Hi all
This is certainly a complex question with no easy scenarios !
Is there a right or wrong ,can a sex worker have a working relationship ,its a question ,I have ask so many times to so many of my girls and clients and none escort users .
Young girls working as escorts to date ,some even have regular or steady boyfriend .
My question was what to they tell them about escorting ?
What experience hobbyist know about escorting and the general population knows about escorting is different .
The answers I got from the young escort varied but mostly lies about their work very where honest about what was going on .
The most of them identified themselves as strippers or shooter girl in a strip club to justify their night work .
Other where saying they where escorts but lies was in the job description ,they where implying that they where accompanying old guys to diner dates and the" worst " or" Best" depending on where we are standing:lol:was giving him a foot massage so he would feel better ,Hummmmm. I guess lots merb guys are in for foot massages:lol:
Others where saying its really not sex because I am not enjoying it !Wow
Yes !Hummmm but what happens if you are enjoying it ?
Some said I really do try not orgasm !But what if you do ?
IT goes in circles .
And obviously they are the ones saying it what they really do and what goes on with clients !
I have personally dated escorts witch I knew they where escorts and the services they where offering ,I also know other bookers who have dated or are dating escorts or ex escort .
I have tried to date none escorts but when I told the ladies what I was doing as a job it kind of cooled them off even if everything else was working properly .
I have to admit that sex work is unconventional and not well regarded even by people using it !
Having read most of the post in this thread and other related thread ..
One of my closest friend is presently in a relationship with a escort ,He is close 40 years old she is in her early twenties ,they have been together for four years .They met in the escort industry he was his booker ,there is no hiding what she was doing ,
The young lady is really a great girl ,I know her too .
We always have to remember is the person offering the sex service worst then the person demanding it?
To be truthful with ourselves and to know who we are helps in any relationships .
My love ones knows about my career in the sex industry ,I have no stress that they might discover it my son knows it also .
Its a choice every one is faced with ,do you tell the truth or not ?
Some escort ladies are more truthful then secretaries or lady lawyers,police ladies or any other types of work .
Being a escort is not who they are its what they do !
Cheers
Booker