I'm sorry, let me disagree with you here(or the lady who told you this): a real decent person(and I say person since not all SP's are straight) would be understanding and accepting of the lady's profession, not judge her or refuse to date her because of it. While I can understand that people have their issues with this profession, any decent person would try and listen to the SP, educate themselves better, and not judge them or jump to conclusions about what they do for a living. If they still have issues with it past that point, and don't believe it would work, then to each their own, and the relationship was never meant to be. Just like we shouldn't expect them to judge us for what we do, we can't judge them for not wanting to date us because of it.Not a good idea imo, a worker told me a real man could never accept his girl sharing herself for paper... On the contrary however unless you happen to work there too(lol) than that could work out. Trust me im a sexpert!
Well said AmberRose...
What makes me go hum is when I read Rhumdice saying ''real man''...real man? As in chest thumping grunting caveman? sigh...
I agree odds are slim to find a gem of a man not threatened in his manhood by an open relation but same type of odds applies to lottery and there are winners...
What's this obsession with ''real''woman? ''real''man? there is no such thing ...just different human (hopefully) being with different realities,none better then the others...
Hehe i read what i posted here previously about my own relationship... which has now been over for quite a while.
Ultimately, I still stand by what I said, monogamy will never be for me.
But I will add this recent reflection.
I may not have the energy to do both at once.
As a courtesan, I have a few long term regular gentlemen in my life, whom i do consider my lovers, and i do (gladly) spend my energy, even outside of paid time, to show them i care and appreciate them being in my life. It is pretty much a full time commitment.
Being in a relationship on top of it would leave me with very little self care and rest time, which I also need more of in order to keep providing great service and caring for the above gentlemen.
I am perfectly ok with this, and I do believe there are more than a few guys or gals out there whom I could very well click with and have something meaningful with, I'm just aware my career would definitely suffer from it.
I guess in this field, more than any others, one must put themselves first, and being single is really not the end of the world, especially when one is surrounded by wonderful lovers
I don't believe a serious relationship with an actively working SP is feasible
Ladies and Gentlemen,
I think the best part of this thread is the underlying contradiction of the question. Can someone please tell me, what is the basic difference of women taking money to sleep with many men versus men paying money to sleep with many women. Isn't the only difference paying versus profiting? Aren't we all the same? Aren't we all working the sex industry? Is a penis more immune or holier than a vagina??? So what's with the implied element of the question that says the women are doing something dirtier than we are.
Fascinating huh Spock,
Merlot
I would love to fall in love with a smoking hot Montreal SP. I would love for her to use the shit out of me. Use me, use me, use me. Who gives a fuck. It could be a wonderful ride.
Next time you meet a civie female, tell her that you will get in a relationship with her but you will continue your hobby and see how well that goes down.
Nobody would judge the female in this case for saying hell know,...
Also women seem to seek out male sluttiness or at least not mind it much more. Some might call it a double standard but really,....
Also until women start shoving their vaginas into men there is a difference.
Are you suggesting men with the same feeling are more unfairly judged.
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Sorry but this is pure double standard. I simply don't put any less responsibility on either gender for choosing what they do or hold either to different standards for whatever reason...especially not because of the design or function of their genitals.
Merlot
Sometimes it is perfectly cromulent to have a double standard.