Hello all,
No disrespect to the anal lovers, but I`ve always thought that anal is for those that have grown blase about pussy.
Actually, I`ve grown blase about anal. Now pussy, ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm...lol. Just foolin.
Really, I never thought of adding this to the options as being an ``anal lover`` as if it`s something unusual compared to loving kissing, daty, , erotic positions, role play, dirty talk or just good conversation with a desirable woman. It just part of the package whole package of enjoyment for me. But it`s still very uncommon in my experience with escorts. I think I done anal with about 6-7 ladies since 2001. That`s very few from that perspective.
Like anything else, it s a matter of preference and what you feel comfortable with. Over the years, i have had SPs who have offered it to me voluntarily and in those cases, extra$$$ was never asked. Years ago, when I was a bit less experienced, I remember an SP who I was with and while we were trying different positions, did not even bother to ask me, grebbed me and guided me into her and the first thing I knew I was visiting the greek isles.
In the beginning of escorting I never asked anyone about greek. I didn`t have any real desire. When it did come up for the first time during an encounter it was the escort who brought it up. It was in the first year of hobbying and she was setting the rules; no kissing...no ...no anal. This notice of ``no anal`` happened occasionally though I had never asked. I don`t remember being offered greek in at least the first three years of hobbying. Finally some did start offering it for an extra rate, though I had not asked. I didn`t accept for a long time. Then once after I started having more interest around 2005 a cute blonde from Luxure offered it for $50 extra and I accepted and I enjoyed it.
Even after doing it with an escort I still turned down opportunities or did not inquire when I knew the escort I was with definitely offered it. It was a matter of my comfort with her and how I thought she would react if I did ask her about the option. If I got them impression the lady was reluctant and only doing greek for the extra fee, then I passed on it. I made the mistake of not following my intuition once and it was an uncomfortable effort for both of us, as well as being a wasted expense. Like everything else: kissing, daty, , erotic positions, role play, dirty talk or just good conversation, it`s worth it when the lady enjoys it too. Otherwise, forget it.
Then there are those few women who don`t wait to be asked...and have no interest in charging extra.
Cheers,
Merlot