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Thread: Refusing an Outcall SP

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    Question Refusing an Outcall SP

    newbie here
    So i ordered an SP from a well known agency on the forums
    The pictures were accurate but looked a lot better on the website. They were shot in a way that made her look different if you know what i mean.
    Anyways when she arrives, im really surprised and tell her i refuse. She insists to come in and use the phone. I told her i would pay her 20$ for the trouble and that she should leave. She gets the booker on the line and he yells at me to give her the full price. So i didnt want any trouble and i liked another girl from the same agency so i gave her the money and told her to give a massage.

    Was i manipulated?, Am I allowed to refuse the SP?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nsssk11 View Post
    Am I allowed to refuse the SP?
    Sir,

    Any time you wish to, and for any reason. If you don't mind paying the fee for a massage that's your choice. But don't ever let any lady or owner try to push you around like that. The most I ever paid was $40 for a refusal, and that was only because I made a mistake about how much money I had on hand and had to turn away a totally stunning woman. I gave $20 for the driver and $20 for her waste of time. No more.

    good luck,

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    I think your too picky, you should have just taken the service instead of causing trouble

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    Who was it. Just so I don't get the same girl

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    It is the rights of both a client and an SP to refuse.... you even gave up the 20$ driver fee, wich is expected if that happen. Maybe some people could push it a bit at 40$ but paying the full price... I mean, here you where kinda force to take her(who would pay full price to turn the girl over???) and the chemistry was already pretty much scrapped from the start.I imagine the feeling... Sorry girl, your not my type, here 20 bucks... bye. And then... ok ok, seem like i have no choice... ok ill fuck you then... that could be so awkward... you just took the massage but still...

    I think in that situation its VERY important you give us all the details, what agency it was, wich girl... to protect potential customers from that. I mean, we all knowns pics usually look better, so it aint a scoop, but sometimes they are A LOT looking better than the actual girl(photoshop magic) , but its really the way they handle it that is unnaceptable. The girls should had take the 20$, walk away... But then even the booker yelling at you... lack of class. So please give details. Hell you eve saw the girl, even if it was just for a massage, you can make a full review thread.

    I got to admit you may had fear for your safety if you called at your home... but yeah you where pretty much tricked and manipulated there...
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    I'd say no worry.

    Pictures accurate but a lot better ?
    It happened to me once. She was really looking like her pics but somewhow 'she was different'.

    It's basically the image we have in mind which creates some kind of expectation.

    If you stick with the hobby, you'll see that the best ones (which you'll remember all your life) will probably be what I call the 'surprise girls'.
    The ones you didn't have too much expectation from yet, somehow the chemistry was a lot stronger than the attraction you had for 'her look'.

    As for being yelled at on the phone...?
    I'd say next time, (specially if it's a well known agency here on Merb) just tell them you'll report whatever BS they yelled at you on Merb while keeping cool.

    TC

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    It is the other knock at the door you should be concerned about. Sometime it can get very unpleasant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frank Drebin View Post
    It is the other knock at the door you should be concerned about. Sometime it can get very unpleasant.
    ya thats what i wanted to avoid

    also i really wanted to see another girl from the same agency another time and i didnt want to get banned or something

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    Quote Originally Posted by jnutz View Post
    If everything needs to be 100% perfect for you, join a dating website, stop calling hookers.
    I do not get your logic When I pay it best be exactly what I want and she better be in top shape with no belly. When it is free my love is open to all. When I date a normal girl I will accept something different and does not have to be top in looks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by nsssk11 View Post
    also i really wanted to see another girl from the same agency another time and i didnt want to get banned or something
    Yeah well that makes sense.

    Get to see this girl you want and then come back on these boards to tell everyone who the MF is
    It should help everyone to keep it cool for a while.

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    I agree with cloud 500. I'm paying for the girl in the pic or better. And since there are a lot of girls for the same price that are worth every penny why should the client suffer Unless your only paying 140-160 then you kinda roll the dice and get what you get

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    Quote Originally Posted by jnutz View Post

    Hell, I feel like coming over and bitch slapping you myself.
    When you pay 200+ $, you have rights to be picky... I mean... i received girls a couple time that where not as expected, i was expecting much better but they where still decent looking and i kept them, because i didn't want to loose the room price, or go the trouble of finding another, one even turned out to be one of the best fuck i had... but still when you "choose" you want the "best for you" at your personal taste. So if the guy call at his home, he don't have to loose the hotel or such.

    As for the "other knock at the door" it shouldn't happen for a refusal to take a girl, its even stated here in the "rules" that both can take or refuse a client. And i think if the guy already yell at you, not sure he would like you to call again, and i sure wouldn't call again, no matter if the girl is tremendously hot.
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    Question

    Is this unfortunate event something that should be reported to the Mod, especially if the agency is a MERB supporter?

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    Of course you have no obligation ,actually it goes both way, but I have just a tiny bit of malaise for the phrasing...you "ordered" a girl...yikes...she is not a pizza...which is my standard answer when a guy asks "if I can be there in 20 min..." Yes it is a transaction but we are not a product...careful guys...

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    Quote Originally Posted by nsssk11 View Post
    So i didnt want any trouble and i liked another girl from the same agency so i gave her the money and told her to give a massage.
    How do you know this other girl looks like her photo? If the agency fooled you once, don't bother staying in their good graces. Most likely they'll just dick you over again.

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