably jerk a lot in that case, with porn or not. That doesn't help, and with porn it's worse. It fucks up your brain.

Add the anti-anxiety pills on that, and those anti-diabetes you take for something else than diabetes (?). That's quite a cocktail you have there, my friend.

 

[Abathur]

You probably jerk a lot in that case, with porn or not. That doesn't help, and with porn it's worse. It fucks up your brain.

Add the anti-anxiety pills on that, and those anti-diabetes you take for something else than diabetes (?). That's quite a cocktail you have there, my friend.

Could well be, I haven't jerk off in 4-5 days. You are right, I was playing around with sex toys/porn for 1 year, I could last 30mins with toys, seems much intense than the real things at least for me, I read playing around with toys too much could lose interests in the real things.

 

[sene5hos]

I am also taking anti-diabetes and anti-anxious medicine (I don't have diabetes, I am 176CM, 125lb, I take them for other purposes), could it be the medicine?

Anxiolytic drugs, in general, don't prevent erection, on the other hand ejaculation is much more difficult.
And when the guy realizes he isn't ejaculating, he often loses his erection.

I advise you to talk about it with your doctor, and you should not be embarrassed with his doctor, he has heard all kinds of it, and he will know how to direct you.

 

[Fradi]

WTF toys does a guy play with anyway.
No wonder guys today have trouble connecting with women or being able to have a meaningful conversation with them.
Women I understand playing with toys, especially when it seems men their age are busy doing the same.

 

[Abathur]

WTF toys does a guy play with anyway.
No wonder guys today have trouble connecting with women or being able to have a meaningful conversation with them.
Women I understand playing with toys, especially when it seems men their age are busy doing the same.

It's not like that, back then, I thought before having real sex, I could do some sorts of training with toys, like some sorts of simulations, turns out could well be harmful...

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[sene5hos]

Could well be, I haven't jerk off in 4-5 days. You are right, I was playing around with sex toys/porn for 1 year, I could last 30mins with toys, seems much intense than the real things at least for me, I read playing around with toys too much could lose interests in the real things.

According to sex therapists, they don't advocate watching porn, because everything is scripted in advance. I saw a show on Z on the subject and they restarted several scenes, and we imagine we can do the same.