Staying single for the rest of your life?
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I totally disagree with all this stuff about women in their 30s...When I was a teen I fantasized about being seduced by a woman in her 30s....now at 67 I still fantasize about being seduced by a woman in her 30s!
I do not know about that. I former stripper, who I meet eleven years ago I believe at the time she was 19, not she is 30 and wow she is so sexy and hot. I mean she looks much better then before. Nice body and cuter face. One of my regulars is 33 now and she is hot. In 2023 in December, I was at Mania and ran into a sexy spinner Black girl (well a lady) but she looked young and was so fit. She was just a client there to chill and started chatting with me, she was 37 she told me. Wow boy was she hot and she has four kids and you would not be able to tell. Anyhow, just saying it depends. About connection I tend to agree, but sometimes I connect with young women and sometimes with older women. Just depends there also. Cannot stereotype. Now I just wish women would stop hating on men who are short, we cannot change our heights no matter what.
This, i am not short i am close normal height 5 foot 8 but for many women i am too short, still 5 foot 8 is a normal height for men here in Canada. This what pisses me off when a women who is below average as kids full time, dead end job and as huge standards and makes comment about men height and what she wants. Its a jungle out there.
They are full of it as I see so many guys that are short with partners! Money goes a long way!
Funny you mention that I am watching the netflix series black dove, the Keira Knightley in there is a spy and married her husband for money had twins, and the whole series revolve around her trying to find who killed the man she was having an affaire with and was in true love. If that does not reflect reality today a part from the spy thing not sure what does.
I see no positive in anything related to dating, my work buddy is dating a married women, now she is getting a divorce, moved out of her house with her ex husband, but she broke up with him 3 weeks ago and then got back with him again.
I warned him about married women and cheaters but he does not listen, what ever happens next its on him, she cheated on her husband with him she can cheat on him with someone else.
That’s what I thought! My friend cheated on his wife with his co worker then got a divorce and moved into his co workers house! The co worker was a brat when his kids came over as she hated the kids and was jealous of them! He renovated her house with even cutting bricks to make her a chimney also his electric saw went through his thumb and is damaged for life! He told me he thought he had it made! It’s not his house as the co worker was paying all the bills and was also making her food all the time! She also got a divorce from her husband as she kicked him out for my friend ! My friend told me she does like not going down on him and never initiates sex! His kids hate her so then he moved into a basement apartment and goes back with her off and on cause he wants free sex! She is 60 years old and he is 10 years younger! I’m the one having a blast with kinky SPS and this is what he is doing cause he does not want to pay for sex! True story!
No surprise here, stories like this one are a dim a dozen and yet another great example to stay single. I had met a beautiful women she was the one that asked me out she had 2 adult kids the only thing she said she could not wait to be a grand mother that sealed the deal for me. I remember back in 2000 going out with a girl and her sister had 3 kids, her father was retired and he was the one babysitting the kids all the time, this is not going to be me when i retire i want to enjoy what is left from my life not babysit kids that are not mine.
I got my SP we have tones of fun, its pretty amazing at times, i pay her fee and then i leave. I can't imagine dating another single mom with kids.
My friends friend makes good money got a wife and recused her from being broke with the House, car and vacations and has issues with her having intercourse as she is not into him and Not even pretty at all! He will never leave her as the parents told him do not put her name on your house but he did! She is tide to everything he has as that was her goal! Good luck to that! He goes, I rather die than be single! Well man it’s costing you every single day as she is not paying for nothing with no earnings!
Pure stupidity this guy is in for it in the long run
I have been there too its called social programming, when you meet weak men white knights that praise women. Theses men will take any women that wants them and will give them all. Sadly in 2000 i got suckered into a relation like this the girl was my complete opposite, she was lazy, obese, and crying that no man wanted her due to her size. I dated her for 3 years even bough a house, we hang out with other obese people i was in the twilight zone. I came back down to earth when they all wanted kids and my ex was gaining more weight, never kept a job and could not take care of a poor dog. Yet she wanted kids.
I dodge a huge bullet because today she is 49 2 kids from on guy another kid from another guy that she married she is a stay home mom, and lazy as can be. Some men are just so plain stupid to put up with all this trash.
I remember going for a walk one day and seeing this landwhale with her extra large frozen cappuccino and 3 kids running around screaming, her husband was 6 feet and fit and she was there giving him orders on what to do around the house, the look that guy gave me like please kill me.
I rather stay single then be in those situations. I also had a lot of girlfriend who gave very bad sex. So you give so much to get so little in return well sorry i will pass my turn.
Wow! This is not a foster care program to take care of them! Hope, she did not get part of the house! I know of someone that is at a very un healthy weight at 36 and she found an engineer who is a simp giving her free vacations and restaurants every night! Now he proposed to her with a very expensive ring! She has 0 to bring to the table and is a very lazy person! I bet she will quit her job just wait and see!
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My decision to remain single was quit simple my very first girlfriend at 18 was bipolar but during those early years its was undiagnost. I had a huge circle of friends competed in martial arts, played in the arcade, pool, played music had a band went to wrestling events, in a matter of 6 months she mange to hand pick the people i could hang out with control my life went nuts when i did not do what she wanted, and fucked my brains off when i got mad at her and threaten to leave her. One night my father got mad and threw her out of the house she was a real shit disturber.
My second girlfriend at 19 wanted to get pregnant i was in school but all she wanted was a baby, i manage to dodge yet another bullet, the next guy she got after me did the job.
Third girlfriend we were in Montreal on St Catherine street and a bunch of guys started to flirt with her, she gave in totally and was loving it. And the list goes on, cheated on dumped most girls i dated did not like sex, i gave so much to receive nothing.
From 23 to around 30 i stayed single, i just went out had fun, i was young, i had good luck with women back then for one nights, and it was not like today all so complicated. Like i said at 30 i met my other girlfriend people were telling me i could not do this kind of life and needed to settle down one day and that this girl would love and care for me. I got screwed once again.
My last girlfriend was a nice women, she had a daughter 19y old but hard working she lived with us after a separation. But my ex did not like sex at all she had low libido at first she gave in twice per week but it had to be fast so she would not get bored. I tried, asking her what she liked, getting her excited, kissing her in the neck touching etc, but everything tickled. So even if she was a good women I was miserable.
Since my separation I got a small apartment in Laval adopted pets and am seeing an escort on and off, i am taking a break now to save money. But so far that SP is amazing she gives me good service, If i see her once in a while if i go nuts and see her 2-3 times in one week well the second and third service is a bit of a let down. She is 40 and she is hot so there you go about the women aging.
I tried to meet online, introduction, but with all the life experience i have its hard, if they are too young they are immature, if they are 40 and above they also have baggage, and i realize there are a lot of things i am not ready to accept anymore.
I gave so much in relation to receive nothing in return. Now I been told to think positive and my life will change, all i can say is that i tried but when life keeps hitting you in the face, and you see the reality of things that everyone around you is divorce, cheating etc. The white knights I was with in 2000 who married and had kids are now all divorce and paying alimony to there ex. So again I dodge another bullet.
I am addicted to training, being active I feel great, I eat better cutting out junk food really shows, and its not like a women is magically going to pop up in my life and be the one, sorry i just don't believe in walt disney romance stories.
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