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PatHibulaire said:
I'm a fairly new member of MERB and I just finished reading this long, very informative and addictive thread. Thank you Lena for starting it. Often in life, there is more to be learned about the person who is asking the question than about the answer itself!.

My first question for the lady's is as follows :

If a regular client that you appreciate and see for 2 hrs dates and 4 hrs dinnerdates regularly asked you if you would consider accompanying him to watch a movie or a show free of charge following one of your regular 4 hrs dinnerdate at regular price, how would you feel?

I'm asking because I respect what SW's do for society and for me in particular and would never want to offend a person I truly appreciate by asking her a freebie either for an intimate date or a social date in a bar or restaurant. That said, I would never pay hundreds of dollars just to have a person to sit next to me during a show knowing full well that nothing will happen except maybe holding hands.

Thank you ladies for taking time to answer this question.
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Often personal and professional time are mixed together.
It's easy to take the shortcut and say that watching a movie it's nice and should be a win win for everyone.

But as clients we need to remember that her time to us is professional time. We might think that we are giving "just" personal time.

To your point regarding paying a SP for holding hands, you are free to think the worth of your money for that but again, a SP is giving you this time as a professional time. If you want to make your money worth, you can just book the corresponding service needed.

If you take it to the extreme, just imagine a SP saying yes to all free activities from multiple (yes we are not alone and she is not dedicated to us) clients. Where is her own, real free time?

Having said that I would say if the SP on her own (and not on suggestions from the client) decide to give free time, it's her call and decision. We should not take it for granted.
Also a client asking for such freebies is also putting her in a difficult positions. Even though she appreciates you, she is human and it hurts to push back someone that you can appreciate although it's a professional relationship.

Here was my blunt 2 cents :)
 
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LC18 said:
“I should have booked you instead of spending money on another person”

“I want to book you but you’re out of my budget so I will book this person instead”

“I am planning on seeing this person and maybe you”

“I wish your rates were the same as this person”


Do you read yourself before you press send?
Do you think it gives us a good impression?
Why did you think it was a good idea to send that?
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That's basically negotiations tactics lol
 
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PatHibulaire said:
I'm a fairly new member of MERB and I just finished reading this long, very informative and addictive thread. Thank you Lena for starting it. Often in life, there is more to be learned about the person who is asking the question than about the answer itself!.

My first question for the lady's is as follows :

If a regular client that you appreciate and see for 2 hrs dates and 4 hrs dinnerdates regularly asked you if you would consider accompanying him to watch a movie or a show free of charge following one of your regular 4 hrs dinnerdate at regular price, how would you feel?

I'm asking because I respect what SW's do for society and for me in particular and would never want to offend a person I truly appreciate by asking her a freebie either for an intimate date or a social date in a bar or restaurant. That said, I would never pay hundreds of dollars just to have a person to sit next to me during a show knowing full well that nothing will happen except maybe holding hands.

Thank you ladies for taking time to answer this question.
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Why would you not include the movie in your social date time?
 
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LC18 said:
How would you feel if your boss asked you to come in on a Saturday but wouldn’t pay you? You’ve been working there for years so surely you would say yes, right?
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Thanks for your answer. Certainly don't want to start an argument here, I see your point but I don't believe that going to watch a show after having a 4 hrs dinner date in a nice restaurant compares to working a full day for free. I'm not asking for a free GFE date. But again I asked your for your feelings and I understand for you it's a no-no. Thank you.
 
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PatHibulaire said:
Thanks for your answer. Certainly don't want to start an argument here, I see your point but I don't believe that going to watch a show after having a 4 hrs dinner date in a nice restaurant compares to working a full day for free. I'm not asking for a free GFE date. But again I asked your for your feelings and I understand for you it's a no-no. Thank you.
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I see your pov, but the issue is that this business is not like most. The business IS the time spent with you. So the only way, really, for your idea to have legs is if she brings up the idea of spending time with you outside of the "meeting" scenario. Otherwise it will just seem like you want more time with her for free... when her business is literally her time. It's not like asking the cashier out on a date after her shift.
 
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Rebaynia said:
Why would you not include the movie in your social date time?
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Thank you, really I appreciate any reply to my question. As a client, even if I consider myself a very respectful person, I understand I need to see things from the SP's point of view. To answer your question, I am willing to pay for social time but for me social times means talking with the person, learning about her, having a good time with that person. Not watching a show in silence. Nevertheless, so far seeing the answers I got, It doesn't seem to be a very good idea. Thank you for your input Rebaynia .
 
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PatHibulaire said:
If a regular client that you appreciate and see for 2 hrs dates and 4 hrs dinnerdates regularly asked you if you would consider accompanying him to watch a movie or a show free of charge following one of your regular 4 hrs dinnerdate at regular price, how would you feel?
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Define regularly? If you book these 6-hour long appointments with me every week, after 3 months we should start discussing an arrangement, of course!
 
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TheJames101 said:
I see your pov, but the issue is that this business is not like most. The business IS the time spent with you. So the only way, really, for your idea to have legs is if she brings up the idea of spending time with you outside of the "meeting" scenario. Otherwise it will just seem like you want more time with her for free... when her business is literally her time. It's not like asking the cashier out on a date after her shift.
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Thank you, excellent answer that give me food for thoughts. The funny part is that I already know that time is the most valuable thing we have but somehow I did not see that in that particular situation. Really appreciate your input on this.
 
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social time but for me social times means talking with the person, learning about her, having a good time with that person. Not watching a show in silence.
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My head on your shoulder, our hands on thighs, exchanging a look and a laugh when a funny scene comes up, discussing of the movie afterwards, whispering a few dirty things during the movie; watching a movie for me is always a shared experience. I bet you never had a good movie companion :- )
 
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Giselle Montreal said:
My head on your shoulder, our hands on thighs, exchanging a look and a laugh when a funny scene comes up, discussing of the movie afterwards, whispering a few dirty things during the movie; watching a movie for me is always a shared experience. I bet you never had a good movie companion :- )
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If you bring me to a scary movie I will need somewhere to hide and put my head :p
 
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Giselle Montreal said:
My head on your shoulder, our hands on thighs, exchanging a look and a laugh when a funny scene comes up, discussing of the movie afterwards, whispering a few dirty things during the movie; watching a movie for me is always a shared experience. I bet you never had a good movie companion :- )
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Merci Gisele, I always liked to read your comments during my 2 weeks of reading this thread. I certainly see your point. Let me assure you that I had very pleasing movie watching experience lol. Again judging by the answers I got it may not be a very good idea to propose a personal date like that. Merci pour m'avoir partagé ton opinion. Je pense que c'est a ça que sert ce thread.
 
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Giselle Montreal said:
Sorry, I am not the right girl for a scary movie, I just can't watch those!
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Your head on my chest, your hands holding tightly my arm, exchanging few screams but never looking at the screen, telling ourselves afterwards we will never watch it again, hiding under the blanket the whole night because we have post traumatic images of the movie, that's a good dating night idea :cool::p
 
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I actually recently had this thought about scary movies. Somehow the women that I like like scary movies ...
I was telling myself that watching a scary movie is one of the silly things I would do just to be close to her ...

Any silly things you did or you will do just to be close to someone? Or for someone to like you?
 
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PatHibulaire said:
Thanks for your answer. Certainly don't want to start an argument here, I see your point but I don't believe that going to watch a show after having a 4 hrs dinner date in a nice restaurant compares to working a full day for free. I'm not asking for a free GFE date. But again I asked your for your feelings and I understand for you it's a no-no. Thank you.
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I pray for the day you guys will start realizing that spending time with you is our job. Doesn’t matter what we do:

Cooking
Fucking
Sleeping
Counting ants
Riding a Uber

I don’t care. It’s time that I have decided to spend with you when I could be doing something at home for myself.

You guys would hate it if your employer decided to not pay you because you are drinking coffee and not working. It’s still within the hours of your work shift and you deserve to be paid for that just like we do when we decide to go have a coffee with you
 
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This will do nothing in answering my original question, but I will make a poll asking merb clients to self-rate their physical attractiveness, once my current poll on friendship ends. Should be interesting.
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There is one large factor that you are missing.
Like most men it is not that I can’t attract women at all that I see escorts the problem is that I am not attracted to the ones that I can easily attract.
In my younger days it would never have entered my mind to see escorts as I could pretty much find as many as I wanted.

Obviously what I am talking about is that while I would have lived 2 lifetimes with my wife and she was just as gorgeous when she aged, that does not hold true for women that I am not head over heels in love with.
Women in my age bracket do not attract me at all even if they fall into being the most attractive for their age. Now attracting one half my age unfortunately does not work well even if you are decent looking for your age.

Then there is the other matter that most of these women come with a shit load of baggage, they have already managed to screw up their life maybe more than once and all they want is a financial benefactor plus who on earth wants to deal with their lunatic families and mine would have a real hard time accepting them after their mom.

It sometimes has nothing to do with how attractive you are that you see escorts, sometimes it is just way easier to have zero commitment and to see someone who is really gorgeous in your eyes and if you are lucky enough like me then you manage to find an escort who is not only gorgeous and kind but one that you become close friends with.
 
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I pray for the day you guys will start realizing that spending time with you is our job. Doesn’t matter what we do:

Cooking
Fucking
Sleeping
Counting ants
Riding a Uber

I don’t care. It’s time that I have decided to spend with you when I could be doing something at home for myself.

You guys would hate it if your employer decided to not pay you because you are drinking coffee and not working. It’s still within the hours of your work shift and you deserve to be paid for that just like we do when we decide to go have a coffee with you
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I can cook
I can sleep
I can count ants
I don’t need an uber I have a car.

That leaves only one thing and for that luckily I have hundreds of choices.
 
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LC18 said:
I pray for the day you guys will start realizing that spending time with you is our job. Doesn’t matter what we do:

Cooking
Fucking
Sleeping
Counting ants
Riding a Uber

I don’t care. It’s time that I have decided to spend with you when I could be doing something at home for myself.

You guys would hate it if your employer decided to not pay you because you are drinking coffee and not working. It’s still within the hours of your work shift and you deserve to be paid for that just like we do when we decide to go have a coffee with you
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Lunaseraphim said:
I understand why you're asking this question and while I get why you don't want to pay a lot of money if you can't touch the SP, some of us have a social rate. I've allowed clients I already knew to hold my hand during a movie but they still paid for social time.. but generally social time doesn't involve any kind of physical affection.

I think 2h and 4h dates are very generous etc and I think some SP might accept it but many of us wouldn't.. personally I probably wouldn't because I often don't have the time and energy, unless it was a special occasion. It shouldn't be taken personally that the SP can't do this...

You're paying for the person's time. If I'm going to see a movie, I will go alone or with a friend on my own time.. I hope this helps :)
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Thank you Lena, Luna and everybody who gave me their opinions. I get it now, time is time. What we are buying from S.P.'s is time, (everybody's most precious commodity) whether it is intimate, social or leisure. Asking for free leisure time is asking for a freebie. And the provider is free to do what she wants with her own time with whomever she chooses to spend it with. Also the S.P. might feel pressured to accept something for fear of damaging a good relationship with a regular. I for one don't want that. Finally I'm glad I asked and I certainly learned something today.
 
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Here's a question: Are there times you consciously try not to cum, when with a client? I know everyone has different post-orgasm refractory periods so I'm wondering if there's scenarios where you deliberately hold out, like if the session is a long one or if it becomes too sensitive immediately following or you know your horniness might wane afterwards? I wonder genuinely bc I do this sometimes, mainly just to stay on the razors edge of climax, and I'm curious if there's more reasons to do it since continued/prolonged intimacy may be expected.
 
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PatHibulaire said:
Thanks for your answer. Certainly don't want to start an argument here, I see your point but I don't believe that going to watch a show after having a 4 hrs dinner date in a nice restaurant compares to working a full day for free. I'm not asking for a free GFE date. But again I asked your for your feelings and I understand for you it's a no-no. Thank you.
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Bottom line is you are nothing more than a John, no matter how much money you spent, it remains a transaction, never forget it.
 
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