Seems like it went past the line of acceptable to the other person but you know what's best for you. It's stuff like this that makes me grateful for the ladies I see bc I realize I don't understand the full gamut of their side of this industry and the challenges they face.
Ask us anything part 3
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Not all clients are going to be perfect unfortunately.. I try to offer a good experience to people who aren't perfect. I try to give people second chances. Sometimes it's not a great idea
This is from another thread but I bring it up here for the ladies to answer: How often do you watch porn (or porn is playing) while you're in a session with a client? Is it something you like/dislike or are you ambivalent about it being on during sex?
This has never happened. I'm not sure if it's something that would bother me or not.. I'm not the biggest fan of mainstream porn.
I just want to clarify that this client didn't have a negative attitude in the sense that he seemed excited and happy, not hateful, he just kinda got carried away. I think he just saw that my duo partner offered PSE and he was not an experienced client so he didn't compensate her fairly. It's not an excuse tho. No one should behave this way.Not all clients are going to be perfect unfortunately.. I try to offer a good experience to people who aren't perfect. I try to give people second chances. Sometimes it's not a great idea
Would I see him again with another duo partner? Not unless we had a discussion about consent and the partner would be informed. This specific duo partner, I would totally understand if she didn't want to see him anymore. This is hypothetical anyways. And I did mention that I often regret giving second chances.. sometimes it's worth it but often it isn't.
I don’t really understand this or the reasoning.
If he did not seek consent and did something outside her boundaries without it no amount of compensation can resolve that.
Consent is not about money. You don’t just do things and then try to offer money to compensate for bad behaviour.
So was she pissed because he did what he did or because he didn’t pay enough for what he did, which is it.?
So is this something she normally does if the right amount is offered I guess is another way to ask.
My mistress was going to bring a friend and the rate was the same as hers but the sp cancelled as I was preparing for this with in 2 weeks! I would never ask her to bring her friend again!
My understanding is that he booked the duo for GFE. But somehow he behaved as in a PSE maybe because he knew that the other SP was providing it as an option.
1- she wasn't pissed. She just said "oh he's a bit intense" and that's it. There was no drama about this. It was just me that felt bad because I was afraid my client made her uncomfortable
2- this person has both GFE and PSE rates. The client tried to get a PSE experience from her in my presence but only paid the GFE rate.
3- acts need to be discussed beforehand. Suppose I offer something as an extra or different rate and I'm not prepared for it and the client didn't mention it beforehand, consent isn't present...
This situation isn't hard to understand.
Or if we take a more graphical example (although a PSE should be graphical enough...), say a provider has Greek as an option but the client has booked for GFE only and suddenly do Greek ...
Proposing services doesn't mean it's available on demand.
Proposing services doesn't mean it's available on demand.
[Clients] What are your thoughts on website forms? What are your thoughts on questions by email?
I am trying to add the following questions to my booking process:
“Makeup. Yes or no?”
“Perfume. Yes or no?”
Because I’ve noticed some men like perfume but some men are married and worried
I am trying to add the following questions to my booking process:
“Makeup. Yes or no?”
“Perfume. Yes or no?”
Because I’ve noticed some men like perfume but some men are married and worried
You don’t do that! My ex asked me to pull her hair but she requested it and I did it light but you just do not do that!
I think it's an excellent idea. Not just because some men are married, but also because there's a significant amount of people that are allergic to perfume and strong scents. Also, many men say they are against makeup, but sometimes that just means obvious makeup, and a natural look, even with makeup, is fine, so possibly both levels of comfort for SP and client can be accommodated. I also think that just like men asking their SPs about their do's and don't that asking clients about their preferences before the session can only be beneficial to both parties. I honestly wish that more ladies would do what you are considering doing.
Ya! I noticed the SPS that came to me never smelled anything of perfume or lotions !
I used to sell perfume wholesale at one point in my life and it's not just about scents or no scents sometimes, or about allergies, but also about particular types of scents. Sometimes it's about being allergic and sometimes it's about a negative association with certain types of scents. Asking guys if they like scents and if there's anything in particular that puts them off is a good idea. You'd be surprised how many men have negative associations with certain types of scents because of mom or ex-girlfriends or whatever. Many men have who have nothing against perfume still hate certain types of scents, so asking if they especially like things that are clean, musky, floral, fruity, spicy, powdery or whatever may actually increase the "growlf!" factor.
I love a foot scent with SPS soooo hot!I used to sell perfume wholesale at one point in my life and it's not just about scents or no scents sometimes, or about allergies, but also about particular types of scents. Sometimes it's about being allergic and sometimes it's about a negative association with certain types of scents. Asking guys if they like scents and if there's anything in particular that puts them off is a good idea. You'd be surprised how many men have negative associations with certain types of scents because of mom or ex-girlfriends or whatever. Many men have who have nothing against perfume still hate certain types of scents, so asking if they especially like things that are clean, musky, floral, fruity, spicy, powdery or whatever may actually increase the "growlf!" factor.
These are the most personal kind of play as most wives would never engage in so always be nice have nice conversations before! We are all human beings!
Website forms is fine but shouldn't be to bothersome to fill. Maybe like having checkboxes will allow less typing.
Questions by email like you ask them or they ask it?
Makeup and perfume is fine to add. But I would nuance that for the perfume or body cream I personally like without. Reason is more for the sake of feeling and kissing.
Maybe can add questions about accessories, costumes, etc.
I wonder who else is retiring?
Baby Li-Anna-August 31st
Adaline Rose-September 4th
Today Bambi Dawn announced retirement for October 30th
Baby Li-Anna-August 31st
Adaline Rose-September 4th
Today Bambi Dawn announced retirement for October 30th
