I know I tell myself I’ll go to Costco for 3 things and it’s costs me 500$.
Ask us anything part 3
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When I arrived here it happened to me all the time too. Now I'm not weak anymore!
As in two in the pink and one in the stink? Just ask before you do it unless you know she likes it.
yet, despite A) get cranky when I don't respond to your message within 47 seconds. I'm generally good at multitasking but answering messages on my phone while I have a dick in my ass would be rude, no?
I've used butt plugs sometimes but for various reasons (including health ones that need to be taken seriously) I don't like any form of anal play.
I also think inserting fingers anywhere needs to be done carefully.. some ppl think you can just jam your fingers somewhere and move them very fast and hard. I think maybe for some women this is enjoyable but not me.
Not rude if it is the same person
(I think we’ve just invemted a new kink!!!)Speaking of butt plugs, I have high quality surgical steel style plugs and a wand type of thing. Would it be uncool to even ask a working girl if I could bring em along to use on her? I get it may be different for everyone but if there's an overwhelming "what are you thinking" response I'll never think of this again haha
Toys should always be new (in the box). Maybe someone doesn't mind to use one with a condom on it; they should be properly disinfected.
Honestly here are my 2 cents.. maybe if a provider offers Greek/PSE, but I can't guarantee the person will accept.. Many of us already have our own toys as well and I think some SP would not feel comfortable with you bringing a personal toy that's not in the box for hygiene reasons...
As for a butt plug.. I've used them on occasion with clients but it's rare and it was with regular clients sometimes who didn't book me for a long period of time. I use the smallest size. It's really not my favorite thing. If a client who read my ad asked to use their own butt plug on me I'd say no, definitely.
It doesn't hurt to ask but if it's a deal breaker if she says no I would not waste her time..
Yeah I do not push restrictions so would only think of something like a plug with a girl who gets down with the brown so to speak and who's offering. I'll just forget about it as it's too much of a hassle to buy one for every girl I see who's offering. My thumb or face will have to do.
I would ask the provider about bringing toys.
Bringing your own toys might not result in your toys being used on them, but on you
Many who are down for using toys, have their own toys, and for some it is concidered an extra to include toy play, or for them to bring their toy bag. (It takes time to properly care for toys after play.)
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I like when clients ask if they can bring something. I drive, so alcohol is not on my short list of drinks. Often I just ask for water.
One of my favorite people to visit, whether he has cum or not, by like 30 minutes in always reserves the second half of our time for "coffee time". (I keep a container of hot chocolate mix in my vehicle for when I go see him, because I use hotchocolate instead of sugar in my coffee.)
Drinking is for either when I go out to the clubs (2 times a year), at home when I am unavailable to work (but still rarely do), or mainly when I go to the campground. (They must think me an alcoholic there, my happy place there, is a smirnoff ice in 1 hand, and a tool of some sort in the other. While I get to work on a project that people turn to professionals for, while I figure shit out myself. DIY style.)
I would be tickled pink if I was given flowers.
I've had long term relationships that I was lucky to get a flower by year 3. It is such a sweet gesture. I was given a bouquet of fake flowers once from a precious client. I still have it in my room at home.
Well thank you, I'll start bringing them when I feel like it.I would be tickled pink if I was given flowers.
I was given a bouquet of fake flowers once from a precious client. I still have it in my room at home.
I order online to avoid the draw to areas I can't afford to be drawn to. It is easier to stick to the basics, but I don't think the flowers are an online item.
