I dunno exactly where to put this cuz it is not a exactly a review of a stripclub or an escort. Note to mods please feel free to move the thread to the appropriate section.
I have been going for take out with strippers for quite some time. Tonight I have to say was my first bait and switch experience. I meet a sexy tiny Black stripper at Doric back in June. Body was very nice and attitude was cool. I took her for many dances. By the booth sessions it was clear that no extras would be available. Body language was the determining factor and it was negative. About a month of that I decided to leave this stripper and move onto to others. However she was very cool to send me text messages each week so I said to myself why not I could go see her take a few dances. No big deal.
At some point I find out that she works at FS clubs every now and then. I talked to her indirectly about take out during the summer time but she did not want to go. Our relation grew stronger she stayed in touch with me several times a week. She asked to go clubbing with me and we went. I proposed take out to her in October and offered her $400. At that point she opened up. I saw her the following week at 10/35 and she asked me what I want. I made it clear at the what I wanted. I told her that I want GFE and that DFK and DATY were mandatory to me. She said okay and agreed to give it.
She asked me to go after her shift after 3am for take out. I declined. Not my thing. I like to shower before hand, prepare myself, bring the drinks, and party hats. I wanted the full GFE experience. Last week she proposed me again to go after her shift. She was working at Solid Gold. From this moment on it was downhill. This was last weekend. I accepted and said that I will pay her $300 instead. She said she would stay 1.5 hrs and that $400 for that less time is a bit too much. She accepted $300. Then I cancelled on her explaining it better she took a dayoff or to leave early. That night she was very cold when I saw her. She also did not make much money at the club.
From this moment on it was all downhill with her. She became unreliable. She was answering my texts either very late or they were not being answered. So finally I booked a date for Friday night. Again she wanted to go after her shift. She was at Vegas bar. So I went there around 1:30am and waited for her. She was busy chatting with a group of guys. She did not bother to see me or even say hi. Another red flag. At closing time I waited for her in the car. A client was looking for her. Sh went to talk to him and she sat in his car for a good 15 minutes. I do not know what they were up to. Once she was done she comes to into my car and cancelled on me. I was thinking WTF? She waited till the last second to tell?? She just wasted my time and I clearly told her that. She said how she was drunk and that it would not be good and did not want to make me feel like a client. Okay. I accepted that and drop her home.
Tonight we reschedule. I send her a text at 4pm but no answer till 7pm. I sent her a few texts prior. She now changed her plan. She took the night off and asked me to pick her up at 10pm to which I did. She said she was going out clubbing after take out. When I meet her she was cold and even a bit irritated. She was a bit bitchy. Right there I knew it would be bad. At started to cough a bit and said she had a cold. So I politely ask her if she would be okay otherwise we could postpone it for another time. She said no and that she is sick in the mouth but not from inside. I accepted.
Once I booked the room. She asked me to pay her upfront. Another red flag. Neither of my previous take out with strippers have ever asked to pay upfront. Stupid me I gave her the money. I trusted her. Then she said that she could not DFK cuz of the cold. Then I told her straight up that is not what we agreed upon and if she could not DFK then she had lots of time to tell me. No mention of this by phone or in the car. She kept on saying that she thought I would be okay with no DFK. But in fact I made it clear from the start that DFK and DATY is what I wanted. DFK was non negotiable. I can accept other restrictions except DFK.
At that point I lost my interest in her it was too negative and we were arguing. I told her to take $50 and leave. But she wanted to keep $180 and she returned me $120. I was like no way that is going to happen. She did not give any service and she mislead me into saying that she would do DFK when that was all a lie. We argued more but she still refused to give my money back. I was not going to physically force her however I called the police to report a thief. At that point she freaked out and told me to hang up the phone otherwise she will punch me. She also blurted out that she has a police record. What a big surprise. With me involving the police she returned my money. She kept the $50. Then I left her.
A few things I learned from this. You got to observe the strippers body language in the booths. See how liberal she is. If a strippers head is always turned to the side during the lapdances that means that she either is against DFK or simply does not like it. Either way it makes no difference. All this could have been avoided had she been straight up about it. But she baited me and then switched on me once she got payed. She just wanted the money badly and thought that my need for service from her would be so high that I would have accepted no DFK. She was wrong!