Makes sense, my parents are not divorced but I have friends and colleagues who suffered from parents divorcing. There views on dating are much different then my own and whole fully negative for the most part. In my country divorces rates are almost null and extremely rare, along with single parenting, having multiple baby mothers and fathers and blended families, it's seen as morally abhorrent and not beneficial for child development.
It's different from what I noticed in Quebec, single parenting is common, divorced parents, blended families etc baby mamas and fathers with multiple partners, it seems to be an encouraged lifestyle here, as if no one cares to give their children a healthy married two parent household. I'm sorry but if you have kids and your married, divorce should only be necessary for extenuating circumstances such as all forms of abuse.Once you have kids your needs should be ahead of yours, even if you do not love your partner just find another alternative for your children sake. I understand why there is a heavy reliance on antidepressants in this province if the nuclear family unit is not encouraged.
Shout out to the married men who see escorts who don't want to impact their children by divorce and separation, you have my respect.
The best thing a mother can do in this situation is divorce her cheating husband, and teach her sons that that kind of behavior is not acceptable, and teach her daughters not to tollerate a relationship she isn't respected in.
There are a lot of men who need to learn their entitlement is not acceptable, and she has just as much entitlement, to a partner who respects her and doesn't chase after other women. She doesn't get married just to have kids and a home, she gets married for a faithful and loyal partner in life. If he can't be that then he doesn't deserve what she is providing for him.
Thank God we live in a society now where men are finally being held accountable for their behavior, and women no longer have to tollerate a shit partner. The problem these men have is they don't want to be better, they want to be a bad partner and she should just have to take his unacceptable behaviors. If you don't want your partner doing something, then you offer them the equal respect not to do it yourself.
A mother who leave a partner who is not respecting her, is doing the best possible thing she can by her kids, teaching them to respect themselves enough not to tollerate disrespect from people/partners they invite to share their lives with.
I am seeing a lot of women dating other women. I have known some strippers for several years and they dated men, but now they got a girlfriend. It is getting more common especially among strippers.
^^^^ As for the men, many are being left single.
And yes more women who are bi, might likely choose to be in a relationship with another woman, over being with a man. Because they crave a relationship they aren't being forced into a patriarchal gender role, and get to be who they are instead.
I have no issues talking to women, my main damn issue is pushing things forward, asking her out and yes even at my age i still have this fear of rejection
We all fear rejection. Best we can do is show people who we are, and hope a relationship can form. Like someone else said, we miss 100% of the shots we don't take.
Hope you don't wait too long before you miss your chance. Co-workers are kind of a dangerous place to search for a relationship though. If it works, your around eachother 24hrs a day 7 days a week, if it doesn't, where you spend most of your waking hours, is made uncomfortable, for either one, or both.
I side on I want people to have happy healthy mutual relationships. Unfortunately that doesn't seem to be how a lot of relationships work out though.
For OP, I hope he also learns rejection isn't the end of the world. It is hard, and depending on how sensitive someone is can hurt, but we also hope when it is right, it shouldn't be so difficult. Even for an attractive person, the best thing you can do is see them as a person rather then put them on a pedestal because you think them out of reach. It is rather uncomfortable to be in a relationship where there is that kind of imbalance.