Love is a mental state while sex is a physical one.
Totally disagree,
If sex was only a physical state it wouldn't matter what kind of person, or whatever, you had sex with, you would have the same effect for the same cause. It wouldn't matter if the woman were 18 or 90, super boney or super fat, gorgeous or a mutilation victim, smelling like roses or the local sewer, etc. Insert peg into round hole...that's it according to the pure physical theory.
I for one find fitness, persona, femininity, manners, attitude, style and beauty all part of sexual attraction. Since tastes for all of those are subjective between individuals, obviously sexual attraction is a very mental condition.
On subject, I'm not sure why it matters what the ladies think of us. This is a business arrangement. Do we care what others who take our money in any transaction really think of us more or less than an SP? Do you think they all love you and respect you, or are indifferent as long as the business transaction is completed.
If the lady has a poor opinion and cannot perform because of it, then it matters. Maybe if you are looking for a "relationship" beyond the encounter it would matter. But in the hobby it doesn't matter generally what their opinion is of us, as ours is irrelevant to them.
Besides, from my view, neither side is better than the other.
Cheers,
Merlot