Repeats: Why some do? Why some try to avoid it?

[R the Man]

I hardly ever repeat because I crave variety - nothing like the delicious sensation of waiting for that knock on the door and not knowing who will be on the other side, but knowing that you will be banging her within minutes. Makes me stiff just thinking of it. And the few times I do repeat, often I'm disappointed because the repeat session can't match that first-time experience.

However, I do have two ATFs in Montreal that I repeat with when I'm in town. With one, I've seen her so many times that it's beginning to feel like an affair - she was a dancer and no longer in the biz, but she is gorgeous (like the hot girlfriend I never had, one of the prettiest girls that I've ever been with) and is so good with the fantasy of being so into me and knowing exactly what I like. Not to mention that she has a very interesting real life (that I don't think she knows that I know about). The other you may be able to figure out from my posts because she is a sweetheart and we click.

R.

 

[anon_vlad]

Here is a reason I have not repeated with a few SPs- the real girl friend experience:
She appears very late with unshaven legs, no perfume, messy hair, tired, wants to watch a movie, eat, drink and talk - not much sex.

Worse - one is expected to pay in the hundreds of dollars for this!

 

[winner]

This post is just a quick nothing to express the simultaneous joy and frustration of the Montreal scene. My time and money are limited and so attention must be paid and choices must be made. The last time I was in town I had an amazing night with an amazing woman; I don't just mean good, I mean the best. I'm hoping to come back to town soon and I need to plan. On the one hand, I would be an idiot not to see her again. On the other hand ... well, it's hard to look over the Indy website and read the reviews of the beautiful agency girls and not dream. So on that first hand, what if I repeat and it's not transcendent? And back to the other hand, why would I go fishing for something that might be good but not amazing?

It's a great choice to have, but I sometimes feel helplessly buffeted by the winds of desire. Poor, poor, pitiful me....

Obviously this situation arises for anyone without unlimited time and unlimited resources. What is a poor boy to do?

I am in exactly the same boat as you, very hard to make a decision, i can only afford this hobby 3-4 times a year, its a hard decision to make. I really liked the girl i met, but i also have a nice list of others i want to meet...arggggghhhh

 

[daydreamer41]

Even though it is a transaction and it is not a normal relationship, there can be Chemistry between you and your sp. If you meet someone whose company you enjoy, you are foolish not to repeat. There have been a few who I have enjoyed and repeated many times. And there are a few, I wish I repeated more but the timing did not work out.

 

[FreeG]

I am in exactly the same boat as you, very hard to make a decision, i can only afford this hobby 3-4 times a year, its a hard decision to make. I really liked the girl i met, but i also have a nice list of others i want to meet...arggggghhhh

I third the sentiment! I get just a few chances to hobby a year as well. This will be my first time in Montreal soon, so I'm still debating whether setting up with an Indy (that I might hit it of with and meet another time), or choose one of the many outstanding agency women who I will less likely see again.

Tough call.... where's my Loony to flip? (then I can blame the Gods of chance instead of my own dumb, over-thinking brain...)

Back to topic: I have repeated before. It was in areas where it the choices were slimmer. Looking back, I found that the 2nd time was not as good as the first. Not sure the reason - was I different? Was the woman? I'll be repeating with someone in Ottawa this week and I'm a little nervous that the same will occur - the magic of the first encounter will not happen a second time. We shall see!

 

[Maria Divina]

A total magical experience!

I have been blessed, very lucky indeed, to have been enough long around to have regular repeats, and also
long term repeats, I am seeing many "repeats" after all those years.

So the "repeats" could be something near in a timeline manners or
with a hiatus of months or of years. Maybe you won't believe me, but I am seeing many of the gentlemen I met from my beginning and through along my path.
And I begun 9 years ago.

And from my perspective, there is always something very positive when we see someone again.
The basic thing is that I don't worry at all and all the time of my preparation is much greater, just so happy to meet again together!

Probably this is related with the personality of each: if you are having a very open mind as an humanitarian, to meet someone you already connected with is a great joy! Of course, I can understand people been afraid to fall in love, but to fall in love for real, you have to know the person better, and this is not in an hour, or a couple of hours of a "bubble of pleasures" that it could happen for real. You can have a kind of crush, but not a real deep love. Real love implicate that you know the person much more than that. In French, we say: "Chat échaudé craint l'eau froide" that means that you are much more too afraid for nothing.

 

[Stockton]

This will be my first time in Montreal soon, so I'm still debating whether setting up with an Indy (that I might hit it of with and meet another time), or choose one of the many outstanding agency women who I will less likely see again.

Tough call.... where's my Loony to flip? (then I can blame the Gods of chance instead of my own dumb, over-thinking brain...)

with the way the agencies have been lately, the top girls get booked up so fast they decide for you whether you get a chance to meet them.

 

[jalimon]

with the way the agencies have been lately, the top girls get booked up so fast they decide for you whether you get a chance to meet them.

I agree (except if your free are early in the day, my booking always work when early, but always fully book if later).

FreeG, if you want some sure thing book ahead with indy companion. Chance of needing a plan B with them are very low, and service unbeatable. Then you can fill extra if you need with agency

Cheers,

 

[Tim Horny]

Repeats are at the best places you know, the guys that jump from place to place are searching for something they will never find.

 

[chowzilla]

Agreed, those who truly look for the girlfriend experience, will tend to repeat so they can get their mileage up and make their experience even more real

Those who just want hookup will tend to repeat less because variety is key for them.

Don't get me wrong there are some who need both.